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It is their freedom for young people not to marry or have children, it is good to get married and have children, and it is not so bad to be alone and old alone without getting married, as long as you are happy and happy, it is also good to work hard to earn money for the elderly!

Animals can have fewer or even no fertility at all when the environment is bad.

Because fertility at this time is not only ineffective, but also wastes the mother's resources. And it will intensify the struggle between individuals.

Animals know the truth, are people worse than animals!

It's not that young people don't want to get married, it's not that they don't want to have children, but now the pressure of life is relatively high, the quality of life is also improving, and getting married and having children requires a big cost, and some young people can't afford it at all!

Not a big deal. After all, getting married and having children is a voluntary action. Not wanting to get married may be the need not to get married. I thought I still had a sense of responsibility for not having children without getting married. Giving birth to offspring.

Nowadays, many young people are more emancipated, open-minded, and self-conscious, and many times they are afraid of taking responsibility, hardship, and tiredness, and only think that they can live happily.

Young people don't want to get married, they always have to think about their own good life, and they don't want to pass on the lineage, this item is in general, it may be that this young man hasn't played enough, and he wants to get married when he has played enough.

It's normal for young people not to want to get married and have children, because they're young. But when you reach a certain age, you don't want to get married and have children when you're no longer young.

Who doesn't want to have both children and daughters, but the reality is that they can't afford to tie the knot, the price and housing prices are so high, the income of most people outside the system is unstable, and women want a house, a car and a bride price, and many young people can't afford it, don't you know about these? Your question is the current version of "why not eat minced meat".

Nowadays, there are many young people who do not want to get married and do not want to have children, and many of them disagree with the idea of traditional inheritance.

I think everyone's life pursuit is different, and now the times are changing, and the concept is also changing, so many young people now feel that inheritance is not so important.

It's not about having a pet, giving a nest to sleep in, and taking a regular bath is all it takes. It is very expensive to raise a child, and in order to lay the foundation for his nutrition from an early age, he needs to buy imported milk powder. Before school, in order for him not to lose at the starting line, he had to buy a school district house in advance.

Everyone knows that this is a conspiracy of real estate developers, but what is the cost of doing it for the sake of children?

Now young people are under pressure and don't want to get married and have children, and when the conditions are good, they will want to get married and have children.

Why be afraid, the conditions of the current nursing homes are not much better than before, and the times are advancing.

Among the post-90s and post-00s, there are indeed many people who choose not to marry and have children. However, this does not mean that this will become mainstream. ......The reason why I say this is because getting married and having children is always the mainstream of young people's choice, late marriage and late childbearing do not mean that they are not married and infertile, and real life will prompt young people to make the choice of marriage and childbearing.

1. The concept of marriage and having children has always been the mainstream view in the minds of young people.

Although there are many young people who choose not to marry and have children, this does not mean that this is the mainstream choice of the post-95s and post-00s. ......In fact, among the post-95s and post-00s young people, the vast majority still choose to get married and have children, which is their mainstream choice. ......It's just that the behavior of those young people who choose not to marry and have children is too conspicuous, so it will give people the illusion that most young people choose not to marry and have children.

2. The young people born in the 95s and 00s choose to marry and have children later, which does not mean that they will not marry and have children.

For the post-95s and post-00s, most of them did choose to marry later and have ......children laterThis makes it true that there are not many young people born in the post-95s and post-00s who get married and have children. ......But we have to be clear that late marriage and late childbearing are by no means the same as not marrying and having children. Those post-95s and post-00s who choose to marry later and have children will eventually get married and have children, which is the mainstream choice of most people.

Those who really choose not to marry and have children are always in the minority.

3. Real life will prompt the post-95s and post-00s to make the choice of getting married and having children.

Among the post-95s and post-00s, there are indeed some people who have the idea of not marrying and having children at the beginning. ......But with the gradual enrichment of life experience, the minds of these people will change. ......Under the influence of their families, relatives and friends, and those around them, these post-95s and post-00s will gradually realize the necessity of getting married and having children, as well as the many benefits they bring to themselves, so that they will eventually change their minds and want to get married and have children.

It is precisely because of this reason that unmarried and infertile will never be the idea of post-95 and post-00 young people, and the vast majority of them will still choose to get married and have children.

In China, non-marriage and infertility have always been non-mainstream, and it is difficult to say that they may marry later and have children later, and vote with their feet on a large scale.

However, the notion of not marrying and having children will become mainstream.

Young people in first- and second-tier cities are roughly labeled as the following, and a careful analysis will find that each of them does not seem to have the need to get married and have children:

Either the economic pressure is high, and they can't even gain a foothold in the first and second-tier cities, and such people basically can't have children; Either the economy is acceptable, but such people often do not want to get married and have children, because it is likely to seriously affect their current living standards; Either the economy is not a problem, but they are very concerned about their spiritual needs, and such people do not care about worldly things; Either they are financially strong, but such people are afraid of economic disputes caused by marriage.

In life, we tend to look forward to many things, but there may be some risks and *** to try this thing, and when this risk and *** are big enough, we would rather not try new things, and shrink into our own small but warm little world.

This is the case with love and marriage.

Now there are actually two very mainstream values, one is to marry high and marry high, which reflects that we are not willing to suffer. In reality, you often encounter such an example: a girl of 150 likes a boy above 175, which means that a boy under 175 is not considered; But you ask 175 boys and they like girls over 160; And you ask girls over 160 who like 180 boys.

But 180 boys are a very small minority after all. So you will find that in the field of marriage and love, the Matthew effect is extremely obvious, regardless of men and women, everyone is actually only interested in those few people, if you can't find a few high-quality people, you would rather not find it.

