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First of all, I think the landlord's idea is wrong, because, it's not necessarily strange that girls don't huddle, there are a lot of girls who don't huddle are very good, and it's not surprising. However, the landlord must not think that the girls who are holding together are not good.
Actually,Huddles and non-huddles are just a way of life. There is no distinction between the two. And, as we get older, our daily lives are no longer the same as when we were in school, and there are a lot of group activities.
On the contrary, after we enter the work, our colleagues have their own lives, and this phenomenon of not being together will be more obvious.
In my opinion, the building will set up oneCorrect ideology
Realize that it's up to you whether or not to huddle or to huddle is up to you. Whoever you are, you do. You don't have to envy the people who are huddled, and you don't have to huddle for the sake of huddles, but you don't have to worry about whether you are in a huddle.
Life is a long life, and the most important thing is awakening, that is, understanding.
As long as you genuinely enjoy your current state, that's fine. At the same time, you also need to realize that you have to have your own goals and schedules, and you don't have to be in the same rhythm as others, which is not necessary.
Of course, after allHumans are social creatures, craving communication and caring, especially when you encounter something that needs to be cared for, such as illness, frustration, and low mood.
If you occasionally feel unsociable, then as long as you have a good relationship with the classmates around you, really care about them, and are not selfish, you can go to dinner together after class, eat, bathe, and shop with other girls, and you can also go to the supermarket together when you meet classmates. You don't need to worry too much about anything else.
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I have always been a loner, I don't like to report to the group, this kind of character is unsociable, sometimes people who don't fit in are excellent people, have their own unique opinions, don't follow the crowd, don't follow the trend.
But we still need to learn from each other, after all, people have their own strengths, each has their own shortcomings, and team spirit has the role of learning from each other's strengths.
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It varies from person to person, and I'm a loner, but I communicate with someone when asked. You just need to find a learning style that suits you according to your own situation, and there are advantages and disadvantages of studying alone or in a group.
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Being alone is more conducive to deep thinking, and it is also a good thing to have a partner to promote each other.
But if you feel that the group is chaotic and resists the group, don't force it. This situation is definitely highly effective for you to learn on your own.
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Everyone is an individual. Shine because of your personality. If you like it, stick to yourself and don't have to change it. If you feel like it's easier to grow with the group, join them. Efficiency is important and varies from person to person, depending on what you think. Thank you.
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You can learn by yourself first, and if you don't understand, you have to communicate in a group.
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Being alone is a person's personality, so it's not good, you have to have a collective spirit.
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In life, you must communicate with others, if you learn, you don't have to be in a group, ask others when you don't understand, and absorb the learning content or rely on yourself.
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I think it's up to you to think of it, just do whatever you want.
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This is a good woman, you have to love her well. You are going to marry her, which is a blessing that you have cultivated in your last life. If a man is too stingy and stingy, and the woman doesn't like it, or even hates it in the woman's heart, such a man is a woman who doesn't know how to love herself.
If she is willing to spend money for a woman, a woman will see the man's sincerity and will feel that the man cares about her.
Most of the time, women will feel sorry for men, and even if they buy things, they will be restrained, and they will not really see what to buy. When a man says to a woman, buy it as long as you like it, the woman will be happy to know that the man is willing to do it for himself. I will also feel that men are particularly attractive, as long as there is moderation and planned spending, the relationship between such lovers will be stable.
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Such a girl is the one who really loves you, thinks about you everywhere, and thinks about you everywhere. In fact, what girl doesn't love beauty? But he would rather spend his own money than spend boys' money, which shows that a girl who is self-reliant, self-reliant, self-respecting and self-respecting is very admirable and respectable.
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Isn't it strange that you say this, because after all, he Merrill can go shopping as soon as he goes shopping, half a day and a half, and he can always let you take things there, so it feels very strange, and I agree with you.
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Specifically, are girls all curious? It's okay, most girls have a curious psychology. It's because she's a girl who hasn't seen much of the world. That's why I'm curious.
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Girls feel that they haven't really worked yet, so they don't spend a penny on others, it's their own cultivation, and they don't think there's anything strange.
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I think the boys must be very strange, why do girls go to the toilet or go to the commissary, they all have to go together with two people, what are the reasons behind their group behavior? Actually, I'm a girl myself, and I can't say it clearly, so I feel that it's better to go with multiple people, and it seems that there will be a sense of security.
