Can two people stay together without a common topic?

We all said that the two of them had the same three views.

Two people have to talk in order to continue, in fact, this also makes sense, if two people always have different views on the problem, it will be easy to have disagreements, disagreements will become more and more intense, and with the change of time, maybe not properly solve the problem

But for some people, even if there is no common topic to talk about, love can go on Once I had a friend by my side, she was a big grinning and cheerful type, and her boyfriend was a shy and shy introvert type, or a scholar. The girl and this boy are really not people of the same world, and they are ...... chasing starsAnd the two of them can continue their love, and it's very sweet

Because boys will tolerate girls' personalities, girls are also trying to become excellent, reading books and learning to recharge Slowly you will find that they are slowly becoming topical and excellent.

Because love will allow two people to slowly understand each other and get closer to each other, even if there is no topic to talk about, it will slowly enhance the relationship, and there is a topic to talk about. Therefore, in many cases, love is really incomprehensible, because everyone has different opinions, and the right one is the best, even if there are not many topics to speak of at the beginning, but as long as it is suitable, it will be good slowly, depending on how you operate.

Two people have no common language together, I think it's better to separate as soon as possible, each to find a suitable one, of course, some people are reluctant to talk more in character, but in action, behavior in caring about you, such a person can still be considered, in short, to experience, and feel, is really the kind of person who does not speculate more than half a sentence, I think it is better to leave early.

It's hard to maintain, and common topics are the foundation for two people to live together!

can continue, and the interest will become the same after a long time, this is the run-in;

It's also very difficult to keep going, unless you have children, and you can continue for the sake of children.

It should be that the relationship has entered a dull period, how to face the reality. Bonding can be enhanced by doing something to each other that two people do together.

Few people have noticed the common topic in past marriages, which were all the words of the matchmaker at the behest of the parents. However, with the changes of the times and the improvement of cognition, people have expectations for love, and they also hope that their other half can understand and understand themselves. But is there really no need to be together without a common topic?

I don't think so.

If you want to have a common topic with your other half, you just hope that when you talk about it, your other half will not have objections because you don't understand it at all. You need his or her understanding and support, but you don't have to have a common topic with you to understand and support them. As long as there is an open-minded and tolerant person on the other side, as long as your ideas are good, I think he or she will support you.

And if you have the same topic, sometimes you will fall into such a strange circle. It's that you both like the same thing, but because of your own experience and some other reasons, you may have different ideas. Sometimes there is a dispute over this small disagreement, and it is not impossible.

Two people can always be together, it is nothing more than two factors, that is, "habit" and "tolerance". We all say that love will slowly turn into family affection after a long time, but this is the case. So even if there is no common topic, two people are together and are good together.

Don't change your mind just because you don't have a common topic in common. Think about how we got together in the first place.

It's not easy to fall in love, do it and cherish it, treat the person around you who has been with you!

It depends on whether you love each other or not before making a decision, as long as two people can communicate normally, there will be joy and happiness together.

If you don't love, don't be together.

Life is not long, it is not short, and two people who don't love can't talk about it together, then it's really loveless.

If two people are in true love together, they will definitely find a comfortable way to get along with each other, there is no need to have a common topic, the other party understands what you do, you can also understand what the other party does, and there is normal communication, and you can live that day.

But if two people don't even have basic love, and there is no common topic, then the situation after being together will be their own busy, you ignore me, and I ignore you. In this case, the two of them will not go too far.

If you love, try to fit in with each other.

Why do you need to adapt to each other? Because it is impossible to change others, it is relatively easy to change yourself.

If two people love each other and have no common topics, then you can talk to each other, see what topics the other person likes to talk about, and then try to understand these topics yourself, and then you will find that there is nothing difficult to talk about common topics, as long as you love each other enough, you are willing to change for him.

And after the other party sees your change, they will also change themselves, and then the two people will have a common topic to talk about, and finally form a virtuous circle, both for the sake of each other.

In the end, it may be that you don't love the other person so much that you feel that you can't talk to the other person. If two people don't call, they don't have the desire to talk to each other, let alone accommodate each other, but choose to be public, thinking that they are like this, you can love if you want to love, and if you don't love, you will flash and go cool.

Two people who don't have a common topic don't walk together, because without a common language, there will never be intersecting thoughts. A common topic is to have a common thought, to be able to understand what the other person is thinking, that is, the so-called heart and mind, this is the charm of a common topic.

People who don't have a common topic will only go farther and farther, just like two railroad tracks, there will never be a time to intersect, and common topics play a role as a bridge in the process of getting along with feelings, so it is also very important for feelings.

Find more common topics to discuss, there will always be common ground.

