What should I choose between my ex boyfriend who has all my love and my current boyfriend who can

Updated on amusement 2024-07-07
33 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    My personal opinion is up to you.

    If you can bear the shortcomings of your current boyfriend that you hate, and the nostalgia for your ex-boyfriend in your heart. And I won't regret it in the future, I must have figured it out myself. You can be with your current boyfriend, after all, you don't have too real feelings with him.

    So as long as you can pretend to be like yourself. It's your power. But it won't be easy.

    Maybe one day you will feel tired like this.

    But if you miss your ex-boyfriend a lot, you can't control it. Then I think you have to be brave enough to be with him. It is not easy for people to truly love once in their lives, not to mention that 3 years is not a short time.

    You have too many memories and too many stories. What's more important is that you have too many feelings with him. But it must be understood that marriage and love are related, but not inevitable.

    As long as you choose him now, you won't be troubled by the trivialities of life in the future. After all, you love each other.

    That's just my opinion. The decision depends on your thoughts. Remember to make yourself happy.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Since you have gone to see (now) and promised him, I don't think you should do this with (before), if you are good with (before), then what should you do, he should be a victim of anger between you? If you don't love him, why deceive him, have you ever thought about how he feels when he knows you don't like him? I think you should be responsible for your own feelings, don't mix any gambling elements in it, and make it clear to him if you don't love (now), don't you think it's cruel to (now), he's the only one of the three of you who doesn't know the truth.

    Also, when you go on a blind date in anger, you have already betrayed (former)!!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's not wrong to choose anyone.

    Just don't regret it when you're thinking quietly on your own.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    No one will love anyone forever, try to accept your current life!!

    If the mirror is broken and reunited, there will always be gaps.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's good that both are prepared, but it's impossible, then you have to think about who can live with you for a lifetime, a happy life! A man can have the ability and ability, and if he has no money, it is temporary, because he has the ability to earn, and the money earned by Lao Tzu is not 、、、 to start a business just by spending it

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Vanity is something we all have, don't overdo it... Take advantage of it ... Otherwise, you'll regret it later. When the time comes, it will be too late, it is recommended to choose feelings, don't be too realistic, and what you struggle to come to is what really belongs to you!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It depends on who you like in your heart, and it won't last long if you have money and no feelings

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Vanity is such a thing as to make a person, especially a woman, lose themselves.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's a realistic problem But if you are satisfied with the material, you can't satisfy your heart You and the current one will definitely not be happy You still choose what you like We can earn money ourselves After all, we are young Young We have to pursue something of our own Personal opinion But I hope you live well.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If it were me, I would choose the one I love. How short a human life is, rushing for several years. Although the current society is very realistic. But I don't think matter is the main thing.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Love is vain and cannot be satisfied, if you love him, return to him. Don't ruin your happiness for the sake of vanity.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Good horses don't eat back grass.

    If the current one doesn't cherish you, then go to the next person who cherishes you, but don't look for the previous one.

    No matter how much they love each other.

    To be separated is to be separated.

    Even if they are reunited, they are emotionally scarred.

    It's better not to.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Think about how your ex-boyfriend became a thing of the past.

    Do you want your current boyfriend to become a thing of the past, and the past tense has become the present tense?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Water under the bridge.

    Cherish the present.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You're really, you broke up and went out with your ex-boyfriend!!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Today is Valentine's Day, and my current girlfriend can't xx with me because she has to work, and she came back after shopping with her ex-girlfriend halfway through, and I didn't accept the tt I bought, and I lost my temper with her for no reason, and I don't know why this happened, and I'm in a bad mood! Actually, I really want to be able to xx on Valentine's Day, but I don't want to be with my ex-girlfriend xx, but my current girlfriend doesn't care about it, and my current girlfriend is not as good as my ex-girlfriend! But with his ex-girlfriend xx, I feel very sorry for her, and I must not be with her now, but I miss xx so much, I am annoyed to death, and I am troubled!

    What should I do?