It's the same, anyway, I just don't want to go to the toilet alone, go to the commissary alone, and it's good to have someone with you. As someone who has studied psychology. I will learn more about some funny behaviors, so I will briefly explain this kind of group behavior for you.
Explanation 1: Huddle behavior belongsSocial Psychologyin herd behavior
Generally speaking, herd behavior is the behavior of a group of two or more individuals. Huddles mean that someone is doing the same thing as you. You will think that even if you do something wrong, there will be people who will be punished with you, and you will not be an exception. The law does not hold the public accountable.
This idiom best illustrates the motivation of this kind of huddle, so it can be best reflected in some phenomena of robbery.
Girls will have a feeling of a small group, they will feel that no matter what happens, there is a group to bear, their psychological pressure will be relatively low, it can also be said that the group will bring a sense of security to girls, their behavior in this small group can be accepted, and there are many people, and they are not afraid of being bullied by others.
Explanation 2: The behavior of huddles is in line with human social habits
Our ancestors learned to live in groups a long time ago and knew to rely on the strength of the collective to survive, so the group behavior of girls is closely related to the characteristics of this ancestor, and it can even be said that this is a kind of nature, because of primitive society.
All are matrilineal societies.
The first to develop, the girls are too weak among themselves, and only when they are gathered together can they show great strength. If it is to be explained in terms of psychology, then it and Jungian psychology.
The archetypes mentioned in the theory are similar, and this is an experience that has remained in people's minds for many ages.
The above gives two simple explanations, I don't know, the majority of male compatriots can understand this kind of group behavior of girls after reading it? In fact, it is not incomprehensible, the main thing for them is to get a certain sense of security, boys' sense of security can rely on themselves, and girls' sense of security is mostly better than others.
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No, there are fewer such girls than pandas now.
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It's not strange in itself, but it's strange that you're asking this question!
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It's weird! Is it uglier than a sow?
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It's safer for girls to travel with a group, and it's not safe for two girls to travel, so you have to go with a few friends to travel somewhere.
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It's also safe, don't go to unsafe places, now that information is so developed, it's still safe to hit ** if you have something.
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The two girls are going to travel to Inner Mongolia alone without joining the tour group, which is too bold. Thousands of miles away, unfamiliar with the place, plateau climate, what if you can't adapt to it? Endless desert, what if you get lost?
The two girls are going to go to Inner Mongolia alone without joining the tour group, which is too bold. Thousands of miles away, unfamiliar with the place, plateau climate, what if you can't adapt to it? The endless grassland, what if you get lost?
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Yuan Yuan's eyes electrocuted people.
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It is true that women's behavior habits are different from men's, preferring to hold groups. This is related to the psychological and physical characteristics of women, such as being timid, liking the spine to be companions, being physically weaker than men, and willing to accompany each other, which will increase their sense of security.
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Personal habits. I like to sleep on my side with my arms pressed together.
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Why do girls always like to huddle?
Since elementary school, I have noticed that many girls like to huddle and there are many small groups, like a dormitory with eight group chats for four people.
I always like to huddle behind Zhao Jingzai and gossip about others, is this the correct usage of friends in the clan?
3 pcs. Dundun.
It's not correct, you don't have to worry about it, it's not a good person to say bad things about others behind your back, I also have it in my dormitory, and it's spread everywhere. Whether I am talking about others or myself, I feel uncomfortable, not that I have made a big mistake, but some people like to speak ill of others.
Just don't speak ill of others yourself, protect yourself, surface brother.
In a small town, two barbers, one with messy hair and the other with neat hair, everyone loves to mess up haircuts.
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In today's society, it is simply stupid, and women will learn to become smart in the process of growing up! And in this process, people will have a simple and masked life! Society, forced by life!
It's hard to get a foothold in this society today! If it's a very simple girl, unless the family is very rich and has little contact with the outside world, or the countryside in the mountains, there is generally no scheming!
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My dear, there are too few simple girls now, basically they are old drivers, so don't test it, if it's not a test, tell him a dirty joke to see how he reacts.
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Contacts and exchanges in all aspects of life.
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I can't see it, the routine is very deep.
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You need to be confident and humble, you can be self-conscious at first, what if you don't have friends? Do what you have to do, just be neither humble nor arrogant. Then gradually get acquainted with them, do your best to help, don't help if you can't, be cheerful, be sincere, smile more, and you will naturally have friends after a while.
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After class, you can chat, play and have a good relationship with them.
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You should first take the initiative.
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