How can I make myself more affordable and able to put down?

Learn to give up. Some people or some things, inadvertently missed or lost in the years of time, occasionally pick up the memories, will spontaneously give birth to a wisp of romantic feelings recalling the past, it contains a sense of seeing things and thinking about people, the sigh of the past. Love hurts, it hurts so much that I cry, so I choose to let go, letting go is a helpless despair, and it hurts my heart.

When the people who once really loved the release of life were about to meet strangers, they suddenly realized that what they thought was eternally long, in fact, it was just a meeting in Pingshui. I once thought that I could hold hands all the way down like this, but let go to understand that everything is just the accidental intersection of two parallel lines, when everything disappears, the parallel lines are still parallel, even if they are not far apart, it is also the end of the world, the price of bravery is to let go of themselves first, admit failure, accept helplessness, sigh softly, helplessly wish them happiness, from then on, if the heart stops, it is difficult to make waves. In fact, it is impossible to completely forget a person quickly, and it is also deceiving yourself, just keeping the deep affection in the memory and forgetting the pain of the past, because the most beautiful blessing is to remember a person, the best hard work is to think of a person will cry, the greatest satisfaction is what you give, and love will become unforgettable after suffering something.

Find someone to talk to. Anyway, if I can't afford to put it down, I talk to a friend and tell a few different people, basically after three times, I don't want to talk about it again, I don't want to think about it, because I am disgusted when I say it, and then I put it down.

Relax your mindset and don't worry too much about gains and losses. Make yourself as happy as you can and make everyone as happy as possible.

1. Devote yourself to a new relationship, instead of seeing the current as an afterimage of the ex. Only when you can let go of the past and make a man die for himself can you really know what it means to "face the sea, spring blossoms".

You will find the beauty that you have not been able to see in your life because of pain and sadness. Those who devote themselves to a new relationship, rather than seeing the current as an afterimage of their ex, are free and easy enough to really let go of the past.

If the purpose of starting a new relationship is to find the shadow of your ex in the current body, it means that you are just deceiving yourself and you have not yet gone out.

2. If when your ex calls, no matter what he says, you will be like a customer service without a little emotion, gentle like a stranger, then it means that you have achieved a light wind.

4. Some women who have let go can not only meet calmly when men come to find them, but also easily disagree with the reunion.

They are very open-minded, because she has already thought about it, it is impossible to reunite with a broken mirror, and there must always be cracks in repair, and such feelings will eventually turn into tragedy.

In fact, there are many excellent people in this world, but in your heart, only the person you like is the most special, there is a saying that when you like someone, in fact, because of the light in your eyes at that time, the other party is gilded.

When you don't have that kind of light in your eyes, he loses that layer of gold plating, and he is just like an ordinary person at that time. When you hear his name again, there will be no more fluctuations in your heart, and you can truly let go.

To let go is to think about the world outside the body, to think about the self, not to do any wrong obsession and greed, that is, not to be attached, or specifically not to be delusional. To do this, one must first have the right understanding and give up greed for all self-desires. People's hearts are originally as calm as water, because of the external realm and their own ignorance such as greed, hatred, and ignorance, feelings arise in the heart, and then all kinds of desires and attachments arise.

Remember, all the sights, sounds, smells, tastes, touches, and feelings ......As long as we see just see, listen just hear, smell just smell, taste just taste, touch just touch, and think just awareness, this means not creating a "self". The Buddha taught us that if we practice in this way, the "self" will not exist, and when the "self" does not exist, the suffering will cease.

No matter what time or state, the mind is only limited to when it is needed, and it needs to remind itself to stop when it is time to stop, and it needs to remind itself to act when it is time to act. That is, it is not as still as water, nor as moving as waves, just like the flow of water, natural and smooth, not deliberately controlled, not attached to any idea, coming and leaving, so that he is his own master. Buddhism talks about not attaching, not separating, and letting go, not about not doing it, but about not thinking about it.

Only by letting go of the constraints of desire, doing things is just doing things, and doing things is not to achieve what to achieve, to know what is right and what is wrong, and to only do what should be done, this is the simple and practical life of an enlightened person.