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Gifts are more important than people? People are important or things are important, you must still be young, it is more important to go to study first.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If I don't go out with my ex-boyfriend, it will make your boyfriend know how sad he will be!

    Think about what you would think if your current boyfriend knew you were like this.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The reason why you call it an ex-boyfriend is that it is in the past, you have already made a choice, and he was given up by you.

    The occasional vanity of girls is understandable, and if your current boyfriend doesn't give you a gift today, you can mention it to your current boyfriend today.

    But you must not give up your principles because of gifts, gifts are vain things, and the test of your boyfriend is whether he is sincere to you, not rhetoric or small gifts.

    It's like, for example, today you have a lot of people to chase, and you can't be with someone just because their gifts are valuable.

    Hold a normal heart, romance is often short-lived, and plain is often with you for a lifetime.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    What a good horse doesn't eat back grass, for this sentence will ruin a person's happiness, lose the cherishment, compare if the ex-boyfriend is good, of course, you have to eat this back grass.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Hehe. This kind of mood can be understood, is there a kind of thing that does not feel good, but it is a pity to lose it.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Hello, landlord:

    The story is long, and so is the road of life!

    Just as you choose, you should also make a choice!

    If it were me, I would choose a sincere, steady, ambitious, stable job, and most importantly good for myself, I think your current boyfriend --- the hero happens to be this type of person!

    When choosing a boyfriend, the most important thing is character. The character is good, naturally after marriage, there will not be so many flowers, although the days are relatively dull, but married life is composed of firewood, rice, oil and salt!

    It's better to have a man who loves himself than a man who doesn't love him, so a happy marriage is one!

    Therefore, it is recommended that the landlord carefully make the best choice!

    I wish you happiness too!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's enough of a headache, how a good man has let you run into it, I personally feel that your feelings for the first one are not love, but it can give you a good life, the second is love, but I don't know what his current economic situation and future development will be, and the third is purely a spare tire, don't think about it.

    Personally, I recommend choosing the second one, it is not easy to have a sincere and warm feeling, after all, marriage is built on the basis of love, without love, no matter how rich the material is, there will be no happiness in life.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Although I am also a girl, I feel that you are a little distracted when I look at your description, you don't really love someone, you love yourself the most. It may be a bit unfair to say this, but when you talk about your current boyfriend and ex-boyfriend, you consider the feelings of your family, which shows that you care about your family, but it also shows that you are still a little indecisive.

    Besides, are you too demanding of your boyfriend, the three boys you said are all good and good to you, but please think clearly, which one can be a friend? Which can be a couple? Which can be a couple?

    Maybe in real life, you can choose only one, or even three can't get it, so it is recommended that you think about the emotional things clearly, divide the importance of the three people well, don't always think about this, think about that, want everything, and want everything to be perfect!!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    A bit of a backbone, okay! The parents who chose themselves did not agree, and let everyone choose. I'm sorry for you! Believe in yourself and feel your best, that's what you want! A happy life is to be fought for! Go your own way!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I think you should choose the third one, because marriage is not a one-person business, it is a family's business. But marriage still has to be based on feelings, and marriages without feelings will be broken sooner or later. Moreover, the third one is not bad-looking, self-motivated, and cares about you very much, and is a person worthy of trust.

    Your ex-boyfriend is still not suitable, since they have all broken up, looking back together, the relationship will fade step by step. Although the current boyfriend has a high education and a good family background, he will have no way to live if he can't see it. After you get married, your family will worry about the two of you.

    Marriage is a difficult hurdle, and if you take one wrong step, you will never recover. If it's like saying, then the three protagonists are sincere to you, then there's nothing wrong with choosing him.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I hope you can see clearly that your own love depends on your own choice.

    What can we do to help you, it's pointless.

    Whoever you want to turn to, point to him without hesitation, and don't hesitate.

    It's been so long, shouldn't you see it clearly.

    The most important thing in marriage is the communication and mutual trust between two people.

    It doesn't matter who you choose.

    You should see it yourself. Who do you love. Just pick it.

