In modern society, will it really be a loss if you don t listen to the elderly?

This kind of thing is not absolute, in fact, whether it is a modern society, or a previous society, people who do not listen to the old man's words, in the end, there are losses and fools, but it does not mean that what the old man says must be right, if you do it according to the "old man's words", there will be no innovation in this world, there will be no new possibilities. And with the development of the times, as well as the different specific situations encountered, what the old man said may not all be applicable. I've seen two opposite examples.

The first example is an example of not listening to the old man and finally suffering a loss. In the past, before my eldest sister went to college, my mother told her to be cautious in college, because college is equivalent to a small society, and people's hearts are unpredictable. However, since he was in college in high school, he thought that students were pure and didn't care very much, and finally she regretted it when she was stolen a few hundred dollars in cash from her dorm room.

This second example is about not listening to the old man, but in the end, he didn't suffer. When we were in school, especially after junior high school, our grandparents, parents, and school teachers would often teach us not to fall in love, but I have a friend who fell in love when she was in high school. She and a boy who sat in front of him in high school gradually attracted each other in their daily interactions, and finally fell in love with their parents and teachers without telling them.

The phenomenon we are familiar with is that after the students fall in love, they have no intention of studying, and they always want to go out on a date, and finally their grades drop, but the two of them do not. Instead, they encouraged each other in high school, in order to have more time to meet each other, and also to get into the same university, and even used weekends to study together in the classroom. In the end, although they were not admitted to the same university, they studied in the same city, graduated and worked for a year or two, and then entered the palace of marriage, and now they live happily together, and some time ago I heard that their baby is about to be born.

Therefore, to sum up, if you don't listen to the old man, whether you will suffer a loss has to be considered in a comprehensive and specific situation.

Sometimes you really suffer, why is the old man right? It is based on the experience of life, and those who have come before always have a say than those who have not experienced it.

Just like when I chose a major after the college entrance examination, my parents wanted me to choose a normal major or nursing and finance, because there is a way out in the future, and there is a relationship in the family in this area, so it is relatively easy to find a job, and in today's society, it is too difficult to have a stable job.

But I didn't listen to my parents' advice and chose to major in architecture, although my mother said that girls were not suitable for studying architecture, but she didn't stop me, she said that she was afraid that I would blame her in the future.

Later, after graduating, I found it really difficult to find a job, and later I regretted that I didn't listen to my parents' advice at that time, but I still persevered, after all, the path I chose, even if I was on my knees, I had to finish it. After working for a long time and having no prospects, I quit my job and wanted to find another job.

In fact, at that time, I didn't have a specific goal, so I was bent on finding a stable job, and then when I had the opportunity, I didn't listen to my parents' advice. A friend of my dad had a place to enter the highway toll booth at the time, but it was in the field, the salary was high, and there was a lot of rest, and my parents strongly asked me to go, but I still didn't go, because I didn't want to go to the field, but now that I think about it, I really let such a good opportunity slip away.

Later, fortunately, I listened to my parents' advice and changed careers to become a teacher. In fact, if I had listened to them, I wouldn't have had to take so many detours, but there are some things that I won't know without experiencing them, so let's take it as an experience in life.

Many times, my parents' vision is far farther than mine, don't think they don't understand anything, many times, they see more clearly than us, don't regret not being obedient after you have suffered a loss.

This matter cannot be absolutely defined, but after all, the elderly have a lot of experience, and they see many things more clearly than young people, and some things they may have experienced, after all, people of a certain age look at the problem from different angles, and may consider things more comprehensively based on their experience.

But the old man's words are not necessarily right, because the times are changing, there may be some things that the old thinking can not accept, but it is not necessarily bad, sometimes we need to judge ourselves, but the advice given by the old man must be referenced, don't insist on going your own way, and in the end it is we who are hurt, and the old man is worried that we will think more comprehensively.

There is a saying: "Don't listen to the old man, suffer in front of you" This sentence is not unreasonable, no matter how the times are changing, after all, the old man has experienced more than us, he has come step by step from our age, and some things have more experience than us, so the old man's advice to you must be referenced, but it is not necessarily right, you need to have your own judgment, so that you can grow.

As the saying goes: If you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer in front of you, 5 sentences of "old man's words" are real folk wisdom.

If you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer in front of you" is still useful today? Whether it is useful or not depends entirely on the word "faith", if you believe in the old man's words, it will be useful, and if you don't believe it, it will be useless.

Some people say that in today's information age, young people are very smart, and they control all kinds of information, and they understand a wide range of knowledge, and some of the old people are not even good at mobile phones, and they lack faith in their words and can not listen to them.

This sounds very reasonable, and it does prove in some theories that the backwardness of the elderly. In particular, the elderly have entered their twilight years, their minds are rigid, their brains are dull, and some have Alzheimer's. But in fact, some old people's words are backward or incorrect.

Some fallacies (that is, the thoughts of some historical celebrities and philosophers) have remained unchanged for thousands of years, and they are still very useful, and our national culture has been spreading for thousands of years, fully showing its vitality, and the Chinese culture has slowly been recognized all over the world, which fully proves this concept. In today's information age, new branches, new knowledge, new technologies, and rebirth things are emerging in an endless stream, and the old people are really left behind. This makes people very conflicted.

It also makes a higher request for all people, that is, to not study, the elderly to enrich themselves, and to put forward rationalization proposals for young people.

