Very painful self love, I am very miserable right now

Love is two-sided, if it becomes unilateral, it is naturally very tired, then this is not called love, it is called difficult maintenance, you should talk to her well, see what she thinks, real lovers and friends are the same they care about not whether you fly high, but whether you fly tired or not. Your idea is very right, maybe time will give you the best proof, in other words, after a while, when you meet the next person, maybe you will look back at yourself now, and feel that she does not seem to be the most important thing to you, maybe someone makes you better to love, to care, and the other party also loves you and cares for you like this. Don't worry, until the end, we will never understand what we really want, take your time and follow the fate!

You still have a kind heart, let the little girl go, why do you have to force it, do you have to take the initiative to kiss you to calculate, then your love for her is too worthless. is saying that the little girl has to be hurt by others, and you still want her to take the initiative to be considerate of you and dream!!

If you fall in with her, she will have feelings for you.

It's true.

In other words, her realm is higher than yours. Love is ordinary and plain...

It's hard to say, it depends on whether you want to come black or white, and it doesn't really matter what the reason is.

People are only 18 years old, let them go.

Self-love for suffering, take chestnuts from the fire.

It seems that the girl you said is very similar to my personality...

I'm a girl too...

It only means that I don't like you...

Belch... Don't hit me ...

She just wants to find the feeling of being in love, and you're just a trial for her.

You can find an activity that makes you feel comfortable. A lot of things can happen. Just believe in yourself.

First of all, what is the right mindset?

A pure mind is the most correct state of mind, that is, there is no concern and no thoughts.

The third is the heart of benevolence, full of love for others, and willing to give. When you feel pain when you see a stranger or participate in a group activity, it is a sign that you still have problems with your perception of human relationships. If people think too much about themselves, they will have a bad mentality, and if they think too much about others, they will pay less attention to themselves, so that many problems are not a problem, because they don't care.

There was a Hong Kong volunteer in Yushu**, the story of Ah Fu, touched many people, I don't know if you have seen it, watch more such programs and articles, it will adjust your heart.

In addition, it is recommended that you do more good deeds for others, and it is better not to be known by others, which is also a good way to adjust your mentality.

I wish you good luck.

Psychological (spiritual) problems do not arise out of thin air, they are caused by the instinct of the brain, as long as the conditions are available, they will occur naturally, and they are the result of the synthesis of internal and external factors, in fact, for each person, this is the inevitable result of the interaction of various situations at that time, human beings must have an instinctive consciousness of distress in order to survive and evolve, this instinctive consciousness makes people's brains feel worried, afraid, and fearful, and all kinds of neuroses are different aspects of this strong emotional feeling, the essence is the same, and it is caused by temporary brain activity tension. My experience is that mental illness may be better without taking medicine, people's brains must be able to slowly repair their own injuries, persistence is victory, sometimes pain is caused by their ignorance, few people know that depression has special significance for people, and any quantitative change will cause qualitative change, the end of depression is a higher level of happiness, is to see everything generously, after the baptism of depression makes us have stronger immunity, resist any psychological problems.

Do you have a family, anxiety and depression collapse because there is no family, no responsibility, no dependence.

Only those who can bear the burden can be happy, and they should be happy for those they care about.

If you want to live happily, you must endure hardships and hardships. Solving the root cause of the problem is the solution.

It seems that the psychological problem has not been completely **, and I hope to continue to consolidate ** as well.

Time can be shared with you, and as time passes, your pain will disappear with it. Do more meaningful things and make more friends. Maybe it will help you.

Find the person who makes you very, very painful, slap him hard, make him miserable and miserable, and you won't cry!

Then continue to let it hurt again, so painful that you feel that you don't need to hurt anymore, and you will realize how stupid you were before!

It's going to be fine after the pain, don't take too long, just think about doing something fun to distract yourself.

Find a place where no one is and cry.

Donor, it's useless to keep it, let's cut it, and you can still practice the Sunflower Treasure Book.

Papaya is eaten as a meal and massaged by yourself.

Massage yourself and start with your diet.

Massage the chest for 15 minutes in the morning and evening, and it will be effective in one month.

You have two paths: study literature or science. Obviously, you can only study literature, because you can't keep up with it anyway.

Now there are two paths, learn or not learn. You definitely have to learn, the next question is how to learn, you only have this way, instead of worrying about yourself all day long, it is better to calm down and study hard, since you can be admitted to a key high school, it means that you have the strength. If you calm down and do it, you will definitely learn well.

Note! There is only one way for you, and if you fail to grasp it, it will be even more pain waiting for you. As for your homeroom teacher, can't you really go through a little trouble?

What is the meaning that there is no hope for a transfer, you can knock directly on the principal's door, I want to change subjects! Interest is the best teacher, you are only in high school, the road is long, if only let the subject determine your unhappy life in the future, how worthless! (Of course, knock on the principal's door to be kind, not necessarily the principal, just the manager) I wish you a quick end to the nightmare.

I didn't have any pressure to study! I'm a failure!

So I don't understand it at all!

Hope you get through this!

Ay!!! It's all bullshit diploma messing with goods.

I rub the gold, and it shines everywhere.

No matter where you are, your efforts will not be in vain.

First of all, don't be overly nervous, studying is not the only way out. Also, now we should try to cultivate an interest in studying liberal arts. In any case, you are better than most people who are not admitted to key middle schools, and you must be cheerful.

Is it possible to transfer to another school? Don't put all the blame on the arts and sciences, the key is yourself, understand? When you first go to high school, you will be like this, the original high-achieving students have suddenly become ordinary students, or worse, there is a lot of psychological pressure, work harder, there is no solution.

The most direct way·· Repeat a grade...

How can the head teacher have the final say on the future and let the parents talk to the school.

Also, work harder, maybe you can meet the teacher's requirements?

How can you know if you don't try, besides, China's education is nothing more than memorizing more things and doing more questions, and you can do anything if you want to work hard.