Why do anyone want a divorce? Why would anyone want a divorce?

It feels like it's painful for two people to be together. There is no happiness anymore. I just want to leave.

Divorce is a major decision, and different people may have different triggers at different times. The NASDAQ is here are some of the common factors that can lead to divorce:

1.Unresolvable Conflicts and Conflicts: Conflicts and conflicts in marriage are normal, but when these issues become unsolvable or continue to intensify, the idea of divorce can be triggered.

2.No mutual support and understanding: Marriage should be based on mutual support and understanding, and if you feel like you are not getting enough support and understanding in your marriage, you may consider divorce.

3.Major betrayal: Betrayals such as infidelity and extramarital affairs can cause irreparable damage to the marriage, which can be a reason for divorce.

4.Not having common goals and values: If the couple has significant differences about important life goals and values, it can lead to the breakdown of the marriage.

5.No communication and interaction: A healthy marriage requires good communication and interaction, and a lack of effective communication between couples can lead to relationship estrangement and divorce.

6.Physical and mental health issues: If a person's physical and mental health issues have a long-term negative impact on the couple's relationship and are not properly supported and **, it can trigger the idea of divorce.

7.Domestic violence and abuse: Domestic violence and abuse in any form is not tolerated, and if you are in such an environment, it is necessary to protect your safety and divorce.

Divorce is a complex decision that involves many factors and personal circumstances. If you are considering a divorce, I recommend that you consult with a professional marriage counsellor or lawyer to get more specific and personalized advice. They can help you assess your marital status and provide relevant legal and emotional support.

The specific reason is only known to the person concerned, and it is difficult for outsiders to know the truth. It is generally because the relationship between the two parties is indeed broken, and there is no possibility of reconciliation; Otherwise, there will be no divorce. Other reasons include drug abuse, gambling, domestic violence, and repeated repudiation.

Article 31 of the Marriage Law Where a man and a woman divorce voluntarily, the divorce shall be granted. Both parties must apply for divorce at the marriage registration office. A divorce certificate is issued when the marriage registration authority ascertains that the parties are indeed willing and that the issues of children and property have been properly addressed.

Article 32: Where a man and a woman request a divorce, the relevant departments may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court.

People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce should be granted.

In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

1) bigamy or cohabitation of a person with a spouse;

2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

3) Those who have bad habits such as gambling and drug abuse that they do not change;

4) Separated for two years due to emotional discord;

5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

If one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.

Article 33 The spouse of a serviceman on active duty who requests a divorce must obtain the consent of the serviceman, except where one of the servicemen is seriously at fault.

1. Advanced education.

Modern women are more independent, and men and women enjoy the same education and job opportunities. However, in the previous era, most families had more children, and the family conditions were generally not very good, coupled with the idea of preference for sons, many families would leave the opportunity to study to the male child at home, and the female child would have fewer opportunities to study.

Now that people's living standards have improved, both male and female children have the conditions to enjoy the same educational opportunities. With the deepening of education, people's thinking will undergo many changes. Women's minds are no longer attached to men, they have their own independent ideas, and they have more opportunities at work.

So, financially, women are more independent. Unlike before, it was necessary to rely on men to live, men were the main labor force in the family, and women were only responsible for some affairs within the family. Comparatively speaking, the scope of knowledge is very limited.

2. The status of women has improved.

With the popularization of education, most women have received higher education and have independent thoughts.

In the previous era, women were closed and influenced by the idea of male superiority and inferiority, and in the family, women had no say and relied entirely on men to live. Without men, it is difficult for women to have suitable employment opportunities to support themselves.

However, in today's society, employment opportunities are fair, regardless of whether you are good enough, as long as you are good enough, you can have a very good salary, and you can live your own life well.

3. People's thinking has generally improved.

With the gradual deepening of reform and opening up, people's minds have become more and more open, and their understanding of themselves has also been improved, and they are no longer limited to their own thoughts. People are also more and more fond of learning, and through learning, they can change the status quo and improve themselves.

