Please help explain it to a friend in love...

First of all, have you explicitly expressed or hinted at the message that you are willing to be together?

If there is, then he may already think in his heart that you are his girlfriend.

If not, then I think he likes you, but it's not love either, you say that he didn't express the language of a formal relationship, so I think, what he's expressing now is a kind of possessiveness.

The worst result is that you meet a master, he senses that you have a good impression of him, he can't attack it, and he wants to get away. Of course, this is the worst possible scenario.

I've felt the same way you've felt before. He didn't say anything like he wanted to be his girlfriend. But then I thought about it, I thought if he didn't like me, why should he play friends with me, and then I told him what I thought, and he confessed to me.

Later, when we were dating, I asked him why he didn't say that he wanted me to be his girlfriend, and he said that it was because he was afraid that after he said it, I would reject him and return to the relationship with him as a normal friend!

I think he's so proactive with you, you should surprise him appropriately! If he doesn't love you, why would he want to kiss you! Sometimes, you should be proactive..Otherwise, if you miss this love, your heart will be very sad..

Actually, you and he have feelings for each other! But why don't you go for it! There is no emotion in the world that you can get without paying..

Perhaps the most certain thing you should be right now is:

1. What are you looking forward to him becoming? (He will not know if he does not speak the words of his heart.) ）

2. You emphasize that you don't hate him, because his looks don't make you hate. You'd better think about whether you like him as a person or how he looks. There is a very vulgar saying: if you are handsome, you can't use it as a credit card.

A little advice: If you really like her, then make it clear to her: I will wait for you to break up with him. (Because that girl also told you that she was going to break up with him, right?) If the other party is sincere to you, then she will take action.

If you're sincere with her, I don't think a couple of weeks will be a problem for you.

But if a long time has passed, and the girl still refuses to break up, then I think you will have to reconsider this relationship. The more time passes, the deeper you will fall.

Don't: When he and her have not completely broken up, it is better for you to keep a distance from her, not to ask you not to contact her, but to have a degree, which I hope you can grasp yourself. For your own sake, and for the sake of not giving the girl the illusion that you can tolerate her stepping on two boats.

She's right, take advantage of it, and good luck.

Don't go on like this, when the interruption continues, and the chaos will be suffered.

Reconcile, after all, it's not easy to find a confidant!

If you like it, grab it, if you don't like it, forget it, but you don't feel confident enough when you look at anything.

Disagree with your friend's point of view.

Love is not something that comes and goes when you want to come, it is a subtle emotion, you can't stop it when you come, and you can't ask for it when you don't come. So it's not like you can find someone all at once later. Aren't there enough leftover women now?

Love is also a science, not as soon as you go into battle, you know everything, but also need the accumulation of experience, whether the college love is successful or failed, you will experience after you have experienced, will make you better understand what love is, and lay the foundation for a happy marriage in the future.

As friends, you shouldn't be too selfish, and if you're in love, you're probably spending a lot less time with them, and that's normal. But aren't friends supposed to support each other?

I am a few years older than you, there are a lot of leftover girls around me, here I am very pertinent to tell you, as long as the university does not waste your studies because of love, you should really love sincerely, you are now very precious, not mixed with any material pure emotions, just to learn how to love each other, and at the same time see yourself clearly through the person who loves you. Whether this experience is successful or failing, you will get a rare reward. The harvest of a deep love experience in college is by no means lighter than a college job.

The guy thinks the girl doesn't care about him. Later, the boy always showed a high-spirited appearance in front of the girl, and turned his face away from the girl.

This is a typical manifestation of machismo, which belongs to the advanced stage of cancer in straight men.

The girl angrily proposed to break up.

The girl felt very aggrieved, felt that the boy didn't understand his own mind, felt that he was so good to him in vain, and he also felt that the girl didn't care about him, he was too much, so he proposed to break up.

This is the emotional story of two little boys and little girls with high self-esteem who have no emotional experience, according to their own hearts and understanding of love, and at the same time they actually have each other in their hearts, but they both want to save face and suffer from it.

The recommendations for the old summer solstice are as follows:

Both parties have some misunderstandings and one-sided views about each other, and clarifying the misunderstandings may help the two people ease the relationship.

Each other is more self-respecting, refuses to bow their heads, refuses to admit defeat, and suggests that each other give each other a step, don't keep holding it.

Pretending to be very chic, I don't want to be looked down upon by girls. That's what it means.

Both of them are too naïve, it would be nice to grow up,

Because the boy still likes the girl and doesn't want to lose face, so that's the only way.

There should still be! But there is also a question of face.