What was it like to have no friends at school?

The school is a small society, in this small society, all kinds of people have, there are well-connected people, they seem to have a natural interpersonal relationship, from the beginning of entering the school, it seems that all the people revolve around them, before class, they occupy each other's seats, and if she is lonely, if she goes late, and no one occupies a seat for her, she can only sit alone in the back of the classroom, silently listening to the class, in the classroom, as long as there is a discussion link, you can see her lonely figure, Next to it is a group of girlfriends giggling, every time I see such a scene, I feel very sorry for her, at the end of class, the people around go to the toilet together, on the way to talk about the latest new things, and she can only go alone

Especially in the cafeteria, the girlfriends followed up to discuss what to eat for a while, they held hands, lined up in a long line on the campus, that was more than the momentum, walked in a row, as if to tell the classmates again, we have always been together, don't want to separate us, and lonely she, she has no friends, quietly huddled in the crowd, lonely, lonely, there is no intimate person around, there is no one to talk to if there are any problems, go to the library, classroom, is also a person, in life, If you need help from others, you can't do it alone, just take the luggage as an example, you can't move it alone, and no one can help you, and you will have a sense of loss in your heart when you see that others have moved it, and you will feel a sense <>of loss in your heart, and you will lose why you have no friends

There are no friends at school, no one to help you, lonely, then let yourself become better, as long as you become excellent, excellent people will be attracted, and talking to excellent people will make you more confident

If you don't have friends at school, especially in college, it will seem that you are very abrupt, and in the eyes of others, it must be super strange how she started to mess around and set up some of her own ideas.

In college, roommates usually go out in groups, eat together, go out to class, and party, if you stand alone at this time, you must also feel out of place. Eating alone, taking classes alone, taking couriers alone, that is, going to the playground for a walk are two, three, three or five, many times the heart will long to have someone with you, but also hope to integrate, loneliness is important.

I've been like this for a while.,The two who played okay asked for leave to go home to study.,The kind of distribution in our dormitory is a little obvious.,I'm a person.,I'm a little shy when I enter the class.,Walk in quickly with your head down.,At that time, you'll reflect on yourself.,Why didn't you make a good friend in college to accompany you.,At this time, there will be a feeling of loneliness and loneliness.,When you go to eat alone, you pretend not to care if you don't eat it quickly or pack it back to the dormitory.。

Anyway, if you're alone in school, the experience is really bad, make good friends, remember to let go of yourself, don't twist again, otherwise you will be hurt when you are alone. It's embarrassing. Don't feel pressured to think that others don't like you.

Like myself, even if sometimes there are three people together and I don't like to talk very much, then it's obvious that the two of them have a better relationship, but this kind of stereotyped trio still doesn't change, and school is almost all three points and one line. But don't be like me, talk more so that people can understand you better, and it's better to have more friends than nothing.

Growing up, I was a loner, and it wasn't until college that I had a long-term companion, that is, roommates, but we usually go our separate ways, and we foodies only have collective activities when we have dinners. We didn't think there was anything wrong with that, but we felt comfortable with each other. In the words of the head of the room, the eyes of the heart are all on eating, and there is not so much care.

It's not that no one told me that I should be more positive and outgoing in my relationships, and it's not that I haven't been ridiculed and hurt by isolation because I'm alone. But I'm still free, I do what I want, and my little life is so comfortable.

Why should I force myself to be outgoing and long-sleeved? I've always been an introverted and withdrawn person who lives in my own world, have I ever hindered anyone? Have you ever forced anyone?

Have you ever had a conflict with anyone? Do I have a personality deficit and social impairment? The answer to these questions is no!

I'm alone but have a harmonious relationship with the people around me, and I'm used to being alone and socializing normally, so why force myself to be what others like and expect! As for the harm of others to the outside world, it is not worth mentioning!

Who hasn't experienced blows and injuries, who hasn't encountered a few bumps!

I don't take myself and my own suffering and misfortune seriously, and there is nothing that I can't get over.

Whether you accept me, exclude me, treat me well, hurt me, I don't care, other people's attitudes have nothing to do with me, I just need to know what I like and want, it's enough!

Whether it is a confidant or a lonely person, I can rely on my own unswervingly, which is my greatest pride!

Very inferior and introverted, I didn't have any in elementary school. Every day is a loner.

If a person does not have friends in school, he will definitely be very lonely psychologically, but he must also study hard and ignore these things.

Actually, ......When you get used to it, you don't feel it, you feel lonely at first, and then you only feel indifferent.

I just want to take care of everything by myself and not depend on anyone. Because no one knows that the person who has always been good to you will leave that day.

Summary. Hello classmates, I'm glad to answer for you, why I don't have friends at school? Is it an introvert? Don't want to take the initiative to communicate with your classmates?

Hello classmates, I'm glad to answer for you, why is there no friend at school because of the manuscript? Is it your own introverted personality that fights on the side? Don't you want to take the initiative to communicate with Tongqi Huxue?

Friends are made from scratch, if you have just entered a new environment, you must be facing a new teacher, a new classmate, which means that you can tell you to meet more people to make friends, as long as you let go a little, take the initiative to greet your classmates, and integrate into it, I believe you will have friends soon.

Mencius said: Those who love others, people always love them, and those who respect people will respect people Hengji Li Jingzhi. Take the initiative to care about other students, for example, if other students have questions that they don't know, give them a lecture.

Seeing that a classmate didn't bring a pen and took the initiative to lend it to a classmate, it would naturally get the love of the classmate. Of course, the purpose of helping Tongdong Zaoxue is not to have a playmate, but to be really willing to help others, so that children will make more friends.

It has to do with the child's personality. Some children are naturally outgoing and enthusiastic and like to make friends; Some children are born with poor adaptability, and when encountering unfamiliar personnel, they will involuntarily feel restrained, overwhelmed, lack the ability to adjust, and show withdrawal.

Parents are overprotective. Parents take into account all the details of life, overprotect their children, and let their children develop a strong psychology of dependence. This situation is even more pronounced in intergenerational upbringing.

Overprotection will cause children to encounter all kinds of discomfort and frustration when socializing, causing children to be afraid and withdrawn, showing dislove or even fear of socializing.

Parents are too strict. Some parents are impatient, or have high expectations for their children, are demanding of their children, speak harshly, and even scold and intimidate. If a child makes a mistake occasionally, it will attract criticism such as "unproductive", and over time, the child will naturally become unconfident and insecure.

How to solve it? 】

Practice expression and speaking. Storytelling is a great way to speak in public, and can be practiced often. At first, the parents can tell the story first, and the child repeats it, or the child can take a picture book and tell the story.

No matter what you say, parents must encourage and not be picky. Slowly, the child has a little self-confidence, you can invite other children to come to the house, and let the child tell stories to the friends. The more you practice, the better your child will speak.

You don't have to make a lot of friends, it's important to be sincere.