Really let go.

Then you have to see through the essence of things.

Only by seeing through the essence of things.

can really let go.

As long as you have attachment, you can discriminate.

Then it is impossible to put it down.

The so-called true letting go is a kind of realm. To really let go is to say goodbye to the past completely, not to be burdened by the past, not to let the past be fettered, to start everything from scratch, to get out of the psychological shadow, and to create a new life!

Time will make you let go of everything, this sentence is very cheesy, very **!

But it is, because the wheels of history will only move forward.

It depends on whether you want to let go of a relationship or a friendship. If you are a woman who wants to let go of a relationship and forget about a person. Then you spend more time shopping, shopping for clothes, and cosmetics.

Dress yourself up beautifully. Go out and make some new friends. Attract the attention of the opposite sex.

That is to say, not to do any wrong attachment and greed to the mind of the world outside the body, that is, not to be attached or, specifically, not to be delusional. To do this, one must first have the right understanding of the desire and greed for all self that liberates the inter-ego.

Time can dilute everything, do something you like to do, go out to travel and relax, and after a long time, you will naturally let go.

What do you mean, do you mean feelings? If you want to really let go, you can only rely on time, time is the best medicine for pain, and after a long time, it will slowly fade away.

Some losses are more solid than possession, some are better than nostalgia when they see each other, and it is better not to see each other for a long time.

A word to you, I hope it inspires:

1. Even if you can't forget some memories, you have to pretend that you can't remember them.

At the end of life, I keep letting go, but the most sad thing is not being able to say goodbye properly. I've had your experience too, and I've been just as hard as you are.

2 We are in a long-distance relationship, she went to work after finishing junior high school, and I am still in college. We first chatted online, because the distance is very different, so there is a big difference between the two places, and there are many topics to talk about. At first, she wanted to confide in me about her troubles, that she liked a guy from the same town, and that man didn't pay much attention to her.

3 I chatted with her and encouraged her to chase after her, saying that it was generally okay for girls to chase boys, but at that time I only knew that she was a girl with a fragile heart, and I only encouraged and helped her out of friends, and she later told me that she was very hurt.

It's not awkward to meet, and I don't want to miss being separated. If you don't like it, you don't get angry, you don't complain, you really let it go.

Hello friend. The nature of feelings is just the product of time reversed, but despite all the uncertainties, I want to wait and see. Just take a gamble with yourself, lose the romance of one person, and win the romance of two people. Let's wait slowly, maybe later, but better.

There is a person in everyone's heart who can't let go of and can't forget, who has brought you beauty and pain, and has always made you unable to let go. In fact, you also understand a lot of truths, impossible people are impossible, no matter how much you do, there is no skin and fruit, but you can't pull away, completely forget the person you often think of in your mind. I understand the truth, but it's another thing to put it on myself.

If you can't pull away from your last relationship, you can't start over, and it's better not to start at all, at least without hurting others.

There are always girls around me who are arguing all day long about when it will be my turn to fall in love, so everyone knows that she wants to fall in love, and everyone has introduced the object, but she was cowardly at a critical moment"I'm just saying, it's too much trouble to fall in love"

It is true that a person sometimes feels lonely, but there is no suitable choice, no channel to reach new people. In addition to classmates, colleagues and girlfriends, there is no suitable single candidate to tease. Life is so long, I have experienced so many people, the people around you have gone and gone, changed and changed, and only you have been with yourself.

Men are not important, men's love is not so precious, and no one's love can compare to your own love for yourself. There is no need to make anyone's love the focus of your life, especially between friends, and especially between men and women. You don't have to work hard to get these meaningless things, but for ourselves.

1. Try not to pay attention to each other's lives Feelings are not a person's business, and blindly giving will only make the other party look down. So, stop wasting your life for someone who doesn't deserve it, and stop paying attention to each other's life. 2 Strive to keep yourself busy People don't have time to think cranky only when they're busy.

Only when you are busy will you make your life full. Brother 3 Try to start a new life If a person who has not been silent for a long time in a relationship will only make himself depressed and unhappy, and he can't get out if he wants to.