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Loneliness is just a psychological disease.
You have to taste the companionship and joy of life in order to enjoy yourself and your company. Every lonely person has a story.
Before, I didn't have any contact with my roommates a lot of times (except for taking classes together), especially when eating, I always felt awkward. Because I want to eat at a certain restaurant, I don't want to go out because I think I'm alone. Later, I gritted my teeth and went out, eating fried rice and listening to the conversations of the aunts at the stall.
At that time, I felt that I was not alone, and everyone was working hard for life.
Pretty good. In fact, everyone has a sense of loneliness, but everyone's feelings are different, some people are strong, some people are weak. For example, a person who lives for a long time often feels lonely.
Because people are social animals, they often feel lonely when they don't have contact with others. There is also a situation that is particularly obvious, that is, your good friends or favorite people go to a carnival with other people, and you can only stay alone, the contrast is especially great.
Loneliness is a state, not the norm, so don't be too nervous when you're lonely, and finding something to do for yourself will often be alleviated.
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Loneliness, but also with the continuous growth of slowly understand the word.
As we grow older, we have long since faded away from the immaturity and innocence of childhood, and now we think that we really can't go back to that carefree life. Childhood. High school is also the time when I understand the word loneliness the most, a new environment, a new face, leaving home to board at school, and when I am homesick, I dare not call my home, so I can only secretly shed tears in the bed.
Having to get used to having so many people in the class feels okay for extroverts, but introverts are really scared. A lot of times it's hugging yourself, even if you have something sad and sad, even if you fall on your stomach and shed tears for a long time, what does it have to do with others, people will play their own no one will care, a person's sadness always feels that the laughter of the people next to him at that time is particularly harsh, and even really annoying. Especially in the days when I went to other places for art training before the college entrance examination, I felt more obviously that only I could rely on myself.
If you want to work hard, then you can work hard yourself, and don't expect someone to stay up late with you and someone to do anything with you. At that time, I really never feared, just for myself. <>
It's college now, and by this time, everyone is probably playing on their own, and everyone is holding their mobile phones in the dormitory, enjoying their own world, and it's really hard to make a true friend, and it's hard to fit into other people's circles. Probably the loneliest time is when someone else has friends to go out to play and is alone in the dormitory, it's really boring to **, or when you quarrel with your boyfriend and cry alone in the middle of the night and no one to talk to, you really feel that no one can care about you, and it's far away from home, so you can only call your former friends for comfort. I always feel very grateful that even if someone gives you the first tissue to wipe your tears.
Maybe when you are far away from that home in your safe haven, you are destined to be lonely. Especially when I was getting farther and farther away from home, my eyes were red over and over again. <>
Adapt to a person's loneliness, as you grow older, you will no longer be as open-mouthed as before, and you will continue to be affected by the external environment, and more words will be given to yourself, rotten in the stomach, not all words are suitable for others, and others may not necessarily like to listen, you must remember that only you can rely on yourself, sometimes you feel that it is difficult to adapt to other people's habits, so why not make yourself easier, just be happier and happier. <>
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Sometimes, after a busy day. When you put down the pen, you will always feel infinitely empty. So, I wondered what caused people to feel empty and lonely.
From the other side, what will make people feel fulfilled and happy. Why do people have these two diametrically opposed thoughts and feelings? Is it the environment that influences us, or are we influencing ourselves?
Under what circumstances do people feel lonely and empty?
Is it when you're alone? Or is it in a large crowd? Is it on a rainy cloudy day to watch the rain alone by the window and think about life?
Or on a sunny day, climb high and look far away, and realize the vastness of the world and the insignificance of the individual? Or is it self-uneasiness to recognize the hypocrisy of human nature between pushing the cup and changing the lamp?
Maybe both!
The more I grew up, the more I realized that it was difficult to reach a consensus between people, and even more so the resonance of the heart.
I saw a saying that the search for recognition is a higher need of people. I don't think so, or there would be beggars donating money, and it would be a lot of money. How can there be a sage who eats and drinks and consciously lives freely.
These are psychological needs that have been met, and survival needs can be pressed if not fatally urgent. What the! You say they're all extreme examples, well, that makes sense.
But in the middle is often averages, but to a different degree.
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When you have no relatives and friends, no one to pay attention to, no one to comfort, no one to care, and you have no one to bear when you encounter anything, and you have no one to talk to, you feel very lonely and helpless at this time.
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I feel lonely during the holidays.
Because I am in a foreign country, I can only see other people reuniting with my family during the holidays, but I can only live alone.
So I feel lonely during the holidays.
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People may feel lonely only when they are in their most difficult time. Sometimes you encounter difficulties, sometimes you are sick, and when you are sad and sad, there is no one to rely on. You will feel lonely at this time.
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Psychologically speaking, that night is generally the loneliest time, and it is also the time when thoughts are the most abundant.
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When do you feel lonely? I just don't understand when others don't understand, and sometimes I feel lonely when I don't have a close friend to talk to.
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In the dead of night, I feel lonely, a person who really feels the unspeakable loneliness, and at the same time, this loneliness makes me feel really lonely, because there is no one to accompany me.
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I often feel that I will be lonely, especially in the dead of night, and that loneliness will arise spontaneously, and I feel that it is lonely and difficult to live alone.
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A person will feel lonely in the dead of night, and he will feel lonely when he walks alone, chats alone, eats alone, or watches movies alone.
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When you're alone, you feel lonely.
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Of course, in the dead of night, when you are alone in a strange city! If you don't have friends, you're even more lonely.
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Normally, when I am on a business trip, when I am alone, when I am lonely, I feel very lonely, and my home is the warmest and happiest time.
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I think when you're alone, in the dead of night or when it's dark outside. This is when people feel the most lonely.
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There is nothing to do on campus, and if you don't study, you will be lonely; If you fall out of love, you have nothing to talk about, and you will be lonely.
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I haven't felt lonely yet, and although I've often been on my own, I've never felt lonely. People think I'm withdrawn. If you have to say lonely, it's going to dinner with a bunch of colleagues.
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People only feel lonely when they are bored, so a full life is the best way to be lonely!
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When you are alone, you will feel very lonely, because there is no one to talk to at this time, and you can talk about some difficulties encountered in life.
I encountered some grievances outside, and encountered some unfair treatment when I was working outside, so when I got home, my parents comforted me, and they said that the child should let go of some of the troubles in the work during this time, and feel the warmth of our home, you see that my father made you some delicious sweet and sour pork ribs he made for me, I feel very happy, and I also feel their love for me, let me know that I will always have them behind me, and I will not worry about what I do.
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