Feel My Seven Year Old Child Reading My Seven Year Old Child has feelings

After reading the book "Your Seven-Year-Old Child", I realized that seven-year-old is a withdrawn, introverted, quiet age, overly sensitive to everything, all of them are small worries, and few people can make seven-year-old children feel that this person is very good to him: most of the seven-year-old children are in the first grade, and he especially believes that his teacher will pick the bones in his eggs, so he will often go home and tell his parents how the teacher abuses him and how it is unfair to him. The book also says that as a parent of a child, you'd better not believe what he says or the kind of story he tells you

That's the case for seven-year-olds. Sometimes he reverses things upside down, often saying that he is the most hurt in the matter, and he is not responsible for himself; Sometimes it seems quite unreasonable; Sometimes it seems justified to be hungry; Sometimes we even have a lot of headaches and don't know how to educate such children.

In fact, seven-year-olds tend to be good students and strive for perfectionism, which is enough to show themselves in class. In fact, as he grows up, he will become more and more reasonable, and more and more willing to look at things from other people's perspectives. At the same time, he has already shown a subtlety:

A new, growing sense of independence. I started to like to have my own space again, so I could think. So at this time, I thought about being a teacher or a parent again.

We must respect their seven-year-old children, do not control them, and understand them, and at the same time understand, but also gently care for them, so that they have enough security, with these sense of security, they will become timely reflection and have the courage to challenge.

A seven-year-old child has slowly changed from a toddler to a teenager. Begin to have a sense of self-independence and desire to be recognized by friends, relatives and teachers. In the relationship, he also hopes to be more harmonious.

Of course, seven-year-olds are also in the sensitive period of demanding attention. Especially the love of his parents, if his parents did not give him enough love when he was a child, he would strongly ask his parents to give him more love at this time. For example, he will do something unexpected to challenge his parents and get their attention.

Of course, it's the same at school, for example, he will do it on purpose. Drop the pencil on the ground and pick it up to get the teacher's attention; Or he will gently run to the teacher, hug the teacher, and let the teacher remember the child. The seven-year-old child also begins to understand others slowly, and when things happen, we gently reason with him, and he will slowly accept them and will not strongly oppose them.

Seven-year-olds tend to be more demanding in life and learning, such as participating in games and other links, which they will prefer to enjoy, so sometimes, they are not very good at following the rules

He dug up a lot of water chestnuts, and we were both satisfied and happily ate them.

Since we had this tacit understanding, we have gotten along well in those days. But then the problem came again, some naughty boys like Qi laughed at him and me for "falling in love". This was a shame in our eyes at the time.

So after he heard it, he didn't fight with Qi desperately, and that one was thrilling and inseparable. Afterwards, Qi stopped laughing at us. And he never spoke to me again, all in elementary school.

Later, we were admitted to the same secondary school, but in different classes. I am excellent in Chinese, he is excellent in mathematics, but the two of them are always like strangers, they don't speak, they look away when they see them, and the jokes of childhood imprison us like poison.

After many years, I integrated into the bustling city and became a journalist; He finished college and went back to a small factory in our hometown that was about to go bankrupt. He started from the lowest level and made the small factory a famous brand enterprise in our township step by step. The two of us became the best of that class.

One day, I was walking in the fields when I saw him coming from a distance. The four looked at each other, their eyes full of panic, and neither of them could find a suitable name for each other. The stubbornness of childhood makes our steps go over each other. Yet dramatically at the same time.

At that time, we all vaguely saw what we looked like when we were seven years old......