But I don't think it's very serious, because people now don't value it as much rationally as the original people, thinking that there is no topic will be separated, in fact, the topic can be found, there are many topics in life, but it is very impulsive to take it separately and will regret it, take it in the experiment, remember, no common topic is not a very serious problem, the serious thing is that you yourself are unwilling to find the topic yourself.

Common topics can be cultivated.

As long as you know how to manage feelings.

Even if two people have opposite hobbies.

We can be very different.

But we can love each other very much.

Personally, I think that for two couples, having a common topic is indeed a necessary condition for love, if two people are invited to not even have a common repentance, then it means that it is difficult for two people to really resonate, and it is difficult for such feelings to be truly maintained for a long time.

First of all, for two people, if you want to make a relationship really recognized by each other, then you need two people to have common values, love and outlook on life in the process of getting along, and be able to attract and respect each other, and for two couples, there are common topics, which is an important embodiment of these aspects. Therefore, for couples, since they want to understand each other, they should communicate as much as possible, communicate more, and find common topics as much as possible.

On the other hand, by finding a common topic, the couple can further enhance their understanding of each other, and can further warm up the feelings between the two people, which is obviously very beneficial to the emotional development between the two people, and when the two people find a common topic in the relationship, then it means that the relationship between the two people is likely to develop to a new stage. So the longer they get along with each other, two people may think that such a relationship is a more embarrassing thing for both people, then eventually one party will not be able to stand this state and propose to break up with the other party, so for feelings, we must learn to find resonance with our other half, find mutual recognition and common interest topics between each other, so as to ensure the longevity of the relationship.

In two cases, if you just fall in love, there is no common topic, do you still want to talk about it? If it's married. There is no common topic before marriage, so why do you have to reluctantly go to the wind and live with this person who has no topic for the rest of your life!

If there is no common topic, it is better to separate early, so as not to organize a family in the future, and it will be difficult to divide in the future.

I don't think it's necessary to be together, provided of course that you are not married and have children and take on the responsibilities of the family.

There's no need to be tired and ruthless together.

Personally, I think that for two couples, having a common topic is indeed a necessary condition for love, if two people don't even have a common topic, it means that it is difficult for two people to really resonate, and it is difficult for such a relationship to be maintained for a long time.

First of all, for two people, if you want to make a relationship really recognized by each other, then you need two people to have common values, love and outlook on life in the process of getting along, and be able to attract and respect each other, and for two couples, there are common topics, which is an important embodiment of these aspects. Therefore, for couples, since they want to understand each other, they should communicate as much as possible, communicate more, and find common topics as much as possible.

On the other hand, by finding a common topic, the couple can further enhance their understanding of each other, and can further warm up the feelings between the two people, which is obviously very beneficial to the emotional development between the two people, and when the two people find a common topic in the relationship, then it means that the relationship between the two people is likely to develop to a new stage. So the longer they spend with each other, the more people may think that this kind of relationship is a more embarrassing thing for both people, then eventually one party will not be able to bear this state and propose to break up with the other party, so for the relationship, we must learn to find resonance with our other half, find mutual recognition and common interest topics between each other, so as to ensure the longevity of the relationship.

Only when a relationship reaches the flat period will many problems be exposed, whether the three views are the same, and whether the interests are similar. At the beginning of the relationship, most people don't particularly care about others, the throbbing in the heart has been urging the two hearts, they like and care about each other's eyes, and they are willing to cater to the spine and accommodate the spine. When the relationship cools down, when each other is in love, it seems that there will be a lot of problems that you don't care about at first.

Whether interests and hobbies need to be consistent is an inescapable topic. Indeed, if couples have similar interests and resonate with each other at the same frequency, it will be very easy to get along. But it really doesn't mean that every long-term relationship, two people must have the same hobbies.

Good love requires both parties to know how to seek common ground while reserving differences, know how to change each other, and know how to tolerate each other. Falling in love is a moment, and getting along may be half a life. Being together is actually a process of knowing how to assert oneself and learning to compromise with each other.

The same topic is not very important. Of course, it's good to have, and it's not much harm if you don't. The most important thing for couples is to appreciate each other, not to conduct in-depth research on a topic of common interest, even if the other party and you have no intersection in academics, career, hobbies, etc., as long as you appreciate each other, the other party also appreciates you, and you will not be bored or dull.

Appreciation is an emotion that doesn't have to be built within one's own knowledge. If you appreciate the other person, even if you are not interested in the topic he says, you will not hate it, such as Fan Bingbing talking to me about movies, or Guo Degang talking to me about cross talk, I don't understand it at all, but I won't hate it, because I appreciate these two people; If Qin Hailu talks to me about movies, or Niu Qun talks to me about cross talk, I can't listen to it, not because I don't have a common language, but because I don't feel good about watching this person. If you don't like the other person, even if it's a classmate, a colleague or teacher, you don't want to talk to him.