Why do we have to study so hard? But you want to give up everything else?

Every period of life has corresponding tasks that need to be completed, in early childhood, we are carefree, we just need to grow up healthily under the care of parents and friends; When we are students, we need to learn knowledge to enrich ourselves, make ourselves smart and self-motivated; To integrate into society, we need to repay the society with what we have learned in the past and reflect the self-worth of life. However, we must and can only recognize the current learning environment and learning system, and we must follow the existing education system, because we are a real thing, unless you can change your growth environment, for example, you can go to a certain country if you like it, you can go to school, you can live. Isn't there an old Chinese saying:

Survival of the fittest, that's what I'm talking about. Now there are many people who have to work hard in class, study hard after class, and make up for extracurricular frenzy in order to take exams, for high scores, and for better schools, they have not given up a lot of happy and childlike dreams that teenage children should have, they have given up a lot, and they have indeed received some rewards, the satisfaction of parents, the praise of teachers, the envy of classmates, and the show-off of relatives and friends. There are gains and losses This is the law of nature, you can think of yourself studying hard, but you give up everything, it means that you are a smart child, but you don't want to be so absolute, you haven't given up everything, it is too absolute to say that you give up everything.

The student period is suffering, this is also a process that we must go through, first learn to face the current "dilemma", in the future your life will face more bigger and more difficult choices, lay a good foundation for your future, grasp everything you have at the moment, and strive to complete every stage of your life, I hope that in the future, when you look back on the past, there is no loss, disappointment and regret, but rather, gratification, happiness, and the joy of success.

Reading does not mean giving up everything, reading is a process and a process of accumulation, the so-called accumulation is to say reading! Reading is about efficiency, not dead reading!

The college entrance examination system kills people, although my children study very well, but I also say so.

When you are young and have not yet entered the society, you can only study first, and only when you have the conditions can you have better development.

<> "Don't Give Up Reading.

<> "Don't Give Up Reading. I'm afraid that when I see you again in a few years, you'll be a completely different person. All the mouths are full of eating rocks; With a blanket on his shoulders, he looked at the street of the Stone Festival to buy a cheap pig baby; For a few firewood or an egg, he beat his neighbor and broke his head and bleed.

I don't brush my teeth, and my books are all pulled and pasted and I hoard food ......—Lu Yao, "Ordinary World".

If it is said that man is a spiritual and conscientious animal, then life is nothing more than knowing oneself, refining oneself, and consciously and voluntarily transforming oneself, unless one is willing to be like a beast. But that's easier said than done. - Yang Jiang.

The rain is on the rich, and on the poor, and on the righteous, and on the unrighteous; Actually, the rain is not fair, because it falls in a world where there is no justice. —Rough no—Lao She's "Camel Xiangzi".

I chose a grass-colored clearing and lay down. The wind blowing by the Yellow River was mixed with a little coolness, and I raised my head on my knees to let my face feel the sun, and my eyes were red when I was closed. Gradually, I felt the warm light, not faintly hot, but quietly warm.

Quietly, gently, it calmed my heart that was sinking and floating. - Lin Qingxuan, "The Taste of Sunshine".

There had been a light rain in the morning, and now although it was sunny, the road was still very slippery, and the autumn crops in the fields on both sides were washed green by the rain, and the pearls were shining. There is also a fresh and moist fragrance in the air. - Ru Zhijuan, "Lilies".

"Why should I study hard? When a child asks you that, how do you answer? To get into a good university? Looking for a good job? Make more money? Live a better life? After reading the following set of comics, I believe you will give him a satisfactory answer.

After reading this set of comics, is there anything you want to say? I thought of a passage that Long Yingtai had written to her son, and put it here to encourage my parents:

Child, I ask you to study hard, not because I want you to compare your grades with others, but because I hope that you will have the right to choose in the future. Choose work that is meaningful and time-consuming, rather than being forced to earn a living. When your work has meaning in your heart, you have a sense of accomplishment.