Second, the vigilance is very heavy, and everyone's mutual trust is very low. Some people are worried about the other party's domestic violence, some people are worried that the other party has a bad temper, some people are worried that the other party's financial resources are not good, some people are worried about the other party's excessive beauty, some people are worried about meeting a bad mother-in-law, some people are worried about the sky-high bride price, and some people are worried about the property after marriage. And now the first- and second-tier cities are stranger mode, you know little about the other party, this kind of information asymmetry blind box model greatly affects everyone's yearning for marriage.

Therefore, people who get married are often either classmates, have an emotional foundation and have a certain understanding, or they have a reliable intermediary to match in a small range, which also leads to a very weak marketization of blind dates.

Therefore, the overall environment of first- and second-tier cities determines that everyone has a low marriage rate and a high divorce rate. If you are involved with children again, a series of bad things such as bringing children and cram schools will follow one after another, and for young people in the new era who care about their personal feelings, they will retreat.

Let's dismantle it from the perspective of human nature, I have always said that human nature tends to benefit and avoid disadvantages, and is happy from suffering, you say that you have no money, you can't earn money, and you can't find a marriage partner, so you just don't look for it, don't get married, and don't want to have children, this is the so-called Dink, or lying flat, this kind of person, he can get temporary satisfaction.

He can find all kinds of excuses to say how miserable his life is after getting married, and how high the cost of education is after having children? Everything is for two words: avoiding harm.

How can we achieve perfect harm avoidance? First of all, we must stand in line, to find out those who are unhappy in marriage, those who have no freedom after giving birth.

Being alone in front of the moonlight clan and in front of the poor bastard, getting temporary satisfaction is also profit-seeking.

But have you ever thought that when you want to retire when you are old, if you have enough money in your hands, you can live in the most exclusive nursing home, but you don't have a person who is related to you by blood, as your pension endorsement, you entrust all this to a stranger, a person who is not related by blood, do you want to use money and morality to restrain others? Impossible, because you will seek the advantages and avoid the disadvantages, and so will others.

People don't want to take care of you wholeheartedly, this is also to avoid harm, people want to cheat your money, which is also called profit. Do you want to go and report someone? You have no relatives around you, you can't take care of yourself, your life is under the surveillance of others, I don't want you to cry, I don't want you to make trouble, just give you two sleeping pills!

So don't test human nature with morality, you don't choose betrayal, because the stakes for betrayal are not high enough, that's all.

Next, I will analyze the trend of the entire environment and the entire population for you!

If you don't want to give birth, there are many people who don't want to give birth, so the population decline is an inevitable trend! Do you think that when you get old, there will be many people who are unemployed and unable to find jobs as they are today? And then go to a nursing home to take care of you? Impossible.

When there are not enough young people in the whole society, there will be no demographic dividend! The cost of population resources in the whole society will be very high.

Do you think that the thousands of dollars you have saved every month, three melons and two dates, are enough for other people's wages? What's more, some people are even funnier, in front of the moonlight clan, and they still want to be a five-guarantee household in the future, so that the country will provide for you for the elderly, you must know that it is all done by vulnerable groups! You go to the streets to see how miserable the vulnerable are, to experience that if they have a chance to turn over, they will not beg on the side of the road.

Therefore, the cost of pension in the future may be beyond your imagination. Then someone said, do you have children, do you rely on them to support your old age? You're wrong.

Raising a child lies in the inheritance of life, not to give you the old age, but it is a hope, an opportunity for you, and a continuation of life.

Let me give you a very simple example, why do some old people, when he is old, there are so many people around him to visit him and take care of him, and many of them are free, why? Because human nature asks for something, is it you who ask?

Nowadays, young people do not marry each other and do not have children, and when they are old, they have no relatives, and now they live by themselves, and there are no relatives to come and go, so they must get married and have children, and they will have a clothes to rely on in the future.

It's not going to happen, at most there are a few people behind you who chew the root of your tongue, don't take it to heart, there are more people who don't get married, the earth is still turning, and life goes on.

Now young people not getting married and not having children will lead to a depopulation.

There are many people who will talk about pension because of this problem, I think as long as you plan and plan well, there are many forms of pension to choose from, and the money saved to support your wife and children should be enough if you are not married.

I think it's going to go mainstream now. As far as I know, some Western countries have long had negative population growth. Today's young people have a stressful life and a strong sense of reality, so it is not surprising that they choose to marry later and have children later.

If you have limited financial resources, it can be a problem to maintain your living expenses, let alone take on family responsibilities.

The main reason why young people do not choose to get married.

Yes: First, the high cost of marriage is the main reason. Boys born after 1995 must have a certain economic foundation, a car and a house, and in some areas, they may also need a bride price. For a young man, it is impossible to carry such a burden, he has no choice.

Secondly, the cost of raising a child is simply too high. In the past, raising a child only required food and clothing, but now raising a child requires more financial resources and energy. It's not just about giving your child the best food and the best clothes, it's about investing more in nurturing your child.

As a result, many young people worry that their quality of life will decline significantly after getting married and having children. Rather than this, it is better to choose not to get married and not have children.

Third, young people are under a lot of pressure at work. Many young people are busy with their careers after starting work, and neglect life events such as getting married and having children. Because the competition in the workplace is very fierce now, if you are not careful, you will be eliminated.

To sum up, many young people not only have to work hard to achieve their own performance, but also improve their competitiveness by recharging and learning in their spare time. As a result, the age of marriage was unknowingly postponed. Many people find that the people around them are already married and have children, so they choose not to get married or have children.