Why do you want to divorce after being married for a long time?

The problem is simple, I originally wanted to find someone to rely on, or to be able to rely on each other, but in the end, I became the housekeeper who took care of everything, tired and tired, the family has nothing to do with me, and things can't go wrong, especially the woman, I feel like taking over a giant baby, and my role has become a mother.

When marital realities and expectations are not attached, there are ideas.

Maybe it's because your parents-in-law guessed that it wasn't good for you.

There is also the fact that the husband's banquet brother and you are drifting apart.

Or maybe it's that the novelty of your marriage is too much.

1. The relationship is too long, and the urge to get married is lacking.

It's like a novice cooking a meal, at the beginning, your interest is high, you have unlimited imagination about the finished product, you think it will be full of color, flavor, and taste, and you are eager to see the result.

But as each step is completed and you get closer to the finished product, your excitement will become lower and lower because you will find that the finished product is far from what you imagined it to be, or not at all what you wanted. You start to get bored, and the urge to taste is getting weaker.

The same goes for falling in love, the longer you talk, the weaker your urge to get married. Psychologists believe that the best time for a couple to get married is between one and three years of dating, if less than a year, lack of understanding, after three years, feel tired, tired, and do not want to get married.

And between one and three years, it is the best time to get married, which can ensure that you understand and have a yearning and impulse for marriage.

**。2. In the process of getting along, it has long been found that it is not suitable for marriage, and Duan Chen has opened his eyes but his habits are difficult to change.

Whether two people are suitable or not, it is already very obvious that they have been together for a period of time, but in the relationship, it is difficult for everyone to remain rational, especially if they like each other very much, they will comfort themselves for a long time together, and the other party will change, or they can change each other, and they have been investing time and experiencing consumption.

There is also a very passive personality of some people, knowing that the other party is not suitable and is not a person who can be married, but because they are used to the existence of the other party, they choose to make do, do not touch the topic of marriage, and take one step at a time.

**。3. I don't love it anymore and want to find a new partner.

After being together for a long time, some people have long stopped loving. Especially if one party has success in his career, he will feel that he deserves better, and he doesn't want to marry the other party at all, but just wants to find a better one.

When two people fall in love together, they must consider whether the other party is the right person while getting along, and they must also remain rational in the run-in process, otherwise it is easy to spend a lot of time and energy in the future, and the other party is really not suitable.

If you don't think it's right after you get married, what are you thinking before you get married? If you really decide to get a divorce, then what do you want to get through this divorce, if you just want to get a divorce, then this matter is easy to solve, but if you want to get some benefits from this divorce, or try to help yourself fight for the greatest benefits, then this matter is a little difficult to do, why do I say that, I think you yourself know.

What I don't understand is that if after a few years of marriage, the husband and wife don't get along well and there is a rift in the relationship, it is understandable to choose to divorce, but if you want to divorce after only a few months of marriage, or even less than a year, then don't you get along before you get married? If you don't get along, the two of you just know each other on a blind date, so can I understand that the husband and wife live in harmony, or do I get married for the bride price? If you don't ask for a bride price, then I didn't say it in the latter sentence.

Therefore, no matter what the reason for wanting a divorce, at least there must be a valid reason, a reason that can be accepted by the other party, and after filing for divorce, the price you pay must be satisfactory to the other party, so that it is possible to divorce and will not cause trouble.

Now that the Civil Code has been promulgated, if you divorce soon after marriage, then it will inevitably involve some property division issues, although divorce soon after marriage, which is a bit ugly to say, but if you have to leave, you can take the initiative to give up the right to divide property, I think this marriage may be able to divorce more smoothly, whether you are a man or a woman, since you advocate for divorce, either a lawsuit, or an agreement divorce. If the latter is chosen, it involves the issue of bride price and dowry, then the couple must also sit together and discuss.

But I give you a piece of advice, no one forced you when you got married, and now you want to divorce, no one will stop you, but I hope you choose to divorce because of disharmony in marital life, personality disharmony, or some irreconcilable reasons, if it is because of the bride price, dowry or the intervention of a third party and divorce, then you have to touch your conscience and leave, think about it yourself.

Finally, a piece of news was inserted, which happened in Qiaoji Township, Yucheng County, Shangqiu City, Henan Province, because the daughter-in-law had been married to her son for about a year, and the bride price was said to have given hundreds of thousands, but she was going to divorce soon after marriage, so her father-in-law killed her daughter-in-law's family in anger.

Marriage and love are like a siege for many people, especially for many middle-aged people, when they have experienced a period of baptism, especially after experiencing the test of the seven-year itch, some middle-aged people often feel that it is good when they are single, so that they will not let themselves get the bondage of marriage, in fact, I have not felt like this. Although it is said that in the days when two people are together, especially the love between two people has achieved positive results.

It is a very happy thing to finally get married, but when two people get married and form a family, they end their single life and face not only happiness and joy, but also the relatively boring life of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea every day.

At the same time, the longer two people get along, the weaker and weaker the relationship will be, and they will understand each other comprehensively, especially for each other's shortcomings, and they will be more in-depth.

Then in this process, the relationship between two people will naturally be affected to a certain extent, and they will often let themselves have a certain sense of loss and nostalgia for the days when they were once single. When the relationship between the husband and wife is not harmonious, there are a lot of estrangements and contradictions in the marriage, and there are often quarrels for this, I will feel more that it is good to be single, and I will be more nostalgic for my single days.

But no matter what, life still needs to go on, and you should still try your best to be a responsible man, so this kind of thinking is just staying in a certain moment in your heart, and more often you still have to find a way to eliminate conflicts and solve problems with your lover, after all, life still needs to go on.

How to get divorced just after getting married: the parties can divorce through agreement and litigation. If both parties want a divorce, they can choose to divorce by agreement. If one party wants to divorce, he or she can choose to file a divorce lawsuit with the court and the court will make a judgment.

Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1076.

If the husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration office.

Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1077.

Within 30 days from the date on which the marriage registration authority receives the application for divorce registration, if either party is unwilling to divorce, he or she may withdraw the application for divorce registration from the marriage registration authority.

Within 30 days after the expiration of the period provided for in the preceding paragraph, both parties shall apply in person to the marriage registration authority for the issuance of a divorce certificate;

If the application is not made, it shall be deemed that the application for divorce registration has been withdrawn.

Article 1079, paragraphs 1 and 2.

Where one of the spouses requests a divorce, the relevant organizations may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court.

People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation;

If Li Bei's relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.