How to self regulate when you are injured by your boss?

First of all, don't keep these injuries in mind, be sure to put them aside, once you take them seriously, then you will definitely be the only one who will be hurt.

I used to work for a paint company, and I had a colleague who was a sales manager and was in the same office as me, who was a decade older than me, and he said that he was already in college when I first walked.

There was a company meeting to discuss performance, and his performance at that time was not very good, the bottom kind, and then the boss said that he was on the spot.

In fact, the boss often said that others were in meetings, but that day, I didn't know what the situation was, and the boss asked me in front of so many employees if I knew how to write the word "person".

At that time, everyone at the bottom was stupid, and this sentence was too ruthless, and I felt that the boss was talking too much, which was obviously not as simple as criticism, it was simply trampling on dignity.

As a result, when he returned to the office, he was like no one, and we thought he was pretending to be strong, so we all ran over to comfort him and told him not to take it to heart.

As a result, it turned out that we thought too much, and people were really fine, so they directly told us a sentence of "what are you doing, isn't it just a sentence, what's so angry".

Later, after taking a closer look, he was really fine, and we were relieved. After a long time, I asked him once, don't you feel embarrassed that the boss said this to you in front of so many people?

As a result, he said: It's normal to be said at work, and it's true that he didn't achieve his goals, and what the boss said is really ugly, but what people say, such unqualified words in front of so many people, is enough to prove what kind of person he is, why should I bother with him.

After listening to it at the time, I thought he was very good, and now, I think that no matter what kind of injury the boss has, the mentality is the most important, because what the boss says and does, maybe he forgets it as soon as he turns around, so you should do the same.

And it doesn't make sense for you to keep remembering, so why not forget these and do your own thing steadfastly!

Either endure or get out, people like me who don't have money generally choose to endure, implying that they are all for money.

Heartbroken, I guess I don't even have the courage to live.

Whether it is burns or scalds, if it is severe, it will not be able to detoxify and affect the life expectancy. If you feel sad, go on a trip to recuperate.

Let's see that you are troubled by feelings again! How did you get so bad? What do you mean by your reluctance to give up?

Because you are looking forward to it, firmly believing that he will turn back, and the day when your "bitterness will come" will come sooner or later! It's just a matter of time! In other words, no matter what happens to you, your original intention for him remains the same, and you have "gone mad" and "can't extricate yourself"!

Don't be afraid not to break up with any packages.

It's this phenomenon, many of the people who hurt themselves the most are the people around you who know you best, and they may also be the most important people about yourself, you can imagine that if it's two strangers, before you want to hurt each other, you will consider whether it will be immoral or inappropriate, etc., if it's a relative, it's different, the other party treats you as your own, and you will consider your own interests, but when it comes to the direct interests of the two of you, selfish people choose to protect themselves and hurt each other.

Because only the relatives and friends around you can hurt you, how can strangers hurt you, don't think so much, just live yourself, no matter who can get along, stay away if you can't.

You can say that, but if there is such a person, then you must stay away from him, because this kind of person is the most terrible.

What hurts you is what you think you are close to Because you have no reservations about him, he knows where you hurt**, but anyone who thinks you have a good relationship will not hurt you, so polish your eyes.

If he hurts you, it means that he doesn't like you, and it is impossible for people's feelings and personalities to change, and if he contacts you, it means that it is profitable for you, and good horses don't eat.

Hello dear! The biggest thing in the world of love is hurt.

Let yourself choose to give up, and don't love for someone who doesn't deserve it.

You're like me, I'm almost two months old now, and I still get sad and cry once in a while. But I don't really want to be with him anymore, I'm just sad.

Organize your emotions, find something to do, distract yourself, and after a while feel almost done, and start waiting for a new relationship.

A solo trip to travel and come back should be about the same.

As time goes by, let's see how deep your feelings are for him! Not everyone is like this to you! Depending on how much you like it.

Half a year, don't contact, don't ask.

To learn something else, forget about the feelings first, to learn to swim, it is better to find a coach to learn.

Time will be the best medicine, you should give up the past and really live your life with your heart

Don't contact and let yourself relax.

Self-regulation first, it's not worth looking forward, why be sad, go forward and you will definitely come out.

You have to think about the benefits of being single.

The breakup was neat, and now you want to hurt him once? There are many statistics that say that men always have a strong regret mentality after two or three months of breakup. You're typical. It's all done with her injuries, so don't bother others.

Then you're going to make yourself what he likes. It's just going to be tiring.

Give up and love yourself. Otherwise, in the end, you will still be hurt, even deeper, love yourself well, others will love you more, let him know that you are also precious.

Love is so bad that there is no cure, so I have to wait for you to wake up.

When you can't choose to decide to give up.

Many people say that love is the wind, and the moth is to the fire, but I personally feel that you need dignity, for the sake of loving you, and loving your parents and friends when you are in pain, are also suffering.

Let's face it, try to give up!

The person who hurts you and makes you miserable is not worthy of your nostalgia, let alone love, slowly forget it over time, I believe you will find the good half.

He is not worthy of your love, people must first know how to love themselves.

Well, forget about him, he doesn't deserve your love.

There are three ways to go after not believing: first, learn to believe again, second, be gay (women know women best), and third, stop trusting anyone, and live alone (I personally think this path is the most unreliable) will be lonely

Good men naturally exist, don't beat all men to death with a stick, I'm also a woman, and men will definitely think that you pass too many men when you say this.

Realize that it is not a good thing for men to take the initiative.

You've grown up, what a painful realization.

Most women are reluctant to get married for three reasons: first, for the sake of their children; the second is for vanity; The third is for dependence.

In fact, most of their thoughts are "taken for granted". Think about it, if the relationship between husband and wife really breaks down or is close to breaking down, in this case, even if you don't divorce, can you have a good living environment for your children? Obviously not; If it's for vanity, it's not necessary; If it is due to dependence, it can only mean that the woman is unable to be self-reliant, and even self-esteem no longer exists.

What do you think?

A lot of things are fine, but because of our incorrect behavior, if we leave our selfishness to face these things, things will eventually come to life.

If it's for the sake of the child, it won't end well. You can try to communicate, and if you can't communicate, then reconcile. If you can't be a husband and wife, you can be friends.

For the sake of the child, I was also seriously injured by my wife, and I remarried for the sake of the child after two years of divorce, but the relationship was very weak.

But you won't be happy with him so reluctantly, only you will be hurt.

We're in the same situation, we're getting divorced right now.