Thinking of his ex boyfriend, he is very uncomfortable, and always thinks about his boyfriend s past

Updated on psychology 2024-07-15
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Seeing him was uncomfortable, flustered, confused, and even disgusting! It's better not to be with him!! You feel that no one can replace him because you haven't completely let go of him, and after a while, you may find out that he is actually not suitable for you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    There are no absolutes, only relatives. Perhaps, what you need is to relax on your own. Look at what you want, if you don't even know what you want, you'll never make the right decision.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Since you say you can't let go of him, no one can replace him, then let's be together.

    There is always a period of aesthetic fatigue in love, and if you don't hold up during this time and give up, you will regret it for the rest of your life.

    I've been there.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I'm sure he must have hurt you deeply, let the past pass.

    It's not that you can't fall in love with other men, you are reluctant to let go of him.

    Do what you want in your heart and don't let yourself regret it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Why do you want to go against your heart when you are nostalgic for him?

    If you think about it from his standpoint, he should love you very much.

    Give it another chance. Don't be bitter for two people.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    。。Like it, it's disgusting, it seems that this man. I hurt you to the heart, you can't accept others I think you're talking nonsense, how can you not accept others?

    There can only be one reason why you can't accept it, and that's that you haven't met the right one yet! Don't be wronged and reconciled with him. It's useless to be disgusted to the heart.,What's the point of being together in front of you.。。

    Let your heart be wide.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    This has to ask your own heart, if you like it, you will be reconciled, and if you don't like it, you will be scattered. . . .

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Take a stand.

    When you find out that your husband is still in contact with your ex, you must state your own position, whether you can accept that your husband is in contact with his ex, if not, you can clearly tell him, I don't like you to be in contact with your ex, you can be an ordinary friend, but if you exceed the boundary of friends, I will choose to break up with you or choose to divorce you. If your husband doesn't have any opinion about his ex, but she has been pestering, I don't think you should blame your husband too much, because it's not his fault, and he returned to that girl out of politeness, but you still have to tell me that your husband won't reply if he can, and flies don't bite seamless eggs.

    I believe that my husband can handle it well.

    After asking your husband, when your husband doesn't have any thoughts about her, you have to trust him, you believe that he can handle the relationship between you and the girl, and he can also make the right choice, since he has chosen to marry you, he will not give up easily, and you will not give up this family easily. After all, marriage is a big deal, even if the ex is amazing, she is in the past, I don't think you should care too much about it, too much care will seem like you are not generous, as a girl, you have to use some of your own small means to make that girl retreat.

    Defend your love.

    If your husband is the kind of boy who is very honest and silly and sweet, he can't understand what his ex is looking for him, just like many boys can't understand green tea now, then you need to take the initiative to stand up and defend your love. You can ask that girl out individually, talk carefully, see what she means, and ask her what she wants. Does she contact your husband just to find someone to talk to, or does she want to renew her relationship?

    I believe that no girl can stop the current one from doing this to her.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I don't think we should mind that everyone has their own past, and everyone has their own unbearable past. Don't you ever have? Don't you have a bad past?

    I think it's a minimum of respect, and it's everyone's personal space for each other. There's no need to mind too much about the past, because what you have is the present, or even the future. And then in the past, do you want to have it too?

    How can you not have him in the past. Let him pass the past things, don't miss these things too much, it's useless.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It depends on the situation, if your boyfriend is not in contact with your ex-girlfriend or the relationship is normal, then don't worry too much, if your boyfriend is in frequent contact with your ex-girlfriend and the relationship is still close, you have to be careful. Boys more or less have an ex-girlfriend, should we go to screen them one by one? Sometimes you can't find out, and in the end it will hurt the feelings of both parties, because your boyfriend will feel that you don't trust him, and if it's nothing once or twice, if you always question him, he may feel annoyed, and it will be difficult to maintain such a relationship.

    So if you pursue your boyfriend's ex-girlfriend too much, you are actually putting your relationship in crisis, whether he has a girlfriend or not, those people are his past tense, and you are the one who is by his side now.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you want to let go of this matter, it is actually very simple, that is, to manage your relationship well, use your own charm to make your boyfriend never abandon you, treat your boyfriend well, and let him feel that you are the one who loves him the most. Leave some space for your own feelings, don't just think about your boyfriend every day, you can use the cranky time to improve yourself, make your own life more colorful, you will find that romance is only a part of your life and not all of you. At this time, you won't be so concerned about your boyfriend's ex.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Calm communication, since you have found that the other party has not forgotten the ex, then you should find a way to have an in-depth communication and exchange, in a calm way to talk to the other party about the ex. After all, if the problem remains in the heart and is not dealt with in time, it will only make the consequences of this matter more and more serious. So, open up to your boyfriend about your ex, and maybe you'll be able to get to the bottom of his line.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    This question is a question that every man and woman are more concerned about after falling in love. Mind is that you can't let go yet, that is, you can't completely let go of your previous memories. This is the reaction of our human beings, and the past experience will always give us a trace.

    But we have to see how much of a scar it leaves in your heart, how quickly he can recover, and what methods he can use to recover faster. Only by recovering faster will we not be affected too much in this area. It will not affect our later life, and we should know it well.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I know you've got some Alexander, right? I think my current boyfriend's ex-girlfriend is too good. So, you feel a little bit like you don't deserve a boyfriend.

    Or, I'm worried that my boyfriend will dislike me one day. All I can say is, please don't overthink it. After all, it's you and not the ex-girlfriend who is in a relationship with this man right now.

    No matter how good she is, what can she do? And what does it have to do with your boyfriend?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You can't let go, I think it should be that you have an admiration for such a good person. But you also know very well that that person is not something you should worship. But the good kind, especially the woman - must have an inexplicable idea of her.

    But, don't be stressed. There are more women in the world who are better than you, so the biggest knot in my heart is because of your boyfriend. But he doesn't love her anymore, does he?

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I don't know why you should mind your current boyfriend's ex, don't you have an ex. You don't have an ex, you have a crush, and if your boyfriend cares about these things like you, how can you get along with each other? Besides, it's already in the past between them, you are now his real girlfriend, and if you mind those things about old sesame seeds and rotten grains, will there be some fuss.

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