What should I do if my daughter goes from being very honest and obedient to having a bad moral chara

Seeing this question, I believe that the person who asked the question must be a father or a mother to ask, I believe that since the landlord can ask this question, then at least it shows that the landlord still cares about and cares about his daughter, then I think that the first thing the landlord should do is to control his emotions, correct his mentality, I don't know why the landlord feels that his daughter has become a bad character.

But, no matter what, the landlord at this critical, important time node, can not be loudly debated and reasoned with his daughter, now what I really have to do, I think the first thing is to sit down with his daughter calmly and have a good talk, and slowly enlighten his daughter.

Because as a girl who is constantly experiencing growth and constantly contacting society, their own psychology will also undergo certain changes, and no matter what age the girl is, they will have some changes, especially those girls who have reached puberty, they must have changed, not to mention, the landlord himself said that his daughter was very honest and obedient before.

So, I think this at least shows that your daughter is kind-hearted and not bad in nature, so what we have to do is to seriously recall, to seriously reflect, what are the reasons for these changes in your daughter?

Is it the influence of the surrounding environment, or the influence of the people around you, or is it the negligence of communicating with your children as a parent, or sometimes it is difficult to communicate, sometimes parents are very busy at work and ignore their concern for their children, which also leads to many children not liking to communicate with their parents. So take care of your children.

The psychology of girls also changes, and no matter what age girls are, there will be more or less changes, and especially girls who have reached puberty, there must be changes, it may be said that the environment around them will affect her, or the people around her will also affect her! No matter what time you have to care more about your children, you can't always be busy with work, and ignore the care of your children, children often have more frequent mental activities!

Suddenly became very bad, in fact, it was slowly accumulated bit by bit, and suddenly found that his child's moral character was not good, I can only say that this parent is not optimistic about his children, and communicate with his children more, especially children in adolescence, have their own circle of friends, what kind of people they come into contact with, what will become like!

Although parents and children sometimes communicate, sometimes it is more difficult, because many children do not like to communicate with their parents, parents at work is very busy, will ignore the care of children, always feel that their children grow up, do not have to worry so much, but this will let themselves relax the discipline of children, so that children feel that there is nothing to rely on, but to seek a sense of security outside!

In fact, the essence of children is not bad, when we find that the quality of children is distorted, we can teach children, and should say that children go to the right place, so that children can get more care from their parents, so as to get back on track, you can take your children out for a walk, travel, to relax, go to a strange city, let children get more happiness, guide children is the most correct choice to be parents!

It's not just you who think your child doesn't listen to you, your child thinks you don't listen to him!

Think more from the child's point of view: why doesn't my mother help me and let me share? Why doesn't my mother listen to me? Why doesn't my mom always understand me?

Many times it is not a good thing for children to be disobedient, but some children are "disobedient", they are expressing their thoughts, and parents must know how to distinguish the differences. In addition, every child is different, and cultivating obedient and sensible children is not about producing exactly the same goods, and all kinds of differences must be taken into account. Don't see other people's children as good and ask them to do the same.

Some parents belong to the "Yiyantang" at home, and seem to plan for their children in every detail, but they never go into the depths of their children's hearts, resulting in a sense of estrangement in the communication between the two parties, and it is impossible to achieve true equality.

Forcibly disciplining children when they don't know them is likely to cause children to rebel and want to correct wrong thoughts or behaviors, which will be very hindered. Therefore, parents should try to be friends with their children, so that the education will be convincing.

Envy other people's children? Have you ever thought that others also envy your children, parents will only see the excellent side of other people's children, but they can't see the shortcomings of other people's children, how can you ever think that the shortcomings of other people's children are precisely the advantages of your children? Your child may be lively and cheerful, but in your eyes, he is not doing his job, he is not in a proper shape, and he only giggles every day?

But she may be a very cute, optimistic and kind child in the eyes of other parents, and he may also envy your child, have you ever thought about such a cheerful this? So while you envy other people's children, others are also envying your children, instead of comparing, it is better to communicate well with your children! You say in front of your children every day, "Who's child, so good, look at it again?"

How much damage will you do to his pride? Have you ever thought about this again? If you want to motivate your child, don't use this kind of language, it's better to sit down and communicate well, so don't envy other people's children.

If you don't believe me, you can ask your neighbors, relatives and friends if they have any envy for your children. Even if it's just a loss, comparing will not motivate children, but will only hurt children's self-esteem, please remember that.

I have a child downstairs who is very sensible, he is only a little more than five years old, not only knows how to be polite, can speak, and even looks at your face to speak, every time I talk to him, tease him, he can respond like an adult, that IQ is definitely beyond the same age of children.

Once I saw him playing in the community, I walked up to him and deliberately ignored him, pretending to be angry. This kid is very smart, he knows how to read the faces of the people in the mainland, and he also knows how to analyze the emotional changes of adults. Know how to observe words and colors, and also know how to behave in the face of different emotions of adults.

He took the initiative to stand up and said to me: Grandpa, are you going to go out to play? You take me out to play, there are a lot of people dancing and singing in the park opposite, everyone is very happy, and it's not good for the health if it's not happy.

I laughed, hugged him and kissed him on the forehead.

In the world of children, they should be innocent, their world should not have so many rules and constraints, let alone so many rules and regulations, live a relaxed and happy life. And this child will not only wipe his eyes, but also know how to please adults, and talk to adults after some thought before saying it, for fear of making adults unhappy. He knows how to express himself in front of adults and what to do in order to make adults happier, and he is really a sensible and good child.

Parents all hope that their sons will become dragons and their daughters will become phoenixes. Everyone wants their children to be sensible and obedient, and to become productive and accomplished people. Parents also have high expectations for their children and a lot of love.

However, excessive intervention in children's development often leads to children's inability to be independent and unable to learn to take responsibility for themselves. When they go out of society and face greater challenges in life in the future, parents are shocked to realize that their children's abilities have not been cultivated.

Teach and help children set their own short-term and long-term goals, so that children can enjoy the sense of accomplishment and joy of achieving their goals. In this way, the child will be more motivated and work harder.

It is necessary to pay attention to the child's emotional changes, after all, in addition to his family, but also with the school, and classmates may have emotional problems, and the child's emotions or pressure caused by things during school or before classmates, parents should understand in time, and can ask the child how to deal with it first, so that the child can learn to control his emotions.

It is necessary to let children develop good habits of loving and tidy, and let children actively participate in housework at home. Improve your child's self-care skills. Children learn to do some housework and will be better able to adapt to boarding school in the future.

It is necessary to cultivate children's sense of responsibility. Learn to bear the consequences, for example, if two children are playing together, and the child accidentally hurts someone, you don't think it's okay because it's troublesome or the other person doesn't care. You have to take your children to apologize to others, and you can also take your pants children to buy some fruit to apologize to others.

Let your child know what the consequences of what he has done wrong and what responsibility he needs to bear. In this way, children are trained to control their emotions and what can and cannot be done.

Yes, it may be that the child has a very serious psychological defect, or it may be that the parents are particularly trustworthy in life, so that the child will develop such a character. Hood Tan Calendar.

Yes, this is a psychological defect, such a child does not have a good character, does not have a good opinion, and in fact is not good for the child's growth.

Yes, this is a psychological defect, because such children do not have a good sense of opinion, do not have a good sense of decisiveness.