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There are many encounters in this world. Many people meet and then separate, and then there is no time for them to live. But there is a kind of person who can meet very happily.

For people who are destined, as long as there is a breakthrough, you can make a flame of affection, and because you are with each other, it is easy to find the advantages in the other party's hand.

Even if they live together for a long time, the two of them will not hate each other because of it. If you are in love with each other, you can still maintain a posture of mutual appreciation through getting along. From a socio-psychological point of view, this is also a person who belongs to the electromagnetic field and attracts each other, which is usually a major manifestation of soul fit.

Imagine what kind of person can accomplish understanding. If two people do not have a similar environment and do not have the same outlook on life, it is usually difficult to reach the same view. Neither can consider each other in terms of the attitude of others.

On the other hand, people with similar views and the same daily life environment are more likely to understand each other. If one day, you meet someone who wants to understand you and tolerate you.

But you also want to get to know the other party, and even look at everything about him with a tolerant attitude, it is obvious that you are a soul match, and after holding hands, you can also find a lot of trust. For such people, once hand in hand is successful.

It is recorded that even if there are differences and contradictions in coexistence, they cannot stop each other's hearts. With the change of time, it is very easy for two people to become real confidants, and in the process of living together, they can not only find a good feeling, but also have a long-term sense of stability.

How to solve the conflict between two people? If lovers insist on each other, no one is willing to admit defeat. Obviously, in the end, it is the relationship between two people that is damaged.

On the other hand, true lifelong partners, even if they encounter problems, they can stand on a certain sense of the overall situation.

Considering the emotions of two people, they will be diligent to solve the problem and protect each other's fate. The above is mine, I hope it will help you, if you have any other opinions, please leave a message in the comment area to discuss. The above is mine, I hope it will help you, if you have any other opinions, please leave a message in the comment area to discuss.

You can see whether the person has filial piety, as well as the person's values, the ability to consume and the direction of consumption, as well as the attitude of consumption, and whether the person is usually diligent, you can see whether the person is suitable for yourself.

Look at the other party's attitude towards you, see if the two people have a common topic, and whether the three views of the person are the same, mainly look at these three details.

You can learn from his attitude towards you, some principles of doing things in life, whether he respects, understands, trusts, tolerates you in daily life, and knows how to consider problems from your point of view.

People who pay attention to details are particularly calm, mature, and more sophisticated, that is, their social experience should be quite rich.

People who pay attention to details are always very attentive and meticulous in everything. This kind of person will do everything you give him, and he will do it very well, and he is very good. So this kind of person is a person who is reassuring and can do big things.

There are more such people in the work unit, and the position is relatively high, because they are particularly good at observing words and feelings, and they are quite proficient in speaking, and they can do that kind of mental and straightforward way. For example, if you are thirsty, they may immediately pour a glass of water in front of you. So such people are very popular in the factory.

Because leaders are very proud of this kind of people, because they are more pragmatic, particularly capable, and will draw inferences from others. So this kind of person is quite good, and he can be rated for any job title or something. Colleagues are also very willing to get along with this kind of person, because they are very good at things and will not let you find out the slightest incorrectness.

They are comfortable at work, and they will be very considerate of their subordinates. In short, they have so many advantages that people can't count them. There is no one who does not want to be in the company of such people.

Therefore, they are also very sought-after in the factory, and they all hope to work with him, because they can learn a lot of knowledge from him. His every move, word and deed is an object for people to emulate. Because they are very serious people, their work efficiency is also very high.

Why? Maybe we don't pay so much attention to it in normal times, but a person's details really matter.

Detail refers to a person's depiction of the smallest unit of character, the development of events, natural scenes, social environment, etc. The details should be realistic, vivid, and subordinate to the expression of the theme idea. A detail is a subtle but easily overlooked object or behavior that can affect the overall situation.

What are the details of a boy's shirt in love?

Maybe you can remember my aunt's date to remind me, boil me brown sugar water, and help me rub my stomach. I'm suddenly unhappy, and you're not asking me why, but you're constantly making me happy or slapping me instead of being very impatient. I sent him a lot of messages, and he was busy replying to me one by one instead of skipping that sentence.

I casually said something I liked, and the next time he saw it, he would take it and appear in front of me. It's not to let the girl be at the bottom when chatting, and not to let the girl hang up first.

The details are not told by others but by yourself, she is your girlfriend and not someone else's girlfriend, you have to slowly understand her, the sense of security is part of the details, I care about the details I would rather die to the end than want to tell you.

Because some things are not interesting to say, and I don't bother to look forward to thinking about them after a long time, and there are some things that you can understand. We are moved in the details, and we are also broken in the details. Love is in the details, and neither is love. So the details of a person are really important.

Sometimes it's really the details that make a difference.

I have a very good friend, and although he is not very good-looking, there are many details about him that make me feel that he is very good to me. Sometimes he would come to me and go out to dinner with me, and in order to avoid embarrassment between the two of them, after all, he was a man, I would call my friends to go out to eat together. When eating, he is very polite, he will always hand me the menu and let me order first, instead of picking up the menu and ordering, he will help me with the dishes when eating, he knows what I like?

I don't like to eat anything, so I like to eat everything, I think he is also a very careful person, otherwise how would he know, what dishes to clip for me?

He has a lot of friends, so every time he plays outside is a big group of people, and usually I feel lonely in the middle of a group because it's easy to be overlooked. But he never ignores me, no matter how many friends he has, he can take care of everything, this is a special care for me, he is afraid that I will be isolated, so every time I go out to play, he will be by my side, I am silent, he is silent, I sing, he sings, anyway, everything is up to me, he is happy when I am happy, I want to do whatever I want, he will not let me be left out in the cold. He knew that I was afraid of being left out and hated being ignored, so he always paid attention to my feelings.

