Why does a person often turn the tip of the bull s horns?

It is more difficult to completely overcome the problem of stubbornness and drilling the horns of the bull, and people's personalities are relatively fixed, but it is not without the possibility of "improvement". As long as you pay more attention to overcoming, calmly consider things, and empathize with things. At least it's improved:

Drilling the horns of the bull is to encounter things, first of all, affected by the mindset, simply from their own experience or current ideas, consider one aspect of things or just one side, and determine that the idea has relative stability and cannot be changed.

To get out of this situation, we should strive to move in the opposite direction. Since it is to do things from one angle, the way to overcome it is to think from multiple angles and pay attention to cultivating the diversity of one's own thinking problems. Thoughtfulness requires comprehensive knowledge, and only when we know more about the background of things can we find the best way to solve it.

It is also necessary to pay attention to breaking your own mindset, let your rigid brain turn a few more corners, and don't be limited to a fixed pattern and can't get out. The teacher finds the brain teaser interesting, and it requires us to break some of our usual habitual perceptions and ideas, and develop our own flexible problem-solving skills. Take a look at such topics, which are not boring and can exercise your thinking, so why not do it?

It may be that a person is used to having no one to talk to.

The first is that the person has a strong self-confidence in himself, the second is that he has a certain understanding of the things in the field he is drilling, and the last is that the arguments of others are not convincing to him.

As far as the matter itself is concerned, it is not a bad thing to drill the horns, because in the field of science, if you want to make real research results, you must drill the horns; But if it is applied to getting along with friends, it can have a negative impact on relationships.

In terms of social evaluation, "drilling the horns" itself is a derogatory term, but to put it another way, if drilling is a prejudice, then using this single derogatory standard to evaluate the behavior of drilling the horns is also a prejudice.

When a person has a deep prejudice against something, he or she will think the worst and cannot extricate himself, which will even affect his or her correct judgment and behavior towards things and things.

Ignorance and stubbornness are twins. Stubborn people love to "drill the horns".

It's not a bad thing to love to get to the bottom of the bull's horns, you just want to understand the problem, which is also good for yourself and can increase your knowledge.

Keeping a plain heart and loving to drill the horns is an act of refuting others, after all, it is not a very good phenomenon. Other people's words and if and oneself noIt's a very annoying behavior, and you'll know it if you think differently, because you don't want anyone to drill your own horns. Therefore, some behaviors often seriously affect your interpersonal communication.

People who love to drill the tip of the horns often can't say a word when they fight ghosts, but they want to show off themselves, and they are jealous, and when they see the people they hate, even if others are right, they will do everything possible to drill the tip of the other party's horns, in order to show that they are more knowledgeable, and they are often self-defeating.

Then you look the other way!

In such a situation, you should find a psychologist, establish a good relationship with the doctor, help you establish a behavior model through the doctor, and change your behavior through analysis**, behavior**, family**, and psychology**.