My ex girlfriend wants to get along with me, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-15
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Anyway, your relationship isn't very long. Do you love this woman very much?,She said that when you broke up, you didn't chase after her?。。 Seeing that you have been able to endure the pain until now, and you are still hesitant, I still advise you to give up.

    First of all, this woman doesn't love you very much.,She may have thought of you again when she encountered a setback.,You're just the person she thinks of when she's unhappy.。。 If you reconcile now, I guess she will break up with you in the future, so why bother?

    As for yourself, bear with it, there's nothing you can't get by, my experience tells me that time is something powerful enough, so... Leave it to time.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Since you didn't want to separate at the time, why not try dating for a while?

    If you really don't fit, after a while you will give up.

    Love should go with the flow, follow your own heart, and don't regret it if you love.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Then it's okay, maybe she figured it out, but you can't bear her anyway.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    According to what you said, you are in the spare tire position, the woman has reunited with her ex, and they have two children, in order to take better care of the children, she will mostly choose to live with her ex, and the child is her biggest fetter.

    If she doesn't reply to your WeChat, she has already shown her attitude and chooses to draw a line with you. In fact, this is good for you, better than those who step on two boats, if you keep maintaining an ambiguous relationship with you or replying to your WeChat, I don't think that woman is very good. Now that the other party has made their attitude clear, you don't have to dwell on it.

    There is a good saying: love is letting go, love is freedom.

    Live your life well, and you will find the angel that belongs to you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Hello, first, don't rush to reply to your ex-girlfriend, don't refuse or accept, calm yourself down first - for a while, think about it, whether you can still accept it, whether you can let it go. The last relationship can be regarded as a chance to give the other party a chance to think again. Second, when you calm down and think clearly, find an opportunity to explain yourself to the other party.

    Thoughts, if you choose to accept the other party again, then you must ensure that you and the other party can forget the previous hurt and emotions, and have the courage to start again. 3. You can't refuse the other party, but you can't let go of your psychology and often contact your ex-girlfriend, then the other party will feel that you are reluctant to have that relationship, and your ex-girlfriend will still have thoughts about you because of your behavior, so the damage to the other party and yourself will be deeper.

    Fourth, even if the other party comes back after all, they have already hurt each other once, if you choose to accept each other again, you should also think about whether you can accept it again, whether the relationship between the two can go back to the past, if you feel that getting along with each other will be very embarrassing, then it is better to make a wise choice as soon as possible, so that the damage is much reduced. Fifth, the attitude should be resolute and not the position is not firm, the same for a while, always feel that the knot in the heart can not be passed. It seems that when you promise each other, you can't figure it out for a while, and you feel that it is not appropriate, so that the vicious circle of repeatedness can only deepen the hurt between each other, six, you must maintain a good attitude even if you still love each other so you accept each other, but you can't often mention it in the relationship that you have to start over in the past, you must maintain a good attitude and correct your attitude in order to continue the feelings between each other.

    If you blindly dwell on the past, it is better not to start.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Since your girlfriend has reunited with your ex, you should quit reasonably. If you are not particularly good, even if you are entangled in every way, you will not be sure of the chance of winning. Many people have nostalgic habits, including for people.

    Your girlfriend and ex are back together, which shows that the relationship is still relatively deep. At the same time, it shows that your girlfriend is a more infatuated person. Men have their own careers, but husbands have no wives, and people must strive to make themselves better.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Give up, since the other party has not replied to your message, it is a sign of her attitude.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think it's better for you to give up, since you're gone, don't keep it, after all, she has a child over there, and there is no grass at the end of the world, and you will find your cherish.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    are all back together, you still have to bear it silently, after all, leaving you must mean that you are not deep enough to be emotional, no matter how persistent you are, it doesn't make much sense, but you are very tired.

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