Why are more and more people getting divorced? What exactly does marriage bring to young people?

Nowadays, more and more people choose to divorce, especially among young people, and the divorce rate is surging. More and more people treat marriage as a joke, and they don't understand the change and meaning of marriage for individuals, and these people are too hasty or too impulsive in their choice of marriage, and they will not manage their own marriage, so they will end up in such a failure.

First of all, young people nowadays do not understand the meaning of marriage。Parents are afraid that their children will be tired and miserable, and they want to provide them with the best material life, and they can't wait to do everything for them. Under the pampering of such parents, many young people think that the whole world must surround themselves, regard themselves as the center of the world, and think that everyone must obey themselves and satisfy themselves, but marriage is not the case, marriage requires two people to tolerate and support each other, which is a great test for young people who have not suffered hardship.

Secondly, there are many young people who do not have common sense of life and cannot get along in marriage。Marriage is no longer as simple as two people making an appointment to eat a meal or watch a movie, marriage is a real economic and life pressure. In life in firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, neither of them can do housework, neither of them can cook, so they can only eat takeout or eventually go to failure in life.

If both people are so stubborn, then no one wants to change for the sake of the family, and the marriage cannot last, which is one of the reasons why more and more people are divorced. They don't even have common sense in daily life, and they don't understand how their parents' generation picks vegetables, cooks, and handles marriage, so marriage can only bring failure to young people.

In addition, many young people are affected by the poisonous chicken soup on various online platforms。Nowadays, the Internet is becoming more and more developed, and many young people brush Douyin every day and watch various online comments, thinking that love should be the infinite tolerance of one party, and even how much the other party spends for themselves, how many things the other party buys for themselves, and how much the other party changes for themselves, that is, how much the other party loves themselves. Under the influence of this poisonous chicken soup, many girls think that boys should pamper themselves and meet all their requirements, so when there is a big gap between reality and dreams, they will think that they have chosen the wrong person, and finally go to a failed marriage.

In fact, it's not that they chose the wrong person to marry, but that they are still in the princess dream created by their parents, and they don't know how to be a wife or maintain their marriage. On the one hand, they think how difficult marriage is, and on the other hand, they think that they don't need to change anything, then this kind of person will only end up in divorce.

The main reason is that people are full of food and clothing, and the living conditions are constantly improving, and the factors that require improvement have increased, of course, marriage is also the main factor for improvement, women looking for a man to develop too soft, but they like hard, and of course the conditions must be improved, so there are more divorced people, and the living conditions were low before, and the upper side was not full, of course, they ignored the satisfaction of the lower body, and there were fewer divorced people.

It's really not good, because the kids have a lot of moms and a lot of dads.

It should be that there is not enough understanding of tolerance.

One side is not easy to get along with.

Nowadays people are becoming more and more selfish, and marriage is a shackle for them.

It's a burden for men, it's unearned for women, and a good marriage isn't

If you have a mother-in-law, you don't have a home of your own....If you don't get married, at least you have your own home.

Without the spirit of hardship and hard work, I just want to harvest, not pay.

Register for the state apparatus on the hee smack marriage**.

There is no sense of responsibility, lack of money, machismo, and lack of love between the two.

I think the main reason for divorce is that the incompatibility of the zodiac signs of the two people has the greatest impact

Men and women marry because they don't understand, and divorce because they know too well.

It is not what marriage brings to young people, but what young people want to gain through marriage. Recognizing one's own value and then pursuing what one wants is the foundation of marriage. Marriage can bring:

Happiness, money, status, career, love, and many other things. But don't be delusional about getting everything, when people make a choice, they should know that if you get something, you have to give up something, and this is an equivalent deal.

Of course, you can also choose something in a different proportion, and then sacrifice something else that you don't care about. There is nothing wrong with thinking about what you want before marriage, no matter how harsh the conditions, but don't regret making your choice. Someone will say:

The contrast between the other party before and after marriage is too great, and I was deceived! In fact, it is not that people have deceived you, but that your own heart has been deceived by your eyes. Things on the surface can be disguised, but after getting along for a long time, you can see the nature of a person from some small details of life and casual chats.

Blind love is not desirable, and profit is even more undesirable. Marriage is not child's play, and rational and prudent choices are good for both parties!!

Personally, I think that there are some young people who do not know how to cherish marriage and family, and the most important thing is that when young couples have conflicts. Parents on both sides came forward, resulting in.

People are too stressed these days.

Influenced more and more by the Western concept of social marriage, instead of learning the essence, I learned a lot of dross, the social atmosphere was chaotic, and the traditional virtues were missing.

In the past, the low divorce rate was due to women's tolerance. Not necessarily happy. The divorce rate is high now, but it is not necessarily unhappy.

Marriage is a stumbling block that prevents a woman from being happy.

There are many divorced people because now we have more opportunities to contact and know people, everyone chooses more freely, and there are many flash marriages, and they get married hastily without considering the meaning of marriage.

Now the divorce rate is so much because young people have sloppy flash marriages, and as a result, marriage will only bring pressure to young people in life, and they do not have the same feeling as when they are in love.

Many people don't know that marriage is actually about marrying habits and character