When your work gives you time and does not deprive you of life, you have dignity. A sense of accomplishment and dignity that brings you joy. ”

It is also useful not to read or to read less, but the less they contribute to society, the less money they make. If you study more, you spend more money and spend more time, but you make a lot of contributions, you earn more money, and your status is high.

That conversation left a deep impression on his son, and from then on, he would make the best choice without coercion or inducement in his studies.

02 Don't think that reading is useless, don't be afraid that reading will eventually forget, and don't be afraid that others will say that you are a nerd.

When I was a child, I ate a lot of food, and I can't remember what I ate now, but it's certain that some of it has become my bones and meat. ”

Sanmao said: "Many times, I may think that many of the books I have read have become a cloud of smoke and no longer remember, but in fact, they are still potential. In temperament, in conversation, in the mind is boundless. Of course, it can also be revealed in life and writing. ”

Zhou Guoping said: "Read useless books and be a dreamer." If you only read books that are useful for exams, then you are not a person who really loves to read, and those who really love to read are reading 'useless books' and reading books that have no practical value but can improve your spiritual life. ”

Knowledge affects the horizon, the horizon determines the pattern, and the pattern affects a person's life. I am most afraid that you will do nothing in your life, and comfort yourself that you are ordinary and precious.

I admit that I am a very ordinary person, I don't think that reading is to make a living, not to follow the crowd in society, as some people think, I think that is too high, beyond my imagination.

In my opinion, studying is all about gaining monetary wealth, getting a decent and effortless job, using this money to make a good living, and having the ability to solve everything when I am needed in the face of accidents.

My mother persuaded me not to study, go directly to work, there are people I know at home, you can give me a job that is not tired and the salary is good, she thinks that reading is useless, anyway, reading is to make money, and now I will make a few more years. But I don't want to, I admit that the money you make after reading is not necessarily very high, but this society can't do it without reading, there is no culture, whether you have money or not, you will be looked down upon, and you will not have the opportunity to do high-tech work in your life, without more choices from others, under the wave of social development, you may face elimination.

It is impossible to read only for yourself. First, the purpose of studying is to raise parents and repay their kindness. At present, what the world is looking for is a knowledge-based economy and society, which is no longer the agricultural era of the past, and it is absolutely impossible to have only the strength and no brain, and if you want to earn money, you must have extensive knowledge and special talents, so as to provide yourself with a stable life.

Since ancient times, China has been the basic quality of filial piety, and parents have worked hard to raise themselves, and they should repay their parents as long as they have the ability in the future. If you want your parents to live a good life, you must also have the capital to support them. Study diligently, get ahead in the future, and find an official position, so that your parents can spend the rest of their lives in peace!

If you don't study, unless you are a genius, unless you can open up a financial path for yourself, will you still support your parents by farming? Do you want your parents to receive CSSA, or even reach out to your elderly parents for money? Everyone wants their family to enjoy the best life, because studying is not only for themselves, but it also determines the future life of their parents.

Second, reading is a contribution to society and a thriving community. A sustainable society needs people. There is no talent, there is no talented leadership in large companies, there are no strategic analysts, and mismanagement; A country has no talent management, government decrees are not in line with needs, the implementation is not well-implemented, and the country is in decline.

It can be seen that talent is necessary for the world, and talent comes from school and study. Where there is talent, there is creativity, ideas, then implementation, and finally the progress of the community and culture. Therefore, reading has played a great role in the progress of the times.

Third, reading books is for the future of mankind and the progress of civilization. Civilization will progress, and knowledge will be renewed. In the past, some scientists believed that the earth was square, and later it was also proved that the earth was round; In the past, it was thought that the eclipse was a tengu eclipse, but it was later proved that the moon blocked sunlight.

Many so-called theories will have a chance to be overturned. Think about it, if no one reads books, the development of knowledge is interrupted, and no one studies anymore, then some erroneous theories will continue to circulate and harm the world. As the saying goes, "the truth becomes clearer the more you argue, if no one reads, how can there be the capital for debate?

