Why does my brother take my contribution for granted?

You are good to your brother, you have to let your brother know how to repay you, your brother is still young, and he doesn't know how to repay you, so you can understand more.

Sometimes, it is this younger brother or sister who takes the contribution of his brother and sister for granted, because in his upbringing, it has always been the contribution of his older brother and sister, so she feels that this is already accepted by the uncle, so the younger brother will take your contribution for granted.

The power of habit is very great, and a person is accustomed to being good to others, so if others treat him a little badly, he will think that this person has an opinion about him. Therefore, when a person does not know how to be grateful, no matter how good you are to him, you will not be able to get good results.

Friend, everything must have a degree, as the saying goes, things must be the opposite, which is your case. This can only happen to kind-hearted, helpful people! And your problem is that you have never thought about your own problem, you think that your pay, even if you don't thank you, will not put your pay is deserved!

Everyone is different, after all, people like you are only a minority, most people are selfish, only ask for no gratitude! Blindly giving and helping can only exacerbate the selfishness and greed of others! Reflect on it, friend!

My brother takes your contribution as a matter of course, and if you take it for granted, it may be that you have not told him since you were a child that you should be grateful to others, or that you have habitually helped her do everything well.

If one of two strangers gives the other a relatively large help, one person will be very grateful to the other person, but if the help is long-term and subtle, then the other person will see this behavior as a habit.

Brothers don't distinguish each other, but one always takes, and of course it's not right to take all these efforts for granted

Thoughts! I'm sure that's what you've instilled in her since she was a child, so he takes it for granted!

I feel the same way, my parents are, I am good to them, I take it for granted, I spend it casually, I make it casually, I always feel that I owe it to them, the first time I saw such parents, I feel that life is very bad, other people's parents are very kind, and they, now their excuse is that he is my parents, I am really drunk to do them like this, and I love to show off, they stink their children in front of others, do this, is it good, there is no such thing to outsiders, this is like this to their own children, if something is wrong to find children, it's okay, disgusting their children in front of their neighbors, not tidying up the house, we tidying up, we also became fake clean, a day fallacy.

That's enough.

I understand, I'm that sister. Because I'm spoiled, I don't know much about this, and I can't speak, but I also have a lot of heart towards my sister, if you're really reluctant, then don't pay, don't make everyone unhappy.

I sympathize with you, I want to have a sister like this, I will love her very much.

I feel the same way, I give my brother money and he thinks I should give it to him, don't let me say, day by day I feel that I am always right, I feel that I am so uncomfortable and depressed, I don't want to insist on it.

Find your happy partner early and stay away from them.

Your family is rich to be good for your son.

If it's a long time to live in your home, education, if it's a short time, such as a vacation or something, bear with it.

Most beautiful girls have a bit of a narcissistic tendency, they have been the focus of everyone's eyes since they were young, and they will always get praise and fake praise from the people around them, which has developed into a kind of dependence, she thinks that boys and girls should be good to her, this is a disease, and it must be cured.

I don't think every beautiful girl thinks that a guy will be good to him for granted. It's just because of the girl you met, she behaved like that. And maybe she didn't mean it that way, it just seemed like the act was giving you this illusion.

And people's kindness is mutual, and nothing can be taken for granted. Maybe other people's personality and behavior also think that he is a worthy person for the boy.

This is a matter of course, and beauty is her advantage.

Conversely, a boy who is handsome will also think that girls should treat him well. Even if they are not handsome, rich boys will also think like this.

Not only beauties, all girls are asked to make appointments like this, boys should be good to themselves for a lifetime, it is natural for boys to love girls, and they can grow old in life, which is also human nature!

I feel that being beautiful is my advantage, and men love beauty.

It's just a matter of personal opinion, if a girl is your girlfriend, no matter what others think, it should be the most in your heart.

Beauty is the best, is it right to be in the eyes of lovers? If it's the person you love, you should be kind to her. There may be some girls who praise her for two sentences, and they feel that they are not beautiful, and they are very inflated, so they love to point fingers, in fact, these problems are also used to some boys, and if no one cares about it, they will not be able to get up.

So there's nothing you should or shouldn't do, it's up to you what you think.

It's not that she's beautiful, it's that girls are pampered a lot now, so she always hopes that everyone will be good to her, lack of independence, boys can be obedient to girls, but definitely not always good to girls, people will change, or learn to be good to yourself, don't be too dependent.

It is generally a beautiful girl who thinks that a man who looks ordinary or ugly should be good to her, and in fact it is. Because the conditions of the two sides are not equal, the superior side has a choice, so the inferior side has to actively cater to the other side.

Jiao Jiao is making trouble, he thinks he is beautiful, he is the goddess in the hearts of many boys, and boys must like it, so he feels good about himself. If you are older, you will have a clear understanding of yourself, and your personality will change.

Generally speaking, beautiful girls have been the focus of everyone since they were young, and they will be sought after by those around them.

Therefore, it may slowly form a habit and form a dependence!

