Don t be too simple, honest people should look at the three pieces of advice left by Guiguzi?

1.Those who are angry when they hear slander are slandered; Those who are happy to see the reputation, the coal. A truly mature person will not easily reveal his true emotions in front of others, otherwise he will be easily used by people with ulterior motives.

If a person can't hold his breath when he hears some unreasonable slander from others, he is easily calculated by others with agitation; If we are complacent because we hear other people's praise, we will attract a lot of flattering villains around us.

2.The responsibility is heavy and the responsibility is light, and he works with his accomplices; The credit is attributed to others and passed to oneself, and it is worthy of saving the troubles and helping the disaster. We often say that friends are not too expensive. So when we make friends, we have to make trade-offs.

3.People are good, learn and follow them; People have evil, and avoid it. When we get along with people, if we want to gain the favor of the other person, the easiest and most effective way is to do what they like.

Everyone has their own preferences, and we learn to follow the wishes of others, so that one of the vanities of the other party is satisfied; We show our disdain for things he doesn't like. As the saying goes, "Like gathers like." When everyone chooses a friend, they will choose which one has the same interests as themselves, and through this way of casting their favors, they can quickly get closer to each other.

1. Know yourself from the beginning, and then know from yourself.

This is Guiguzi's view of the general environment, when we can only clearly understand our own positioning in an environment, so that we can better understand others. Just like in ancient times, when you were fighting a war, you had to remember the strengths and weaknesses of your own team, so that you could understand the strengths and weaknesses of others, so that you could know whether your battle would be successful or not. If you just understand one side, it is naturally difficult to grasp the information comprehensively, which will naturally increase your probability of failure, so no matter when, you must learn.

Second, the army is impermanent, and the water is impermanent. Those who can win due to the change of the enemy are called gods.

This sentence is Guiguzi's understanding in the face of some difficulties, and it is necessary to understand that no matter what kind of difficulties and setbacks it is. There must be a chance to break through. It's just that many times, it's hard for us to be able to accurately distinguish and spot.

This requires you to constantly improve your observation and insight skills, so that you can adjust yourself in time and constantly change your strategy, so that you can find different loopholes and flaws.

3. Speak with wisdom, debate with wisdom, and argue with things; Speak with the noble, speak with the rich, and benefit the poor; With the words of war in humility, and the courage in daring, and foolish words in sharp.

Don't take everything by yourself, some people will bully you with your kindness as ignorance, and if you don't resist, it will only fuel the arrogance of these people.

1. Mourn with affection and look at its benevolence. The meaning of this sentence is to judge whether a person is sympathetic or not, and the easiest way is to do something touching, say something sensational, and see how the other person reacts. If the other person can be moved by it and show their true feelings, then the person is compassionate.

If we do enough and the other person is still indifferent and insensitive, then the person lacks empathy.

2. Speak with the villain and benefit. In the face of different people, we need to use different attitudes and methods to interact with them, and we need to be optimistic about our own interests when interacting with villains, and be careful of villains taking advantage of them to avoid their interests being taken away by villains. If you give the villain a little benefit he wants, then that person can be of use to you.

When dealing with gentlemen, we should treat them sincerely, give them some help in terms of interests, they will treat us as friends, and they will also help you if you are in trouble one day.

3. People learn and follow what they have good, and avoid what they have evil. The meaning of this sentence tells us to do what we like when we get along with people, what people like, we should obey, and what people hate, we should avoid and follow the trend. In this way, the other party will feel that we have something in common with him, full of intimacy, and naturally the relationship between the two will be closer, as the so-called "things gather people in groups".

This is a quote that tells us to be good at timing.

4. The success of the husband must be combined in the number, so it is said that the number of the Tao is also the one who is in time with the time. so that you can achieve the desired success. The sooner we identify the right opportunities for timing, the better, so that we have more time to create more possibilities for success.

Today's society is no longer applicable to "gold always shines", and you are a dark horse, and you need to rely on your own acumen to dig and discover opportunities as soon as possible, and then seize the opportunity.

1. Those who are favored are not arrogant.

The meaning of this sentence is that when a person is successful, he should judge whether he is arrogant and arrogant. In real life, there are indeed some people who show the appearance of villains. Once the villain has the ambition, it is really terrible:

All innocent people who stand in its way will be secretly harmed by it on trumped-up charges. The famous unjust cases created by famous villains in history, so Guiguzi tells us that it depends on whether a person is arrogant and rude when he is successful.

2. Those who are sparse and wasted, watch them not go back.

No one's life is smooth sailing, everyone has different circumstances and may encounter different difficulties, so when a person is "wasted", it is also the time when the career is at a low ebb. What we should pay attention to is whether this person can endure loneliness and not break through the bottom line of morality because of temporary frustration. If he sticks to the moral bottom line, pursues hard, and works hard.

Then, such a state of mind is also extraordinary, and it is also worth associating.

3. Vague people, look at them without fear.

The meaning of this sentence is actually a kind of villain, and some people can say that they see the wind and steer the rudder, flattery, or even black and white upside down. For they are afraid of power, of those who are in high places. So they became villains.

Such a person is not a responsible person in his bones. They may sell everything for profit. Therefore, such a person must not socialize, otherwise he will only cry when he stabs him in the back.

4. People who make friends, don't talk about it.

It's important to make friends, but there are some friends around us who always like to talk about others behind their backs. In fact, it is not only our modern times, it can be seen that there were such people in Guiguzi's era. They "talk wantonly", that is, talk nonsense, that is, talk about other friends behind their backs.

In the face of such a person, I saw through him and decided that we could not have a deep relationship, otherwise we would be the victims.

The first sentence is to ask questions and look at their wisdom, which means that in the normal process of getting along with two people, they ask each other about a sudden question. From his expression and reflection, we can observe whether the person's nature is good or bad, and not only these, but also his views and opinions on this matter, so as to be able to understand the true intelligence of a person.

Second, we all understand that we can't associate with dishonest, untrue people, and these people are not worth associating. Such people will hurt us sooner or later, so we can't be friends with such people, which is also worth observing and pondering in our current society, people must want to associate with sincere people, and the most important thing between friends is to be honest with each other.

The third sentence is to wait for the letter in a hurry. But a very important point is to look at what kind of friend it is, the road that is easy to walk must also be walked with people with good conduct, if you meet a friend with bad character, I am afraid that the road will be narrower and narrower, and finally there is no way to go.

The last sentence is to observe a person to see if he may say completely different things on different occasions, such a person is a real villain, and you can't associate with such a person. It's like if you get along with a person, because you have money, he sticks to you and has a good relationship with you, but if you change to a poorer person, he immediately shows disgust, then one day you are down, he will definitely abandon you, that's the truth.

Guiguzi: You can't be too naïve to be a man, read five sentences, so that you can learn to see through the essence of human nature.