How to relieve stress and manage relationships

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Stress and relationships are inextricably linked.

First of all, at work or at home, others are the main stress**; Second, stress can lead to two behaviors: avoidance and aggression. You get angry easily, are very sensitive, self-contained, and like to be alone.

Whether you like to be alone by nature or not, you are a "social animal" just like everyone else, and perhaps it is this need for relationships that makes you torn between them. Depending on the manifestation of this discomfort, different solutions can be found.

You feel that others are enemies:Your distrust is so strong that you always feel uncomfortable in the face of strangers, you don't talk much, or just say a few perfunctory words. The problem is that you suppress your emotions too much, making them as harmful to you as poison.

Method: Learn to trust others. There must be someone by your side that you can fully trust.

Sincerely talk to him and her about yours. Feel. These conversations can train you to be more comfortable expressing yourself in front of other people and help you feel more relaxed with others.

You feel isolated and worthless:At work, you feel like you're just a link in a chain. You can't find the meaning of your actions and feel disrespected.

Method: Fit into a group. Organize a gathering or dinner with friends; Communicate with fellow relatives a lot; Instead of painting alone in a corner, join a drawing group and paint with others.

Your view of the world is too dark :You feel bad at everything, nostalgic for a time when certain values were held in high spirits. You want everything to change, but you don't have much hope for it.

Method: Cultivate the spirit of altruism. You feel like you can't do anything about it, but you forget that you actually have the power to change your view of the world, just by doing a few simple things in your daily life

Helping a colleague; Calm down and listen to the confiding of friends who called; Sincerely appreciate the help of others; You can even try to devote yourself to a pre-existing philanthropic cause. Genuinely opening up to others allows you to let go of your past hostile views of your surroundings and make life better.

In fact, no matter at work, there will be pressure, you need to deal with interpersonal relationships, and leaving the job is more or less risky.

Therefore, I personally believe that it is not too late to decide whether to leave after being clear about your pressure**.

If you think that you are stressed at work, but in fact, it may be that you are really stressed at work, or you may be putting too much pressure on yourself.

1.Pressure at work: There are only two kinds of pressure at work, one is that there is a mismatch between the power of Sun Yeli and the position, resulting in the failure to complete each work task well, or missing a lot of good opportunities; The other is the pressure caused by the heavy workload, such as too many overtime hours, and the boss often exploits and oppresses employees.

2.Pressure on yourself: For example, "The boss gave him a promotion and a salary increase today, I don't know when it will be my turn", "This month's salary is not as much as last month", ......

Reality is sometimes cruel, so when your desires are not satisfied, you will feel pressured and become more and more anxious.

Therefore, if it is the first type of pressure, it is actually a positive pressure that can motivate the subject to grow; If it's the second type of stress, it's time to consider leaving.

The workplace is not a pool of clear water, either there is a conflict of interest, or all kinds of intrigue...In short, there are few simple relationships.

But the main question understands that you go to work to make money, not to make friends with colleagues, and you don't have to handle interpersonal relationships perfectly, treat them normally, and be able to carry out your work without affecting yourself.

As mentioned at the beginning, leaving a job is risky because everyone's situation is different and there are different things to consider. But whether you end up leaving your job or not, first of all, you have to balance your mindset, change your perception, and relax, in fact, everything is not so bad.

Secondly, make a choice according to the actual situation. If you are the first kind of pressure, not capable enough, unable to adapt to your own work, then it is recommended to enrich yourself quickly, the improvement of personal ability is a problem that everyone in the workplace must face, and it is also good for future development.

In other words, even if you leave your job, but another company has job requirements, are you up to the task? If it's the second type of stress, then you have to consider a few questions: Does your physical condition support this kind of intense work?

Is there a future in continuing to do such work? Is the company's governance flawed? If it's all negative, you can consider leaving Kai.

In addition, it is important to evaluate future developments after leaving the company. For example: What do you want? Is it a high salary or a focus on personal growth? Are you able to take on the new role? Are you able to adapt to a new environment and people in a short period of time? Wait a minute. Above.

1.Cultivating a variety of hobbies and interests can help enhance self-confidence and bring colleagues closer together; 2.Actively participate in the collective amusement activities, and show your sunny smile to everyone; 3.

Increasing outdoor activities or sports can help calm the mood; 4.Vent bad emotions in the form of a mountain ruler diary or other forms.

In the workplace, the pressure of work and getting along is actually similar, sometimes the pressure is too much, just ignore him, do something else, empty envy but remember to face it after relaxing, to look a little away, the mentality is very heavy, and the song is to be cherry-tripping.

In the workplace, interpersonal relationships in ** or silver need to be properly handled, sometimes some people are particularly annoying, there is no need to deal with him, but some people are better and need to be on par with others.

In the workplace, to achieve peace and filial piety, and at the same time communicate between people, we must master skills, face the influence of positive energy, and the words of the relationship with the workplace, try to avoid, reduce the emotions of negative pants and eggplant energy, and you can deal with interpersonal relationships and relieve pressure.

Dealing with interpersonal relationships in the workplace will be stressful, and we should use more empathy to deal with and analyze the thoughts of friends, which is more conducive to our interactions with them.

The best way to deal with it is to be indifferent, it seems to be indifferent, but in fact, it is the greatest protection and help for you, because you don't have much contact with others, others will not be able to point to Shiqin to find out your routines, and he will not dare to easily come over to hurt and attack you.

Interpersonal relationships in the workplace are very important to dig into the situation, and handling interpersonal relationships in the workplace well can add points to your work. You should improve your emotional intelligence and pay attention to the skills of communicating with others.

If you want to deal with interpersonal relationships, you have to be bold and not introverted, and anyone can say a few words to him when you meet a shack. Don't offend people, but deal with everyone.

In the face of Sun Bo's interpersonal relationship, we try to go with the flow, don't have too many stammers or annoying situations, and secondly, we should also go according to our own psychological situation. Socks buried.

If we want to ease our relationships, we first need to be a channel for love and goodness, so that all the words and deeds of guilt and fear can flow through us, so that they can disappear and be released.

At this time, others are accepted (in fact, they also accept themselves), when you accept yourself, no matter what others say, you will not be so easy to sit down, when you do not have the right number to sit down, what he says has nothing to do with you, when the other party does not resist inside, he will naturally release his guilt and fear through this channel before digging out your judgment, at this time people will naturally become soft, become calm.

Because he feels the peace within you, and this is the outpouring of love.

So in terms of relationships, we can do this, no matter who it is, whether it's a loved one, a stranger, angry at you, complaining to you, blaming you.

You look at her quietly with a loving eye and a loving attitude, and let the so-called guilt and fear flow through you completely, and your relationship will naturally be reconciled, and you don't have to project others as a victim, or others as a perpetrator.

This is a general explanation of the interpersonal aspects.