The above three points are believed to be the most effective dialectic.

Reference: Wutong Rain's personal opinion, no plagiarism.

Reading is not necessarily for yourself, if you read well, you will enter a good middle school, you will enter a good university, work with a good d, and then live in a western-style building, raise a dog, and if you are good, you will have a lot of money to support your mother and father. It's Grandma and Abba. If you don't study, the teacher will be unemployed, and if you study, you will bring a job to the teacher, so you will be a teacher.

In fact, success only needs to do one thing, that is, to find the industry you like, as long as you find it, you don't have to worry about not doing it well, and you don't have to worry about not doing it, because this is what you like, you feel happy when you start, and those who feel pain They only take doing things as a task, so they have always been in that position, and only when they find the industry they like, they will get twice the result with half the effort, the best is not necessarily suitable for themselves, and the best is the best for themselves. Many great companies start their companies in their forties and fifties because they have spent decades understanding what industry they are suitable for.

It is recommended to change majors, interest is very important. Go the way you want to go and don't listen to what others say, it may not be right for you. Although the one you choose yourself may not be suitable, at least the one you choose will be completed on your knees.

Since there is no interest anymore, it is okay to give up. You can study on your own in school first, at least after you get your diploma before learning how to be a pastry chef.

I'm the same, but I still have to study first, and I have a lot of work days, so I'm not in a hurry.

Books are the source of our knowledge and the key to unlocking our doors. Good books can enrich our lives and tastes, and take us to the other side of success.

I feel that books are indispensable in a person's life, and I feel that books are like our friends, always guiding me and helping me. I think there are many reasons why people want to read, and reading is a kind of learning, enriching one's knowledge and learning something useful to oneself in learning.

If you are a student, you may first read books to prepare for exams, which contain a lot of knowledge that can be learned in textbooks. Reading should not be just for the sake of coping with exams, but what knowledge we have learned through reading, and we should apply this knowledge to practical life and improve our own self-cultivation, which is the main purpose of our students' reading.

If you are an adult who reads, it is more to improve your academic qualifications or knowledge, and you can be comfortable in your work, and reading some professional books can help them realize their own value, but they can also read some literary works to improve their self-cultivation and morality, and when communicating with them at work, they can reflect their self-cultivation.

No matter what age you are, it is not harmful to read more books and read good books. Reading books that are useful to you can not only benefit you a lot, but also change some of your thoughts or attitudes through some life insights in books, so that you can better reflect your own value in life or study. In short, if you want to further improve your ability and cultivation, it is right to read more good books.

First, in order to increase knowledge and broaden horizons. If we don't study, then I, we will all be ignorant, and a life without culture and knowledge is a failure and meaningless. Reading books can enrich knowledge, see what you have not seen, heard, and thought in books, and you can know many people with lofty ideals, enter their world, and listen to their stories.

Reading books can raise one's mind to a higher level, and can make one's realm higher than others. Moreover, by reading books, you can have a different kind of fun, which is not comparable to other activities.

Second, read books in order to change your destiny. In today's society, reading and studying can change one's destiny, and this is probably the best way to go. After studying hard for more than ten years, he passed the college entrance examination and was admitted to university to see a different world.

And people often say that "if you are ugly, you should study more", if you don't have outstanding appearance, prominent family background, and don't have enough good luck, then you will study hard, get out of your own small circle, and change your destiny.

Third, in order to give the family a better future. The family has worked hard to raise their children to grow up, and they have worked hard for most of their lives, who doesn't want to give them a good life in the future and let them enjoy themselves, and all this requires the children to study hard, change their original lives, and get a better life. For me, my family is the most important thing to me, and for them, I have to study hard to achieve my own success and give them a secure future.

Reading can improve the quality of self, better growth and development, you can work hard to realize your ideals, reach the distance in your heart, what could be happier than this!