Do honest people have to be bullied? Should honest people be bullied?

That must not be, honesty is not cowardice, but real, down-to-earth, and steady. Honest people are not inconsiderate, but unwilling to care. If you are bullied, you must retaliate with a tooth for a tooth, and you cannot condone it, otherwise others will become even worse.

Yes, honest people in the workplace are always bullied. 1. Being too weak to lose your temper.

As the saying goes: "You can't be arrogant, but you can't be arrogant", but the two "pride" of honest people are not touched.

Many honest people in the workplace always like to be "good gentlemen", they want to have a good relationship with everyone, but they are always cowardly in behavior, and they always have no principles and self in order not to offend anyone.

You must know that the workplace follows the "law of the jungle", if you want to survive in the workplace and develop in the workplace, then you must understand the truth of "the law of the jungle".

There is nothing wrong with being kind, but a kind-hearted person should also have a little temper, let others know that they are not easy to mess with, not a so-called "soft persimmon", not someone who wants to bully can be bullied, if others have to come to you for trouble for no reason, you should not be polite to him.

In short, honest people should remember: don't be too weak, if you want to mix well in the workplace, you must be arrogant!

Second, I don't know how to be flexible and flexible.

Honest people are not only honest, but also very honest in doing things, giving people the impression of being very "wooden". For example, sometimes I feel that this is not right, and I will not change it, and I always think that others will do what they say, and the result is that things are messed up, and it is thankless to do my efforts.

This kind of behavior of honest people is, to put it nicely, to do things at a glance, and to put it badly, it is "dead eyes" and "one tendon to do things".

In the workplace, the most taboo is that you will not be flexible, and sometimes you know how to take expedient measures in order to better protect yourself.

There are some things that need to be "turned a blind eye", be flexible, weigh the pros and cons, and choose the most beneficial way to deal with the problem.

In fact, whether it is the workplace or life, you should understand the world and make yourself "smooth", rather than not knowing how to be flexible and flexible.

3. Helping others is always unrequited.

It's good to help others, but that doesn't mean you always do good deeds without expecting anything in return. If you blindly be a "good old man", not only will you not get enough respect and gratitude, but you will also raise a lot of ungrateful "white-eyed wolves".

Honest people also have a bottom line. Otherwise, you're going to be bullied. Honest people, most of them are kinder.

Kindness also has a bottom line", I don't know when the kindness of the heart has become a gap that is easy to be bullied, people's hearts are too complicated, kindness should also have a degree, you are a little lower others will be a little higher, the lower your posture is, the higher the other party will stand, if your kindness has no bottom line, it is easy to be trampled under the feet of the other party, "The farmer and the snake", "Mr. Dongguo and the wolf" The story we have heard too much, all of them are too kind and hurt themselves, and the other party may not appreciate it.

No one in the world should be bullied, but most people in today's society in order to fight for their own interests, find that a certain person is honest, scolded and beaten and dare not resist, will continue to intensify the bullying of honest people, in today's social workplace, some people want to curry favor with leading colleagues, take the initiative to help colleagues, especially honest listen to the words of the leader, many people say, be honest and obedient, the company will be optimistic about your fancy you and so on, but slowly do it for a long time you will find that The leader who said these words is constantly bullying himself, especially honest people, who do not know how to refuse the requests of leaders and colleagues, and do what others say, when they are scolded and beaten by leaders and colleagues around them, they dare not warn and resist, but slowly cause leaders and colleagues to let themselves do some work that does not belong to their own work, and let themselves take the initiative to help other colleagues do some work, but in the end they are very tired, and they can not get a higher salary, so in today's workplaceDon't think about currying favor with colleagues around you, you must know what your own job is for, you can do your own job well, meet the leaders and colleagues around you and let yourself do some work that does not belong to your own work, then you have to be brave and say loudly, why should I help you do that job, you won't do it yourself, why don't you find someone else to do it, you give me ten yuan in cash first, and then I will help you do it, to find a reason to refuse the other party to continue to put forward conditions to each other, if you meet someone else's, hit yourself, When scolding yourself, you have to warn him for the first time, you call me again, scold a try, and then there is a next time, you have to resist bravely, if you meet those very awesome colleagues, you can't resist, you have to call the police after work to deal with it, otherwise, the leaders and colleagues in the workplace will feel that you are a bully, and you will have to make yourself do some particularly tiring work in the future, and you will not get a high salary, so you must learn to find reasons to refuse other people's requests in the workplace, Friends who have seen what I said, please change it in the future.

Honest people will not necessarily be bullied, but honest and cowardly people who have no bottom line of principles are easy to be bullied, I am also an honest person, but I have basically not been bullied, my approach is very simple: strangle the idea of others bullying you in the cradle, work, if it is a senior to point out your mistakes, criticize you, as a newcomer this to accept, if it is difficult for you, the first time to resolutely fight back, so that he does not dare to have this idea, in addition, the best for people without quality is not to be reasonable, but to scold. If you do it, you don't want it, and if you do it, you will lose money or be detained.

Do honest people deserve to be bullied? Generally, when an employee is bullied, there are two reactions. Everyone has experienced being bullied in the workplace to a greater or lesser extent, and different ways of dealing with it will produce different results.

Don't die in silence, just explode in silence. After being bullied for a long time, it may become more and more nonexistent, or it will explode directly. There are basically two types.

1 .Swallow your anger and keep your job.

People are under the roof and have to bow their heads", many people choose to swallow their anger to keep their jobs after being bullied. But the consequences of this are endless troubles. Once the image of weakness is established, more people will join in the bullying.

