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Give you two countermeasures: 1. Be considerate of your mother-in-law, she has no income and no economy.

It's difficult. Second, all mothers-in-law hope that their daughter-in-law will be good to their son and be good to your husband. 3. Everyone wants to hear nice words, and my mother-in-law is no exception, maybe I will give you something when I am happy, I went to my mother-in-law's house for the first time to wish my mother-in-law happiness and health in her old age, and my mother-in-law gave me a necklace as soon as she was happy.

Don't, sometimes things have to be done on the surface, otherwise how can they know how good you are, even if they know, they will only pretend to be stupid, so some things must be handled properly and put on the surface is the best.

I think it's enough to give her 500 yuan, but since you haven't given you money since you got married, you should give less, besides, your grandchildren don't want to bring it, it doesn't make sense. Just give 500, just a meaning!

Fortunately, you don't live together, it's better to give 1000, it's her duty to help you take care of the children.

I also have a mother-in-law like you, exactly the same, maybe they are twins. We were sick together, and once, my husband borrowed money from his father, and he said that he wanted interest. Meaning, it's okay, 500 yuan is too much, not to mention that you work part-time, it's not easy to make money.

I'm wondering if your husband was born to your mother-in-law

How can there be such a mother-in-law dizzy

Just bear with it during this time, and her financial ability is limited, and you don't live together anyway, right?

Who am I, "Dongfeng Po" is simply rubbish!!

How can there be such a mother-in-law

I think your husband doesn't earn a penny, you shouldn't ask your mother-in-law for money to spend, but you should divorce him directly, right, because your mother-in-law doesn't owe you money, so why do you ask her for money to spend, what kind of rules do you take up You ask your mother-in-law for money, you and your husband and your children are a small family, the person in your small family who should make money to support the family doesn't make money, and he is idle every day, you should find him, not his mother, then if he doesn't go to work for the rest of his life, You'll have to ask your mother-in-law for living expenses for the rest of your life.

Your mother-in-law has the responsibility of raising her own son, and after her son gets married, she will no longer need to raise her son and her son's family, that is, you and your child.

If you are pregnant, or after giving birth to a child, there is no way to go to work, then I may accept that you have no money and you are very miserable, because you can't go to work to make money with a child, but if you are not pregnant, and the child does not need you to take care of it, then you still ask your mother-in-law for living expenses, then it is really a little too much, why do you have no hands and feet, you can't work to make money, do you have to let others make money for you to support you, do you can't go out to work to earn money to support your family.

But no matter what, I will discuss with my husband first, if he insists on not going out to work, not making money to support the family, whether I go to work or not, I will divorce him, because I don't need a husband who doesn't make money to support the family, I don't need a man like this, I'm not as good as being divorced and single, why should I be with a man who doesn't earn a penny, I may have to make money to support him and support my family, how ugly am I, is it that I can't get married.

Such a man, with him can only be said to be bitter for a lifetime without escape, and if I don't want to live this kind of life, I can only choose to divorce, for a man who has no sense of responsibility, a man who is idle, and doesn't earn a penny, I will return it to his mother, let his mother support him.

I think you can let your in-laws help in the short term, but this is not a long-term solution, if you can also work, you still have to support yourself, others give you not permanent dependence, in addition, you have to analyze the reason why your husband does not go to work, men must be responsible, can not start a family without making family contributions, really no, consider whether this marriage still exists.

Of course, it is very excessive to ask your mother-in-law for living expenses, because the two of you are already married, you are adults, and it makes no sense to ask your mother-in-law for money, so you can only let your husband work.

This problem is not too much to ask for money from my mother-in-law, but why my husband doesn't earn a penny. First, if you are lazy to work, then you should get divorced, right? Second, if he is temporarily unemployed, then he should be considerate of his husband to help him find a new job; Third, if the husband is in a difficult stage, such as getting sick, shouldn't he get through it together?

Of course, it's too much, a man should be the pillar of a family and the main one of the economy.