So can the old man really not listen to what he says? I don't think so, the old people have had a lot of experience since they were young, they use the years, with the experience of blood and tears you can't learn with knowledge, their words are not only important, their deeds are also very important, the important thing is not to ignore. Some words and deeds are really communicated with life, and some words and deeds are one wrong step and will lead to the abyss.

Young people should also study the classics left by the ancients, and find out how to separate the experiences left by the ancients and the old people from the ideals of the present, and use them to improve and enhance the feast. For example, take the international financial economists, the prospects of China's economy have been disappointed several times, so that they really can't understand the dust and the skin, such as confused, what is the reason, that is, they use the ideas of Westerners to judge the market trend of Chinese Orientals will definitely fail, because China's traditional is a savings society, not consumption-oriented, these alone let our nation state survive countless difficulties and obstacles.

Therefore, the influence of these words and deeds is very important and cannot be repeated, and you will take many detours after listening to the old man's words.

Therefore, I still advise some young people, especially when you are confused, to ask the old people around you more, their words may be useful to you. Remember that there is an old man in the family, if there is a treasure. If you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer in front of you.

It is still applicable to some things, not that everything is applicable, after all, the older generation may have traveled more roads than us, and their social experience is richer than ours. It is also a very happy thing to be able to occasionally hear him implicitly dissuasion.

Of course, this sentence also applies to today's society. The elderly are an asset to society, and they have a lot of experience. Listen to them right.

I don't think it applies. Because some elderly people, their concepts have not kept up with the pace of the times.

The special growth environment has created a more stubborn character, and it is difficult to listen to the opinions given by the elders based on life experience, thinking that it is an outdated mindset and not suitable for them. This cannot be said without any truth. However, if everyone's opinions are not listened to, go their own way, "one tendon", and go completely according to their own feelings, it will be difficult to ensure much success.

Young people who have just entered the society do not bother to listen to the views and opinions of some people who have come before. Of course, these perceptions and opinions may not all be correct, or they may not all be suitable for you. Therefore, instead of listening blindly, we must listen with analysis and judgment, compare ourselves with our original viewpoints, and if we compare them, we will distinguish them, learn from each other's strengths, and make our own views, ideas, and practices more perfect.

This issue needs to be looked at from multiple perspectives. First of all, today's young people grew up in the age of information, and they received much more information than previous generations. This information is extensive, including family, school, social, news, and more.

As a result, they have more self-awareness and the ability to think independently, as well as greater decision-making power over their choices and direction in life. In this case, they may think that the experiences and advice of the older generation are outdated or not applicable to the current society.

Second, many young people harbor a rebellious mood that wants to break free from traditions, rules, and restrictions. In such a situation, they may refuse to listen to the advice of the older generation, believing that it is a shackle to their own development. It is also a form of self-expression and self-actualization, believing that the true self can only be found by stepping out of the boxing and limitations.

Thirdly, modern society pursues individualism, political correctness, and pluralism, and many young people believe that the values of the older generation are different from theirs, so they are reluctant to listen to the advice of the older generation. For example, in some traditional cultures, the authority of parents over their children is unchallengeable, but in modern society, many young people believe that they have their own values, grind their own way of life, and choose their own path.

On the other hand, the older generation may not have adapted to the changes in contemporary society and lack patience and understanding when expressing their opinions. They often use more coercive language rather than caring and respecting young people's opinions. As a result, young people may feel slighted or ignored and react by refusing to listen to advice.

In short, the dislike of young people to listen to the advice of the older generation is a complex issue that needs to be considered from different perspectives. On this issue, we need to communicate more actively and understand each other, young people need to know that the experiences and suggestions of the older generation are still valuable, and the older generation also needs to be open and patient to understand the views and needs of young people.

The old man said

Sometimes an ancient adage is like a beaconIt's a sudden enlightenment! In the short words, the wisdom is clear and bright!

What old sayings do you remember? Don't envy others, not everyone is so perfect, you just don't see it.

If you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer in front of your guess.

Because after all, the times are different, and a considerable part of the values of the parents or grandparents are no longer applicable to this era. Therefore, no matter what problems we encounter, we must look at them dialectically, and we must not solidify our thinking or listen to others' advice.

Because the old people have experienced a lot, they can see many human principles in life more thoroughly, while young people don't listen to the old people and insist on making their own decisions, which is easy to suffer.

Hello, dear, don't listen to the old man, the sentence of suffering in front of you is indeed reasonable. Because the life experience of older people is very rich. They've been through a lot.

Have your own independent judgment on some things. Know what's right and what's wrong, what should be done and what shouldn't be done.

So they tend to tell young people about their life experiences. It can make young people take fewer detours. Do less wrong.

But young people often don't listen to older people. You're nosy. So always willing to do it on your own terms. The result is in a big heel. This is also the fulfillment of the saying: If you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer in front of you.

The old man's words are a precious treasure, a kind of ancient wisdom, because there are some things that they have experienced, and they have unique opinions.

Most of what the old people say is based on the experience of the past few years, and they often have more profound insights and opinions, which are beyond the reach of young people.

Because the old man has endured a lot of hardships in his life and accumulated a lot of experience, if he doesn't listen to their advice, he may take a lot of detours.

After all, they have experienced a lot, and they know more than young people, so it is definitely right to listen to their elders when they encounter things.