When someone bullies you, you choose to swallow your anger and give them a second chance to hurt you. Human nature is like this, they will not stop hurting you because of your patience, but will increase it. In the long run, it is almost impossible to work with peace of mind, and you may even have an emotional breakdown because of it, and in the end, the gains outweigh the losses.

2.Rise up and fight on the basis of reason.

Where there is oppression, there is resistance. Being bullied, some people choose to swallow their anger, and some people choose to stand up. Many times, standing up and resisting is really happy, and it establishes an image that is not easy to bully, and if someone wants to bully people in the future, they have to weigh it.

But it's also easy to leave others with the image of being difficult to manage and thorny.

Being bullied, standing up and fighting for reason, is responsible for yourself. But once you encounter this kind of thing, you will not only appear very impulsive, but also make enemies for yourself, and the other party may hate you even more and take more drastic measures against you.

It is not too late for a gentleman to take revenge. After being bullied, you can't just swallow your anger, and don't resist when you encounter such things. Be sure to assess the gap between your own strength and the opponent's strength, choose the right way, and make different degrees of counterattacks.

There is a limit to tolerance, but it is also necessary to pay attention to the method of counterattack.

An honest person does not mean that you have to be bullied, if someone is bullied, you should still make adjustments and changes, and make appropriate counterattacks, otherwise the bad guys may bully you, and you must have principles and bottom lines in life.

Of course not, honest people are more practical people, and they are also more down-to-earth people, everyone will like to do things, but honest people don't know how to talk, and they won't cheat and cheat. If a person is bullying an honest person, it means that he is not a caring person, and a very selfish and narrow-minded person will bully an honest person.

Kind-hearted people, caring people, will be very good to honest people, get along very well, will treat honest people with heart, will feel that honest people are easy to get along with.

Honest people should not be bullied, people must also learn to protect themselves, honest people, honest people are too kind, they want to bully when they see it, they can't be too cowardly, they can't condone bad people too much.

Honest people have to be bullied, of course not, why are only honest people bullied? Honest people have to be bullied, of course not, why are only honest people bullied? In fact, many times when they are bullied, they are bullied by honest people, of course not, why are only honest people bullied?

In fact, many times you are bullied, and that is because in some aspects, you show weakness, and sometimes you have to show more self-confidence and be strong in everything.

Honest people should not be bullied. Honest people are generally good people, it is difficult for good people to reject others, they will always be taken advantage of, and they must use wisdom to tell others that they are not so easy to deal with.

Honest people should not be bullied, honest people do their duty, down-to-earth people should be treated well, bullying honest people must not be kind in their hearts, so honest people should also fight back.

Honest people don't want to be bullied, honest people also have the temper of honest people, when they are bullied, they should bravely resist and defend their own interests.

This one is certainly not like this.

An honest person doesn't have to be bullied by others, and you can also protect yourself well.

Although you have a more honest personality, but your personal ability can be improved, if you are a very good person, then others naturally do not dare to hurt you easily.

I'm not a sharp-edged person, I just quietly do my job. In the eyes of many people, I am just kind and honest, even a bully.

Last year, we changed to a new office, at first 12 people worked in one room, and then the leader said it was too crowded, so it was divided into two offices, one large and one small. There are eight people in one room and four people in one room. Large office on the north side is not ventilated.

The small office is ventilated on the south side. I was in a big office, and the smell was so bad that I had a headache because of the new desk. So we had time to go to the small office and sit down, it was ventilated and there was no big smell.

After a few days of visiting, one of the kind colleagues brought me a small table and chair and said that I could work there at any time. I was grateful and gladly agreed.

Soon the leader accepted our suggestion and bought us a second-hand desk, which really didn't have a pungent smell. My colleagues and I in a small office suggested adding a desk, and the leader agreed. My apprentice helped me move the desk to the crosshead of the small office so that I could work in both offices.

I set the table for them, wiped the table when I was closed, cleaned up, put my things on the desk and left work. The next day we had activities and didn't go to the small office until it was almost time to get off work and wanted to have a drink. As soon as I arrived at the office, it was not my stuff in my seat, it was the very selfish essence thing, I was puzzled, so I asked another colleague, and she said that your desk was occupied by jing, and the desk of the fine sedan was given to another colleague who also wanted to come here for a temporary office.

I was immediately furious, Jing was not present at the time, I said angrily, "How can there be such a thing, stealing someone else's position, without saying a word." It's too much to take me, right? Then I huffed back to the big office.

I didn't go the next day, and it was said that my colleagues in the small office conveyed my dissatisfaction to the spirit. But she was indifferent, not apologetic at all, and saw me as arrogant as ever. The more I thought about it, the angrier I became.

You can't be bullied like this. I intercepted her, "I'll talk to you a few words." You changed my desk while I wasn't there, and you gave yours to someone else, and you made me have no place to sit, that's too overbearing, right?

She quibbled, "I asked for an extra table in the first place." "It's both of us, you didn't move the shirt, my apprentice moved it for me, you didn't say you wanted two tables at the time, and when I cleaned up, you said you wanted it?"

She said again, "I'm here, and I'm afraid of cold waist, so I'll move you there." "Yes, it's a public thing, you have the right to occupy two tables, and I have the right too. But do you have to talk to me?

It's too bad for me, isn't it? "I'm sorry, I didn't consider your feelings, we can trade back. "No need.

I coldly refused.

Since then, I've seen her through, I used to know that she was selfish, and now I've finally learned it. And I also understand that you can't be too honest in the workplace, people are good at being bullied, and horses are good at being ridden!