How to deal with interpersonal relationships?

Think everyone else is fake, but what about yourself?

Dealing with interpersonal relationships is the same as swimming, not a book or two "how to become a master of communication" can be learned, only by practicing in the crowd and dealing with people can you slowly explore and learn, why do you have to eat ready-made, other people's communication tricks are also the results of other people's experience and wisdom, and everyone is in the communication circle of different situations, can not be completely applied, if you are a lazy to think or interpersonal relationships are missing roots, Then you should study the 55 tricks that others hold in both hands for you, and learn slowly.

My way of dealing with interpersonal relationships is very simple, be sincere to people, enthusiastic to help, study hard, and don't talk to villains. But now it's hard to eat. Alas...

Once it is broken, it will lead to a point, touch the bypass, and even bloom in an all-round way. Therefore, the first thing to do is to find a breakthrough.

You are honest and trustworthy, and you keep to yourself.

Approach those things with a cool head!

<> Perspectives on Relationships:

1. The principle of sincerity in interpersonal relations. Sincerity is the golden key to open the hearts of others, because sincere people make people feel secure and reduce self-defense. The better the relationship, the more it is necessary for both parties to reveal a part of themselves.

That is, to communicate your true thoughts to others. Of course, there are risks associated with doing so, but it is not possible to gain the trust of others by wrapping yourself up completely. 2. The principle of initiative in interpersonal relations.

Taking the initiative to be kind to others and taking the initiative to express kindness can make people feel valued. People who take the initiative tend to be likely.

3. The principle of interaction in interpersonal relations. The goodwill and malice between people are mutual, and in general, sincerity begets sincerity, and hostility begets hostility. Therefore, it is important to have good intentions when interacting with people.

I recommend you a book, Li Zongwu's "Thick Black Studies", which will be helpful to you.

I don't want to say too much, I have to weigh it myself.

I'll send you four words: neither humble nor arrogant.

Learn to look at people's faces, find out people's personalities, and do what they like!!

Second, what kind of words you say determines what kind of person you want to play.

3. If you do everything with your tongue, you will only drive yourself to a dead end.

Fourth, look at the other person in the eyes and make the other person feel valued, eye contact is the key.

6. Sharp questions, natural ways to ask.

Seventh, hard numbers, no one will remember.

8. Master the basic questions, and you can also do talk shows.

9. Names are important, whether it's yours or someone else's.

10. It doesn't matter if you make a mistake, as long as you apologize.