Shouldn't I ask my husband to go to work to support the family? If you don't go to work and don't support your family, then this man can either die or divorce, and the mother-in-law has no affection or obligation at this time, and she is not a child.

It's too much, after all, they are all people with families, and they don't know how to carry the burden of the family, so they want to gnaw at the old, and this kind of person should be scolded.

Whether men or women choose the right person to live with their own life, this is really the biggest thing in life, once you choose the wrong person, you may be physically and mentally exhausted for a lifetime!

Excesses, five years after I got married, my husband's unit was transferred, if I didn't go to work in the field for a month, there was basically nothing left after deducting the pension insurance, my husband decided to go to work in the field, his parents disagreed, saying that he wanted to go and wait for them to die, lack of money to spend on them, but he didn't, his monthly salary was not enough to pay the child's childcare fee. His parents didn't take a penny, and all the things they said before were farts, and in turn scolded him for being incapable and waste. As soon as he wanted to find a suitable job outside, his parents made trouble and tied their son to his side in the name of filial piety.

It took three years to survive, and then life got better after changing jobs. As a result, he didn't want to go to his parents' house, and he had to go half an hour before the meal during the New Year's holidays, and leave after eating. (I used to buy things for them, but I didn't buy anything, but then I stopped directly giving money, and the old couple's salary was more than twice that of our two, and they still had this one son, why couldn't they get out of their eyes?) ）

You should divorce directly, even if your mother-in-law did not educate her son well, it is your own choice. What does it have to do with your mother-in-law?

Let your husband earn it, your mother-in-law can't support you for a lifetime.

From the daughter-in-law's point of view.

Most daughters-in-law think that their mother-in-law should still give money, because she gave birth to her mother-in-law's grandson, and her mother-in-law is looking forward to holding her grandson. Moreover, there is the most important point, the daughter-in-law of many families around her is pregnant and gives birth, and the mother-in-law gives money, and the mother-in-law gives money, the daughter-in-law is happy, and the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will get along more harmoniously.

From the position of the mother-in-law and the reputation of the year, in fact, whether to give money or not depends on your own mind, if you want to give, you will give, if you don't want to give, you will not give. After all, the child is not his own, and he is not obliged to raise it. But it is indeed a very common behavior for mother-in-law to give money, so most mothers-in-law think that they should give money to their daughter-in-law, after all, even if they are just ordinary relatives and friends, others should give red envelopes when they are pregnant and give birth.

The mother-in-law is closer, and she should give more.

can give red envelopes to both daughter-in-law and grandson, and it is a big red envelope, such mothers-in-law are a minority after all.

I don't envy her either, everyone has a different living environment. There is no comparison, after all, some people are born with a golden key, and the starting line is different, how to compare.

My mother-in-law is a person who has never worked and has no income of her own, so when my father-in-law was fair, he only gave her money for grocery shopping. My husband is also dead, and he hasn't given her parents money for the Chinese New Year for many years.

So I don't expect my mother-in-law to give me and my children New Year's money, it would be good if she could save some money for the elderly.

For me and my children, my mother-in-law is like an airy existence, and at the same time, I can't feel her presence.

It's good to live your own little home, don't expect too much from people, the higher the expectations, the higher the disappointment.

And even if my mother-in-law gives me and my children New Year's money, the money will be returned to her in another ceremony.

It's good that my mother-in-law doesn't care about us, and there is less exchange of these etiquettes.

Sisters after marriage, if you want to live happily, you have to have fewer expectations of others, and it is difficult to expect others to meet the requirements of your heart.

Summary. Dear, I'm a psychological listener, and I'm glad to answer for you. In a word, the money of the in-laws is never given to you. It can be said that when you come to your in-law's house, you just think about eating and drinking at home all day long, why do you have to give you money and think about beauty.

Dear, I'm a psychological listener, and I'm glad to answer for you. In one sentence, the money book of the in-laws has never been given to you. It can be said that when you come to your in-law's house, you just think about eating and drinking at home all day long, why do you still give you money, you pretend to be beautiful.