Yes, it's all capital, no way.

I feel like I'm looking bright and confident.

No, the dedication of parents for their children is certainly not taken for granted. This man is too extreme, it should be that there is a problem in education, or I hope everyone will pay more attention to the issue of education.

Not as it should be. This man is accustomed to eating easy food, does not know how to be grateful to his parents, and forms a madness, distorts his psychological cognition and commits crimes.

Parents' contribution is not taken for granted, because parents' contribution is based on the parent-child relationship with the child, but this does not mean that parents should give.

Article 21 of the Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China stipulates that parents have the obligation to raise and educate their children. The age of full civil liability in China is 18 years old, so if you reach the age of 18, your parents have already completed your obligation to support their children.

It is not natural for an older sister to support a younger brother, although we always think that family members should take care of each other and help each other. But in adulthood, everyone should first take responsibility for their own lives so that they are qualified to help others. Although siblings are one of the most intimate relationships in the world, older sisters supporting younger brothers should also be principled, limited, and not taken for granted.

Even fathers and sons should let go appropriately after their children become adults, so that children can learn to take responsibility, let alone siblings.

Nowadays, many boys will be more mindful that the woman has a younger brother when choosing a mate, which is not just selfish, but because many sisters are given the concept of the eldest sister as a mother, even after having their own family, they will still consider their younger brother in advance, which is very irresponsible for the sister's family. It is natural for an older sister to care for her younger brother, but it is not for her to support her younger brother. What the older sister should do is let the younger brother learn to live, not take care of everything for the younger brother.

Besides, as a boy, the younger brother should naturally take on more responsibilities, he was guarded by his parents when he was a child, and he was supported by his sister when he grew up, and most of the boys who grew up in this way did not have much responsibility. The older sister and younger brother are not only age different, but also gendered. As a boy, the younger brother should learn to protect his sister, instead of blindly enjoying his sister's support for him.

When a younger brother is in trouble, it is reasonable for him to give appropriate help as an older sister, but if the younger brother takes it for granted that his sister helps him, then this is a big mistake.

At present, the society's perception of the relationship between siblings has slowly begun to improve, and not only that, but even the parent-child relationship has become more and more rational. My sister and brother are both children of their parents, and they grew up together since childhood, so the relationship is naturally deep. But as we get older, we need to learn to be responsible for ourselves and our significant other before we are qualified to take care of others.

The elder sister should be the one who is injured and helps her to bandage her wounds, not the one who is injured for herself, love is mutual, and there is no natural giving.

I don't think it's a matter of course, and if my sister really loves my brother, then I can support my brother by myself, out of my own volition.

It is not a matter of course that should be supported. Generally, as an older sister, she will take care of her younger brother, and when her younger brother is motivated and aspiring, she can help when he encounters difficulties on the way to struggle; But if there is a younger brother who is not doing his job and is waiting for his sister to support him, he can't support him.

There is no should, it can only be said that it is love for the sister to help the younger brother, and the brother and sister can support each other to develop better.

Nothing is taken for granted, the younger sister and younger brother you are talking about are loved by the elder sister and brother, this is the responsibility of the elder brother and sister. Protecting the weak and being loved ones is a necessary thing that exists in everyone's heart.

As a younger brother, he has no money, and he feels that his sister's economic conditions are okay and he shouldn't help him. It shouldn't, it shouldn't, it shouldn't. My sister is also a person with her own family, how much does the condition of my sister's family have to do with my sister?

There is only the emergency in the world, and there is no help for the poor. The younger brother's natural psychology is that he should be killed.

It is still necessary to divide the situation, one is that the younger brother is lazy to do it, does not seek to be motivated, just wants to be greedy for enjoyment, and has no money and spends money everywhere, in this case, it is better not to give, and if you give money, you will give him, so that he thinks that I am playing around anyway and someone will give money. The second is that the younger brother is very good, does not spend money indiscriminately, is self-motivated, and is also working hard, at this time as a sister can still help, just help according to his own financial ability.

Let's put it this way, if there is no blood relationship, why help my brother, the so-called blood relationship is just a higher moral kidnapping in my opinion.

The younger brother has worked very hard and has no achievements, for the sake of family affection and his good character, he can help appropriately, if the younger brother is lazy, idle, eating, drinking, and having fun, and not doing his best, then he must not help, nor can he send him money to spend, which will harm him for a lifetime.

This kind of thief is disgusting, why should other people's hard-earned money be left for him.

If I am an older sister, it depends on my brother's specific requirements, if he is through his own efforts, but the economy still can't keep up, as a sister, I should know how to help my younger brother find a good way to earn money. If the younger brother is lazy and thinks about relying on his sister to help, as an elder sister, he will definitely have to reason with him, and if the reason doesn't make sense, let him figure it out by himself. Because if you blindly indulge his mentality of getting something for nothing, he will become insatiable and become even more violent, and he may ruin everything because of it.

Adults don't take it for granted.

Probably a lot of people think so.