Are there more or fewer divorces now? Are there many divorced people now?

In the current situation, most of them are still divorced more than before, and the current divorce rate can be said to be high.

Compared to the 70s and 80s, it was an increase, and in those days, it was important to fix things that were broken. Now that the update is too fast, and the world's eyes are different, those who really can't make do with it will get divorced.

In recent years, the divorce rate in the country has been increasing, and the number of divorces is high.

The modern divorce rate is very high, after all, love is dating, and marriage is tea, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea. Why do you get divorced? There are many reasons for this. Let's introduce it to you.

Modern people are more open-minded, marriage is no longer the order of the parents of the previous matchmaker, and most young people can fall in love freely, which has also led to the emergence of flash marriage.

1. A filial piety party does not fulfill its family obligations, resulting in divorce.

Once a man and a woman have entered into a family, they have responsibilities and obligations towards the family. If one or both parties are unwilling to take on the responsibilities and obligations of housework, child support and education, etc., over time, some divorced parties will have irreconcilable conflicts and eventually break up.

2. Disharmony in sexual life has become one of the reasons for divorce.

There are many factors for divorce, and sexual disharmony is one of them. The issue of sex life has always been a topic that people are more sensitive to and more avoid.

Even in a modern society with an open mind, there are still few cautions and disadvantages of filing for divorce because of sexual disharmony, but the importance of sex as one of the foundations of love for marriage is self-evident. If there is no normal and harmonious sex life between the husband and wife, then such a marriage is more likely to be unstable.

3. The three views do not match.

Personality disparity refers to the fact that the husband and wife are very different in personality and dry up each other's hearts. One is very extroverted, the other is very introverted, or one is very dependent and the other is very independent, such a couple is prone to marital problems when they do not adapt to each other and are not tolerant. 4. Emotional instability.

A marriage without a love foundation is one in which the relationship is not held together by love, but by other factors, such as hasty marriages and practical marriages, in which the parties covet each other's social status, money, or against their will. Due to the focus on material and appearance before marriage, the lack of understanding between the two parties, the imprudent treatment of marriage, hasty union, and the development to a certain stage, it will generally end in divorce.

5. The word "divorce" is always on the lips.

Marriage is a sacred thing, not a child's play, not a simple piece of paper, is a responsibility, is an obligation, is understanding, is caring, is support, is a firm belief, is like-minded, after leaving, marriage must be taken seriously, can not encounter a little setback, a little grievance, just take divorce as a matter.

There has been an increase in the number of divorces now, but not much. According to the statistics released by the National Bureau of Statistics, the divorce rate in China in 2018 increased slightly compared with 2015. According to statistics from the Ministry of Justice, in 2018, a total of 10,000 divorce cases were concluded nationwide, an increase over 2017. Age source.

There are still a lot of divorced people now, and the marriage itself is a life of two people, and many times falling in love is an impulse to get married, but the land will be defeated by the trivialities in life, and it is found that it is not suitable, and the current divorce rate is still very high.

One of the personal reasons for Zhongliang is that there are people in the husband and wife who do not have independent personalities, such as Ma Bao Nan or Princess Chain Kuan.

Nowadays, with the development of social thought, more and more people are divorced. In some cities, the divorce rate in the past two years has even been higher than the marriage rate. Divorce is no longer such an unspeakable thing, and the phenomenon of divorce is becoming more and more common.

More and more people are also afraid of getting married because of the phenomenon of divorce, and even no longer believe in love.

This can't help but cause us to think, why are more and more people getting divorced in recent years, is it because of the passage of love or some other reason? Let's take a look at 4 reasons why marriage scientists have analyzed divorce data:

1. Affected by the cold period of marriage.

Many couples do not understand each other before marriage, and enter the marriage hall with a beautiful vision of love, followed by various family conflicts after marriage due to different ideological concepts.

Married life is a long process, and unlike when you are in love, in married life, both husband and wife will expose their true selves, and the real side is not acceptable to everyone, such as showing that they love cleanliness very much before marriage, but after marriage, they don't care about home hygiene, don't wash clothes, etc., which will be unacceptable.

Another example is when they are in love, two people are like glue all day long, but after marriage, they can't even eat together without their mobile phones.

Once there is no way to deal with such a situation, it will fall into marital anxiety, and when this conflict cannot be resolved, both husband and wife will face divorce.

It's like many people don't want to separate for a moment when they are in love, and rely on each other's careful care, but what they didn't expect is that such a person can be so good to themselves and as good to others.

How many people find that the other party's attitude towards them has become cold not long after they get married, and the communication between the two parties is becoming less and less, and finally they can only end the marriage hastily.

With the changes in modern society and people's lifestyles, the number of divorces is also increasing. Here are a few of the main reasons why divorce is common.

First, the increase in economic pressure is one of the main factors contributing to the increase in the divorce rate. The cost of modern society is increasing day by day, life is becoming more and more stressful, and many people are under increasing pressure in the family in order to cope with the problems of livelihood and consumption, and it is difficult to bear it independently. There are more and more quarrels and disharmony between husband and wife due to financial problems, which can also easily lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

Second, people's values and outlook on life have changed. With the improvement of people's own literacy and the progress of social concepts, many people's concepts of marriage have also changed. More and more people are emphasizing individual rights and freedoms and are unwilling to be bound by marriage.

Third, the development of social methods and technology has also caused a great gap in communication between husband and wife, and even broke down in a short period of time for various reasons. Especially now, with the rapid development of network communication and social applications, people are locked in their mobile phones because of the virtual world, ignoring the connection between family and marriage in real life, which makes it inevitable to regret it.

Finally, the conflict between work and family is becoming more and more obvious, and there are more and more people who repeatedly tear between contemporary work pressure and family pressure.

In summary, the increase in divorce is related to lifestyle, values, economic pressure and other factors. People's ideas and expectations about marriage deserve to be revisited. Whether we choose to get married or divorced, we need to look at it rationally, think calmly, spread the philosophy of life, and continue to grow in challenges and choices.

No matter what the situation in life is, the key is to be brave enough to take responsibility, plan our lives well, and let ourselves enjoy the beauty of life to the fullest.

Society is too realistic, people are more realistic.