Dear, why do you want to say that? If you are a daughter-in-law, then it can be said that my mother-in-law's money has never given me a penny, and all I spend is my own money.

Dear, because I don't know your identity, so, not the ruler of the spike is Tailing Bu knows how, can you tell me in detail? I can help you analyze and help you solve problems.

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Mother-in-law should share a little money with her to help us do things together In this case, you can see if you live together You don't have to give it, and give a little to show your heart during the New Year's holidays The old man doesn't necessarily want it Just think you have this heart

Mother-in-law should give her a little money to help us do things together.

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Mother-in-law to help us do things together, should share a little money with her In this case, you can see if you are living together in the main shed if you are holding Zen or not, you can also use it in the spring, and give a little to show your heart during the New Year's holidays The old man may not necessarily want it Just think you have this heart

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Precautions for getting along with the elderly:1When you are fine, make the old man happy, the old man is in a good mood, and his body is good.

2.If you don't like to listen to the old man, don't refute it to your face, just pretend not to hear 3Don't argue with older people about right and wrong.

Eliminate shouting 4The living habits and personality of the elderly are very different from the elderly and the young, and respecting the living habits and personality of the elderly is the first principle of living with the elderly.

Summary. Hello dear and happy to answer your <>First of all, it should be noted that there is no requirement for the mother-in-law to have money to buy a house, but to see if she has the ability, she does have the ability to deliberately not help, you can communicate well, and it is best for the man to coordinate.

Buying a house is a popular trend now, everyone hopes to be able to buy a house, especially for the married couple, buying a house has become a top priority, many times due to limited economic ability, some parents-in-law will help buy a house, that is, pay the down payment of the house, etc. The above is all the answers of the answer, I hope it can help you, and I wish you a happy life

My mother-in-law said that I paid one penny and two cents to buy a house? It's not human to talk like that.

Hello dear Huai Sui slippery, I am happy to answer for you. First of all, it should be noted that there is no requirement for the mother-in-law to have money to buy a house, but to see if she has the ability, she does have the ability to deliberately not help, you can communicate well, and it is best for the man to coordinate. Buying a house is a popular trend, everyone wants to be able to buy a house, especially for the married couple, buying a house has become a top priority, many times due to limited financial ability, some parents-in-law will help buy a house, that is, pay the down payment of the house, etc.

I hope it can help you and wish you a happy life

I got married to my partner, why did I still post it upside down.

If you don't have a marriage certificate yet, you can choose to let the other party buy a house in full.

If the man is unwilling to buy a house before getting married, or even willing to make a down payment, it can directly prove that the man is unwilling to bear the pressure, and it can be said that he has no intention of getting married. In fact, the house is just a superficial phenomenon, from which it can be judged that Fan Zhao has a relatively large decision-making attitude, and it is very clear that he is not suitable for doing big things Wu Qi. 2.

In fact, if a man is reluctant to buy a house before getting married, it can be interpreted as he does not want to get married, and of course it is not excluded that he does not want to marry you. 3.He is unwilling to buy a house or can prove that he does not have the ability in this area, his salary is not high, and if he blindly buys a house, he may be hollowed out of his family and even in debt.

4.If you don't want to live without a house with him, then break up. If you love him, then you will work together to buy a house after you get married.

That's right, isn't my mother-in-law unreasonable when she talks like this, why do I care about such a person?

If you kiss her, you don't have to pay attention to her, if you don't want to live with your mother-in-law in Yihe Sun Qi, there will be more contradictions. Marriage is about you and your partner's life, and living with him. It mainly depends on how the man accompanies you.

Does she feel that I am easy to talk and bully? Is it a rush to talk like this, isn't it a shame? Amusing.

To force weak, kiss you and show your confidence.

It's okay, let's not get along, I said what you said about her. Do your colleagues still have someone to talk to you, are you angry?

It's okay if you don't have to come and go.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been difficult to handle since ancient times.