So, when he moved me from these details, I felt that he was very good to me, and I really never met such a good person in my life.

In the unit, I have a few good colleagues, in addition to the tacit cooperation in work and mutual help in life, some small details also make the relationship between us particularly harmonious and close.

Xiaohu is my "full-time driver", and for several years, he has picked me up and dropped off work. Xiaohu and I are colleagues, we live in the city, and we have to go to work at the unit 30 miles away every day. In the beginning, we didn't buy a car, we rode an electric car to and from work together.

Later, Xiaohu bought a car and began to pull me to and from work. Every morning Xiaohu drove out of the door, he rang my mobile phone, I heard the ringing, went downstairs to the gate of the community, Xiaohu and the car were already waiting for me there. Every day when I was about to get off work, Xiao Hu rang my mobile phone again, and when I heard the ringing, I packed up my things, left the office, and went to the door of the unit, where Xiao Hu was already waiting with the car.

How about it, Xiaohu is a good person, right?

My colleague Lao Li's family is in the countryside, there is a big yard, full of all kinds of vegetables, after each harvest, I will always use a bag to give me a taste, saying that there is no medicine, pure green and natural, and I can't buy it in the city. Receiving Lao Li's "gift" always warms my heart.

Xiao Zhang's office is next to mine, and when we are not working, we naturally have more opportunities to communicate, so the relationship is closer than that of ordinary colleagues. Every day after work and before work, we have to say hello to each other, and we will help each other to pick up materials or hand in something at the unit. Fetch water for the office, and we'll bring it for each other.

If you forget to lock the door, it doesn't matter, when the other party leaves, they will definitely help you lock the ......Such a colleague relationship is enviable.

Finally, as long as we have kindness and gratitude, we will find that the people around us are still good.

What a person does to you, not just words; But to be able to really do it with your heart, you can see it at a glance, just take an example: there is a person who knows two people with different personalities, and people can't say whether they are friends or not, but rely on their characteristics and some circumstances to illustrate, let's talk about their characteristics.

The first person takes the initiative to help you every day, if you meet you completely without thinking about everything to talk to you and take the initiative to invite you to coffee, always he takes the initiative in front of you, you are a little embarrassed, don't care about anything else (this person must be sincere, otherwise he will not meet with such intentions to go to the café to sit down, please drink coffee and talk about things for a while), this is the real friendship is seen from this little thing, Therefore, this kind of person is worth associating with, and it is also the type of person we want to associate with (must be valuable).

And the second person, although there is a topic to talk about every day, but always go to others to say that I am not good, that is not good, the meeting is completely to cope with talking, and the character is extremely bad, for everyone is a two-day friendship, after a long time, everyone avoids it, for fear of bringing bad luck to themselves; No one can compare to him if he says it's useless, let him do a favor and he doesn't help, (it's not that he doesn't help, it's always to deal with you and say that he has something, but in fact there is nothing) is such a person who doesn't have to interact with people, how can he make others trust him and be friends with him.

In fact, according to these two examples, it can be compared that a person who is good to you does not have any bad intentions, and is completely sincere; Attentive to you, this is a person worth associating!

ps: Only people who are worthy of dating are the most valuable friends, and we should keep up with this kind of people and make more friends!!

I used to have a roommate, and I didn't know much about her because there were six people in the dorm. I only know that there are a few people in her family, she ranks second, and she is quite gentle and serious in her studies, but she is gone. But one incident happened that changed my impression of her so much.

At that time, the two of us were in the dorm room at the same time, she was tidying up her things, and I was watching TV. Then I saw that she kept pestering things there, and I was curious to go up. I saw her wrap the contents in paper, and then wrap it around with fine tape.

I asked her what it was in it to keep wrapping around. She replied to me that it was a needle. Then I was even more curious, so I asked what to do with this?

She said that this one was going to be thrown into the trash, but she was worried that the uncle who was sorting out the garbage would hurt his hand, so he had to wrap up something sharper.

Immediately I felt that she was really good, who could notice such details, and even if she did, who would remember to do it from time to time? Such girls should also be learned. In many cases, we should not only think about ourselves, but also think about others, so that our society will be more harmonious.

I have a classmate, because when I was in high school, I was in a class, so after I got to college, although the relationship was still not far away, but it was already better than when I was in high school, I saw each other on the road, and I pretended not to see it and walked over directly, which was really much better, because when we first arrived at the university, we were not very familiar with each other, and we also wanted to have a care in this place far away from home, so every time I came to college, there would be your seniors. It was to be admitted to this school with a senior of one of our schools, and then a chat group was built that is our school, because I just went to school, seniors, and my heart and soul were that a school came out, so there was a thing to eat, after all, I was admitted to college, and I wanted to have someone I knew to take care of, so I went to the banquet organized by the seniors!

Because my classmate (a girl) and I may have come to a place that everyone is not familiar with, so I will find someone I know and feel more cordial, so we went together, and when we came back after dinner, because we have a university town there, that is, there are a lot of people, and there are all kinds of sales, but the order is very good, because there are security personnel there, maybe because there are more people there, so there is a person who may be an artist. People stood in a small corner at the entrance of the university town, and put a bowl in front of him with a piece of money, my classmate saw it, and immediately put a five-yuan one for others, at that time I thought she was a good person, people said that begging people can earn tens of thousands of dollars a month, but have you really seen it? If a person does not have even the most basic goodness, then what is there for this person, and what is left!