    Don't always hesitate and be distracted. In the end, you're the only one left.

    Believe in yourself, don't be so unconfident. Pick it yourself. Choose with your heart and follow your feelings.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Marriage is not just about love, it's about responsibility.

    You always feel that how speculative and loving you are with your ex-boyfriend is because of the regret that your abandonment brings you. Imagine if you hadn't broken up with your ex-boyfriend at the time, and I'm guessing you'd still be confused, and you'd be hesitant to marry a man whose family was against the business and didn't have a career, and not to bring that beautiful illusion to real life.

    No one will rely on love and romance to maintain marriage all their lives, and the most important thing is the sense of responsibility of two people, the common language of two people, and the mutual appreciation of two people.

    You say that you want to succeed in your career, and that's one of your goals in life, so you have to figure out which one of you will stand on the same level as you when you achieve your goals, so that you can still appreciate and still be able to rely on. No one can help you choose marriage The key depends on what you think.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    This is really a bit long.

    The first is responsibility.

    The second is love.

    The third is moving.

    In fact, no matter which one you choose, after deciding, you must treat him wholeheartedly, then your marriage will be happy, and after many years you will feel that your choice today is right.

    And if you still keep comparing after choosing, then life may be unhappy, and you will feel that today's choice is wrong in the future.

    If you can't give up the other two completely, you're wrong...

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    The person who makes you unforgettable is the throbbing of your feelings, the best memory of your student days. What you can't forget are those memories and habits. Graduating and entering the society is realistic, all are longing for stability, to as a person, there are desires that cannot be satisfied, if you have been living a hard life with your ex-boyfriend, and you meet your current boyfriend, then you will be tempted.

    Women can never resist being good and touched. There is no such thing as perfection in the world, and no matter who you choose now, you will have some regrets in the future. Feelings are higher than reality, but reality is the basis of feelings.

    Get away for a while and travel, and you'll have the answer when you come back.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Depending on your story, as well as your personality, it is advisable to choose an ex-boyfriend. Why, because your current boyfriend is good at everything, but you don't have love for him, in terms of your character, even if you choose him, in the end you find that you still don't love him, and you will still give up on him. As for your ex-boyfriend, you have deep feelings for him, and he loves you just as much, although his conditions may not be as good as his current boyfriend.

    But as long as his character is okay and not the type of lazy to eat, then choosing him is undoubtedly your best choice.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Life is a long road, choose what you like. Recently, my mother has been in a bad mood, and she always frowns, and she doesn't say anything when she asks her what's wrong, maybe she doesn't want me to worry. I can only care more about her, her birthday is approaching, I want to give her a special gift, I hope she can be happy, and at the same time I hope she is healthy.

    In **.com, a store that helps you make a fortune, under the introduction of shopkeepers Fan Fei and Yuan Ying. I chose the red rope, which was opened. I hope my mom will be happy when she receives it.

    On her birthday, my mother was moved to tears when she saw this gift. said that it made me worried, but in fact, it was just some small problems, and there was no need to worry, and the two of us looked at each other and smiled.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    You're so lucky!

    First of all, it's better not to step on two boats, if you can't do it, neither one is yours.

    Then, whichever one, you will have happiness. It's just that the first one is more challenging, and it's called poppy demagogy.

    The second, you just moved her good, and you haven't given birth to love and attachment yet.

    How to choose is what you have to face, have courage and be clean.

    We like, the story has a future, but is that a later that we can afford to bear? What kind of efforts do we have to make for that?

    You wrote, like a melodrama. Your life is really high.

    Some people say that every woman has a "feather coat", feathering and ascending to immortals. However, if you return to a woman, you must know how to collect. Otherwise, it is easy to cold the winter wax moon, the autumn wind is bleak, and there is only one left, no longer glamorous, tattered feather coats, and broken dreams.

    Where the heart desires, that is, the direction.

    When others heal our wounds, we appear, and this is the greatest unfairness.

    I wish you happiness and may I have a prosperous Year of the Snake.

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