Are you willing to chat with the opposite sex outside of couples, and what do you think about that?

Absolutely. I am willing to talk to them, not because I have any bad thoughts in my heart, but because I want to know more about the world of the opposite sex, so that I can have a new understanding of them and understand the world from their eyes. There are only two people in this world, one is a man and the other is a woman.

Men conquer women by conquering the world, and women conquer the world by conquering men. Therefore, if a woman wants to understand the world of men, she must broaden her horizons and understand the different sky between the opposite sex through more chatting. In the same way, if a man wants to understand a woman's world, he can only know a woman's mind through more communication.

Because of gender, men's hearts are born wider than women's, men's world has a broad and profound connotation, women are gentle as water, and women's world is subtle and colorful. But because it is a husband and wife relationship, there are very few times to talk about topics other than vegetables, rice, oil and salt, especially sometimes there are some small contradictions between husband and wife, if you want to better maintain the relationship between husband and wife, you must first understand the spiritual world of men, at this time, if you have a friend of the opposite sex to chat, you can consider the problem from their point of view, and some problems can also find better solutions.

In the past, there was no smartphone and there may be no heterosexual chat, but now in the era of developed networks, I believe everyone will have more or less heterosexual chats! Colleagues talk about work, classmates catch up, netizens have a good impression of each other because of the same interests and hobbies and develop into WeChat friends, this is normal, as long as you have the right mentality, there is nothing wrong! Some people say that heterosexual chatting should be hidden from their husbands or wives, I don't think it's necessary, as long as my heart is bright, it's not a secret, my husband knows all my WeChat friends of the opposite sex, I have a friend of the opposite sex in Qinhuangdao, Hebei Province, at that time, just played WeChat because of curiosity to add each other, now it's been many years, because he likes to chat with voice, and I don't like it, my husband heard it, and encouraged me to use voice to communicate with people, people's voice, and said that I was not sincere.

Because we are always above board, we only talk about local habits, weather and other topics, and the rest is to say hello to each other.

I remember when I used to go to school, my face would be red as long as I talked to the opposite sex, I didn't know what to say, and I couldn't find a topic, and sometimes the atmosphere would be very embarrassing. Later, when I graduated and entered society, I slowly overcame this shyness, but my unverbal personality still didn't improve much, so many people thought I was a boring person, and later I thought I was such a person. But my same-sex friends told me that in fact, I am also a very interesting person, but I don't take the initiative to make friends of the opposite sex, but later, I also slowly found out that I am really not a boring person, I just don't talk to people I don't know well, and for people who are familiar and know me, I am just a chatterbox!

I have no objection to chatting with the opposite sex outside of husband and wife, as long as it is a normal communication, but you can't snub the people around you in order to chat with other people of the opposite sex, it is best to mobilize everyone to chat together! Avoided the awkwardness of the atmosphere!

It is said that the same sex repels each other, the opposite sex attracts, and can keep friends for so many years, chatting is naturally quite skillful, and if the opposite sex wants to maintain a long-term relationship when chatting together, you must not talk about your marriage and family, otherwise it is easy to compare, and then the problem may appear. Even if you want to talk about your other half, it's very good, thank you for the beautiful marriage in this life, the other half of the truth is really good, he interferes with the chat between me and the opposite sex, even if the chat record is sent to him, he won't look at it, he will always believe in his other half, there is no need to be suspicious. Now chatting is just an exchange between a few writer friends, even if they have a good impression of each other in their hearts, but, across the screen, reality is gone, what can happen.

This is the so-called confidant, like because of talent, chase because of appreciation. In the vast net sea, meeting is fate, and a tacit understanding does not need to be said.

Maybe it's because I'm very bored with my other half, and I don't have a common language for a long time, so I like to chat with his stupid and bright other people of the opposite sex to relieve my loneliness.

These people like the feeling of others chasing them, so they will chat with other people of the opposite sex.