What if you know that someone likes you, but you are too introverted and scared????

Love is on your own, don't just passively wait.

The so-called "not something that women do" is just an excuse that you can't let go, don't let yourself regret it.

Another: Since I said it, say more.

Since it is shouted that men and women are equal, why do men have to chase women? "It's not a woman's doing"?

Since men and women are equal, why do many women enjoy privileges as a matter of course [I don't object to ladies giving priority to other practices], but don't pose as little women while shouting about equality between men and women [not sarcastic], since you shout equality you must do it, don't just talk about it.

Sorry to digress, I'm still saying that.

Love to grasp it on your own, don't just wait passively, even if you fail, it is better than regretting it afterwards.

Don't ask, it's not what a woman does, if he really likes you, he will be good to you, you will feel it.

Ask him? It's really not appropriate, maybe he'll give you points for it, and it's hard for you to make that step unless you really like him too much. Why don't you keep your inner peace, and because of the admiration and favor of a few people, introverts will be more likely to get hurt, and it will take a long time to recuperate after injury!

I'm also a more introverted person, and I've never been in a relationship. I don't know how to love someone. Every time I talk to her, I don't know what to say.

But I know that to love someone, you should love with your heart. You say that someone likes you, and you should take advantage of it, but you are afraid of being deceived, and I have been in this situation. You shouldn't doubt her love for you, it will alienate you.

If you love her, you should believe in her. Two people who love each other should trust each other, and if they can't do this, then what is there to talk about love or not.

I said, classmate, you're thinking too much.

The point is not whether he likes you or not, but whether you feel for him.

It would be nice if we could be friends

Isn't socializing with friends of the opposite sex also a kind of learning during the learning stage?

Nothing"Cheap is not cheap"problems.

Wouldn't it be nice to go out and have fun together?

At the beginning of the morning sun, there is no trace, and the turquoise fields reflect the blue sky.

Occasionally, the white clouds are leisurely, laughing at the troubles of the world. ~

I don't think that's what human personality says. But everyone can have their own way of communicating, don't think too much. Let go of the dots.

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I'm a very introverted person, especially when I see someone and I'm scared, what should I do.

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Putting yourself in an environment of inner fear exposes the source of your low self-esteem. Psychologists believe that exposing social phobia and alleviating low self-esteem, this method is very effective, the purpose is to let a person really know and feel what he is afraid of, in fact, fear is just an emotion, it has nothing to do with the facts, in other words, it is not as scary as you think. People with low self-esteem are afraid that what they are doing is not right, that they will be criticized by others, and that they will be too tired to care too much about what others say.

Hints**Give yourself positive hints repeatedly and encourage yourself many times. We all know that people with low self-esteem are sensitive and fragile in their hearts, sulking because of a word from others, excessive in the evaluation mentality of others, sometimes, others deny themselves and think that they are a very bad person, and from then on they think that they will be a very worthless person standing in front of everyone, so they huddle themselves in a small corner, and dare not deal with everyone.

Healthy self-suggestion, also known as self-affirmation, is one of the most powerful ways to help you overcome low self-esteem, even if your inner words are not spoken. For example: I believe in myself, just have a moderate inferiority!

I accept my perfect and imperfect self, I love myself very much, I am very easy to get love and support, in the face of things that have never been done, I believe that I can, I believe in the power of repetition, try more and hone more, there is nothing that cannot be done.

Conclusion: Psychologist Adler once said: low self-esteem is a psychological reaction that everyone will have, but everyone's understanding and application of inferiority is different, and what they gain is not very different from what they face.

If we can face up to our inferiority complex and let it become the cornerstone of our growth, we can reap happiness and success; If we are afraid of low self-esteem and let it become a stumbling block on our road to growth, we will reap failure and pain.

Summary. Of course, when a person grows up, it is most important to have a few close friends. Extroverts may have many friends, but not all of them are genuine friends.

Introverts may not have many friends, but they may make more genuine friends, so there's nothing wrong with that.

Well, right, sometimes introverts feel that because they don't like to express themselves, many people don't know themselves, so they may not like themselves very much. I don't have those outgoing and cheerful people who are popular with Kai Tangerine. Of course, this is just my own idea, and it is not necessarily true.

Some people still like to make friends with introverts. It mainly depends on whether the personalities of the two people can complement each other, and whether they can quietly attract each other.

Of course, when people grow up, having a few close friends is the most important thing. Extroverts may have a lot of friends, but they may not all be true friends. Introverts may not have many friends, but the ones they can make are more sincere friends, so there's nothing wrong with that.

Summary. I don't think it's that introverts are unlikable, it's often us who close our hearts tightly. After others knock on the door of the heart and no one responds, they will naturally leave one after another over time!

Most people will identify with extroverts and have good popularity. It's not that people don't like introverts, it's that introverts don't give others a chance to like them. Or they are not good at spreading their kindness.

In fact, once an introvert has a good impression of people, he will be more determined and persistent. Therefore, when we accept the kindness of others, we must also respond to the kindness in time! Be brave enough to express yourself to others.

I don't think it's that introverts are unlikable, it's often us who close our hearts tightly. After others knock on the door of the heart and no one responds, they will naturally leave one after another over time! Most people will identify with extroverts and have good popularity.

It's not that people don't like introverts, it's that introverts don't give others a chance to like them. In other words, Zheng Song is good at spreading his kindness. In fact, once an introvert has a good impression of others, he will be more determined and persistent.

Therefore, when we receive the kindness of others, we must also reply to the kindness in time! Be brave enough to express yourself to others.

The boy I like, he thinks that I like him because someone else is coaxing.

You can half-jokingly ask: What if I'm serious?

Test his attitude too.

If the result is what you want, then you can be brave enough to express yourself.

He feels that he is making a fuss, but he can't see what you're thinking, and if you express yourself clearly, things may turn out in the direction you expect.

You're just copying your different fireworks.

In fact, you don't have to figure out the character of the person, on the contrary, your current personality is also very good, the person is a polyhedron, and there is any personality. It's not as simple as introverting and extroverting. Introverts are just introverts with unfamiliar people, and can be very extroverted like familiar people.

It's just that in dealing with the world, you have to learn to control yourself, such as you say you like it