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Anonymous users2024-02-12If you don't want to live together, you will be separated... You two are working hard to make money and buy a house. And then move out... It would be nice to have time to go back and see the old man more in the future.
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Anonymous users2024-02-11It's better to be separated, even if you live on the opposite door, don't live together.
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Anonymous users2024-02-10There is an old man in the family, if there is a treasure. As long as the personality is compatible, why not.
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Anonymous users2024-02-09Talk to your boyfriend first to see what he thinks, if he agrees, he will talk to his parents, if he doesn't agree, then discuss it well, and in the end, if it doesn't work, compromise first and talk slowly, don't hurt the harmony first.
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Anonymous users2024-02-08In fact, it's normal to live together, after all, there will be a generation gap, go talk to your boyfriend, discuss it, but the tone must be good, if you want to say that it is for the sake of your boyfriend's parents, so don't live together.
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Anonymous users2024-02-07It's better not to live together Living together First, it's inconvenient Second, it's not used to it It's easy to have conflicts after a long time, and the relationship is not good.
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Anonymous users2024-02-06Oh, then live by yourself Build two houses in the countryside Buy 2 houses in the city Separate My mother and my daughter-in-law divided my house is two houses I am ready before I get married My mother doesn't want to live with us She said that she is a person who has come over and knows that it is inconvenient.
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Anonymous users2024-02-05Directly say that of course it's not good, if your boyfriend has that financial strength, of course it's easy to solve, if not, it's not good. Good luck to you, beauties.
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Anonymous users2024-02-04If you have the ability, you will live separately. Save worry.
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Anonymous users2024-02-03What's so bad about living together, hehe, my mother-in-law and I live together, it's pretty good, it mainly depends on whether you are working or staying at home, there may be conflicts at home, and there won't be so many things at work.
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Anonymous users2024-02-02You can tell him that you want to cultivate a relationship between two people, after all, life is for two people, and you have just gotten married, and at the same time, you have to tell him that you have to slowly adapt to this family, in case there is any conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
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Anonymous users2024-02-01Then you can put forward the same point of view with him, saying that you want to be with your own mother, and if it doesn't work, you can take it all. My boyfriend will think about the inconvenience of living with his parents.
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Anonymous users2024-01-31You can say that you want to live with him and live with your mother when you have children in the future, so that your boyfriend will think that you care about him very much and will not be angry.
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Anonymous users2024-01-30I think you can say that you just got married, and you especially want to live a two-person world with him, and someone is inconvenient.
Pressures from reality and perceptions from your family, coupled with your own subjective thoughts, are the key to preventing you from having this idea. Your situation is common now. You love him, but the pressures from yourself, your family, and reality put you in a dilemma. >>>More
It is better to live separately from your parents after marriage, which can effectively reduce the conflict between the two generations and make the family atmosphere more harmonious. >>>More
Oh my boy, how can you do that?? If I were you, they speak ill of me, let them speak! >>>More
I don't agree with the upstairs, parents don't like to control the fate of their children, but care about the fate of their children. When parents feel that this man can not bring happiness to their children, they will take some means to make you obedient, they are past people, often from some details easier to see through the essence of a person, know that we have our own thoughts but are more afraid that we are impulsive, afraid that we will be hurt, when the sad heart of parents does not care about their children at all, you will understand, what a terrible thing it is, on this issue, I tell you very clearly, as a person who has come over, listen to parents, Maybe you will regret it, but you will never regret it, why just a little, you die, your lover will find someone else in a few years, and your parents, the rest of their lives will be immersed in sadness.
Personally, I think that since you haven't thought about marrying your boyfriend, first of all, you shouldn't go to your boyfriend's house easily, which is also not good, because then your boyfriend's parents know that you are their daughter-in-law, and you will come in the future, so this is the first point, pay attention to the place, not a special thing, don't go to your parents easily, if you don't decide to get married. Secondly, if you have already gone, then the man's parents give you money, which is also a custom and etiquette. If you don't accept it, it doesn't seem to be particularly good, so you can accept it, but remember the money you accepted, and if you don't marry your boyfriend in the future, then you can return the money to your boyfriend, which is an option.