In any case, when people's minds improve, so does their cognition. Of course, these are not grounds for divorce. It can only be said that the level of cognition has improved, and the requirements for marriage will be higher.

In fact, in everyone's heart, they all yearn for marriage and hope to be able to run a happy family.

For example, in my mind, I never thought about getting a divorce. Sometimes, however, things don't go the way you want them to.

Because of the gap in the thinking of the two people, as well as the concept of family, it is too different, so they have to separate.

To put it simply, I like to have a little savings every month, so that I can live more steadily. In case there is an urgent matter at home, it can be dealt with, and there is no panic. And he is different, he likes to spend in advance and can live on a credit card.

Because of this, we almost always have to argue.

Because I don't want to go into debt, and I don't want to spend in advance, I can use as much money as I have, and then save some appropriately. In this way, a family can develop healthily.

Later, because of many things, the ideological gap was large, and the contradictions were deeper, and the only relationship before was separated in constant quarrels. In the end, it can only be separated.

Whether it is people's emotional needs or material needs, they have changed a lot, and the requirements are also higher!

1. Use divorce as a solution to your problem.

This kind of person is psychologically immature and lacks an attitude towards marriage. Hello, I'm good, everyone's good days can be lived, and stumbling days are not willing to live. Once there is a little problem between the two people in the marriage, they choose to avoid or blame each other, and once they can't escape, they will divorce and the problem will disappear.

To put it simply, there is not enough sense of responsibility.

2. There is a fundamental problem of its own.

Everyone generally thinks that divorce is the other half that they picked blindly, but after many divorces, they have to think about their own problems. This kind of multiple divorce is usually due to the same or similar reasons. Therefore, one's own lack of one aspect or deviation of values is likely to be the root cause.

It is precisely because of my own problems that I am not aware of it and cannot overcome it. will again and again make the wrong choice for Hu Tongsan. The most common is vanity, there are girls with strong vanity, they love those who like to brag, but this kind of person is not a man who lives a down-to-earth life, so he will appear, constantly jump out of the siege, and fall into the same siege dilemma.

After the Spring Festival, the peak period of divorce was ushered in in various places. I think the main reason is that civil affairs do not go to work during the Spring Festival, and people who want to divorce can only handle it when they go to work after the New Year, and it is not that many people want to divorce after the New Year.

When it comes to divorce, according to some traditional concepts, it is generally persuasion and non-persuasion, but I don't think so.

I don't think getting married is the same as being happy, and getting divorced doesn't mean you're unhappy.

If the marriage that is already broken and broken, has no feelings, only contradictions and quarrels, and only indifference and hatred are left, and the Shenfan is defeated and has to be forcibly maintained, it must be unhappy. It will only bring a lot of suffering, pain and harm to the parties (especially the weaker party) and the children, or it is better for both parties to be separated.

Therefore, young people must get married after careful consideration, and having children after marriage must be reborn after careful consideration.

Divorce after marriage also needs to be carefully considered (especially if you have children), otherwise it will bring a lot of troubles and injuries to each other and your children.

Although I have seen many unhappy marriages and relationships that have not ended happily, I have never despaired of love and marriage.

We must have longing and expectations for a happy love and marriage, and believe that a beautiful and happy love and marriage exists and can be found by ourselves.

If you want a beautiful thing, you must believe that it exists from the bottom of your heart, and then you can find, create, manage and maintain it, so that it can truly belong to you.

If you don't believe in its existence, and don't try to pursue, embrace and try, then you will never get it.

The same goes for happy love and marriage.

Love can bring people a variety of wonderful experiences, although there are good and bad, but it is precisely because of the existence of a variety of experiences that will make their lives more exciting, more flavorful, more meaningful, love will be a strong stroke in life, if you have not experienced it at all, then there will inevitably be a lot of regrets in this life.

Good love and good marriage have a positive impact on a person's character formation, the formation of three views, career development, talent improvement, etc., and will help them become a colorful, warm and soft, and better person in all aspects.