Do men really change when they get married? After getting married, men will not change

Many people say that men will become sloppy, lazy and irresponsible after marriage than before marriage, and so on, not only women say this, but some men also think so. Therefore, many girls have to think and examine for a long time before they dare to make a decision before getting married. Is this really the case?

I can't completely agree with this statement, although I am not married myself, but there are many boys around me who are a few years older than me who are married, and I can intuitively see the changes before and after they get married.

My cousin is just over a year older than me, but he is now a father of two. When he used to study, he was a well-known bad student in school, and he did all the bad students who asked other classmates for protection money, and he did all the things that got into fights. My aunt and they are also helpless against him, and they usually beat him up.

Later, he didn't study in high school for two years, and he has been chaotic in society. Later, his girlfriend became pregnant, and then they got married. After my brother got married, he was completely like two people, and after he got married, he worked with my aunt and uncle on the construction site in a down-to-earth manner, and he was not as lazy as before.

Sometimes his former fox friends asked him to go out for a drink, and he found all kinds of reasons to start prevaricating. In the end, he basically cut off contact with his former fox friends and dogs. Usually, he goes home from work to play with his son, and sometimes even helps with some housework.

The prodigal son's return to the gold does not change this sentence is completely tailor-made for my brother.

Some boys will indeed change to the bad side after getting married, because they didn't live with girls before they got married, and every time they meet with girls, they are tidy and tidy, and they will show their best side in front of girls when they get along. After getting married and living together, I didn't pay so much attention to it, and I began to expose my true nature, such as not liking to do laundry, not liking to cook, and so on. There are also some boys who are still in the same state of being single after getting married and having children, and they usually don't care too much about their families.

This kind of boy is the most annoying kind of girl, and the good thing to say is that he is not mature, and if he doesn't sound good, he is an irresponsible person.

Maybe it will change, after all, the daughter-in-law is also married, so there is no need to work hard to please her, and naturally she is not as gentle as before, and she does not have so much patience.

Well, it should be! Didn't you say it all before getting married, the variability is great! And the chances of change after marriage are not great!

From the love of the marriage feelings are in the changing stage of change, not only the feelings of both parties, but more importantly, the attitude of both parties to the feelings have changed significantly, in the process of love girls are often very reserved, but also in love, and boys are often very active, for the feelings are also wholeheartedly devoted, but when their feelings into the crystallization of love walking, the palace of marriage, their feelings have changed, and have to change.

In the actual love life, when love slowly transforms into marriage, there will be a lot of difficulties, because life is not completely ideal and romanticized, there will be more difficulties to overcome in the face of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, in the face of these difficulties in the process of love is also mixed with a lot of bitterness, for girls, it takes more time to take care of housework to run the family. Boys, on the other hand, spend more time running around to work hard to support their families. As a result, they don't have more time for close communication like when they are in a relationship.

So they both feel that each other's feelings have changed, especially girls, because girls are very sensitive to feelings, so they often feel that boys have changed a lot after getting married, and they no longer love themselves as much as before.

On the other hand, men do lose a lot of freshness about their feelings after marriage, and some men even maintain some ambiguous feelings with other girls after marriage, which leads to the fact that from the perspective of girls, men's changes are very big and unbearable.

During the relationship, all I care about is the merits and love of both parties... After marriage, you can't say everything, at least the shortcomings in his life have been exposed... LZ sister, what you said is all superficial, I don't understand and don't know the true thoughts of your husband at all, maybe according to your sister's thoughts, yes - he has changed...

There should be several aspects to this, frustration at work, friends don't understand, there are many, many such things... However, this is only an inference ... Only he knows the truth!!

Originally, after marriage, it was very normal to make the woman happy as my sister said... Sister,Now that you're approaching him and having a good talk with him.,It's unlikely to be likely.。。。 You don't need to blame yourself too much because you didn't make a mistake ...

It's cold like this for a while, so that at least he won't be so irritable, and you can talk to him again... hasn't turned on the red light yet, at least he hasn't said it so clearly, so that people can understand. Because I think that every party who gets married should be happy!!

Sister, let's hold off for a while, at least you can't do nothing and don't ask, to find the reason for this, don't you find the reason why you are willing to go on like this??? I don't think so... Emotionally, everyone has to be strong!!

Not all men will change their minds after getting married, so it depends on how the woman ties up her man, you are still dressed up before marriage, after marriage, you still have to dress up, do your best to maintain your appearance, and at the same time let your man, find that you are different from the previous advantages, let him feel that other women are not as good as you, you don't need to ask him like this, there is no need to ask him to do this, there are three outlines and five constants, the more you are bound, the easier it is to have problems, so give them a little free time.

Before getting married, it was a couple, they were equal, independent, and respected each other, and two people went on dates, watched movies, went shopping, etc., and lived a relatively simple life. Once they become husband and wife, the two establish a family, they will be busy for firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, and they will also run around for the pressure of life, and it is inevitable that unpleasantness and even quarrels will occur. A man goes from a boyfriend, to a husband, to a father, and perhaps the burden on his body is getting heavier and heavier, which will make him "change".

Of course it will change, and people will definitely change.

After marriage, you have a family and children to raise, and when the pressure is high, it will naturally change, but it is just good or bad.

I can't say that my personality will change, but not so much.

People change, from good to good, to evil.

In fact, men have always changed, it's just that you didn't see his essence clearly before marriage, and you were confused by the illusion of sweet words.

This is not accurate, some men are still very dedicated after marriage, and some men will change.

Why, since you are afraid that men will change, don't believe it, since you believe it, don't doubt it, then men are still afraid that you women will change after marriage.

Perhaps,After getting married, men and women will inevitably have various daily habits as they live together, which is also normal, and there is always a run-in time. Communicate well.

It's going to change. When you are in love, you only need to think about each other, and consider whether you love each other or not. After getting married, you will face a lot of pressure from reality, and you will both have periods of weakness. Not only men, but also women.

No, what kind of person is still the same after marriage, it is better to change yourself than to change others.

Some of them will, because I feel that there is no incense that I can't get when I get it. But there are still a lot of good men.

Do you mean the change in relationship after marriage? It should be a little bit! After returning to the family, the man will focus on his career, and he may neglect the family a little, not that he doesn't love you anymore, or the relationship is weak, but he has a sense of responsibility, and he should know more about working hard for the small family.

Men are more rational animals. Often, the man you knew before the end of the year is not the man you knew after you got married. So it's not the men who have changed, it's the girls who have changed.

If a man gets married, a woman will change when she gets married, and before and after marriage, she will become more attentive and take care of others.

Not necessarily, in terms of character, some people marry the object to my hand, and some people love each other for a lifetime, and character is very important.

Not necessarily, some men will change, and some men will not.

Not only men will change, but women will also change, just depending on how much they have changed.

That's for sure, women will change, right?

This varies from person to person, and there is no fixed number.