Desperate because of debt and want to commit suicide, what should I do?

In fact, this kind of despair is not brought to you by debt, and gambling is given to you, if you continue to gamble, this despair will haunt you forever, I am also because of gambling debt, although I am not as much as yours, but your income is indeed several times mine, that is to say, the degree of debt we are the same, there is no other way, only quit gambling to pay off debts.

First, you have to sell your property as much as possible to pay off your debts, you are a bank employee and you should know better than me, and if you are not sued, your property, including your house and car, will be confiscated. So I suggest that you sell what you can! After the things are gone, you can still make money to buy.

Second, confess to your family and try your best to let your family help you, because there is great power in numbers, and now the only people who can help you are your parents, and no one else.

Thirdly, keep your job as much as possible, I don't recommend running away, although you will be under a lot of pressure, even very painful, but these are because you have done something wrong, you have to accept punishment, run away, you can be sure that you will be okay? Do you think you can run away from this? Have you spent the rest of your life on the run?

Your job now earns a lot of money, you go out, you don't earn so much, remember what I said.

Fourth, and most importantly, that is to leave gambling forever, if you don't leave this thing, even if you pay off your debts, you will repeat the same mistakes until you waste your life.

As for suicide, I think it's nonsense, at the age of 28, you want to commit suicide, I think it's ridiculous, don't you think? If you are 58-68, you will commit suicide, but you are only 28 years old, your life has just begun, how can you give up easily, if you pass this level, there will be nothing difficult for you on the road of life in the future.

Mentality, you need a strong heart now, you need a calm mind, and you need to be calm in everything you do now. Friends, we just owe money, we don't owe life. Don't choose to run away, face it positively, and pay it off in about 10 years with your income.

Maybe it won't take that long, and it won't be a lifetime to pay it back. It's useless to say, you have to think calmly, how you go your own way still depends on yourself, what others are saying is meaningless!

If you are experiencing this situation, it is recommended that you seek professional help as soon as possible. You can contact your local mental health agency, counselor, doctor, or other professional for appropriate support and**.

You can also try to share your feelings and experiences with friends, family, partners, or anyone you trust, and seek their support and help.

Remember that you are not alone and that there are people who are willing to listen and help you through this.

If you have the ability to go into debt, you must have the ability to make money, don't want to end yourself at the lowest time, as long as you are willing to endure hardships and persevere, there will be a way after all.

If you owe hundreds of thousands, you can still pay it off slowly, but if you owe too much, you are really desperate.

In addition to life and death, what other major events are there in this life, if you are not even afraid of death, there is no flame mountain that you can't pass.

Debts must be repaid, because you have to be reputable, but when you die, your debts will be rotten. I will negotiate with the other party to repay it in installments, and if the other party is still unwilling, let him sue the court, willing to gamble and lose, and be willing to go to jail, so as not to drag down the family.

The old man often says: There are always more ways than difficulties, and no matter how worried you are, it will not help, what should you do? Put down your body, put down your face, you can't make big money, you can earn small money.

Hangzhou express brother gets up early every day, earns a little money every day, and buys a house in Hangzhou.

I once read a story about a coachman pulling a cart of porcelain, and due to the bumps, he accidentally fell and broke one of them, and he just glanced at it and left, without even stopping his steps. Passers-by asked him: Why don't you go and look at the porcelain when it is broken?

The coachman said, "Since it has been broken, even if you stop and look, it will be useless, so why bother?" It's better to keep going.

Life is not easy, work your own, everyone has their own difficulties, living is a proof, life is a competition, see how you taste!

1. The wrong mode of thinking will lead to a tragic end.

2. Money is dead, whether it is paper money or digital yuan, it will not force you.

3. In most cases, it is you who can force you.

4. When the creditor collects debts, he generally will not urge him, otherwise he will break the law. It's not the old society anymore, you can fight and kill.

5. Being in debt shows that you have dared to think and fight. This is your advantage and cannot be forgotten. However, we need to sum up the lessons and see what we have not considered well and improve them.

6. Don't stay at home, go out to find a job, you can consider changing cities. If you continue to improve yourself in your work, you will definitely have noble people to help you.

7. You don't have to pay the bills, but you can keep the accounts, and if you earn it, you will pay it back little by little. Get it right, and you'll be done in a year or two. I've seen a lot of people like that. Even if it's five years, ten years, what's the matter!

8. Ten years later, use your own performance to witness your own growth and prove your strength. It's not too late!

Hello, do whatever you want, just do it, no one will drag you down. If you die like that, it's really not worth it. If you have to die, buy an insurance policy to make a final contribution to the family.

Don't just die silently, it's not worth it. On the other hand, there is nothing to die for, and it is not to fight and take the lead. If you take the lead, it's not yet certain if you'll die.

There are still survivors. Some are alive, and he is dead; Some are dead, and he is still alive. You can't do the latter thing, but it's good to ask you to do the former, and contentment is happiness.

Live with your dead mind, it's the best way to deal with debt. So I think if you're in debt, you feel cornered, and you're forced by money to think about suicide.

I am in debt, but I am relaxed, adjust my mentality, live according to the original way, slowly increase my confidence, just get through it, don't think about suicide at any time, read more books, learn lessons, and start learning again.

If the debt is so heavy that I am cornered, I will not commit suicide, because it is not easy for people to come to this world, it is not easy to give a life, and my younger brother will go to work to pay off all the debts, and one day he will pay off the debts, and there will be a bright future.

When people come to this world, it is not easy to give a life, and they actively work hard to pay off all their debts, and one day they will pay off their debts, and there will be a day when they will come out. One cannot give up on anything easily and approach things with a positive mindset. Only struggle can lead to hope.

Put down your money, find a place to work honestly, and pay a fixed amount of money every month. Set yourself down first. It's all useless to settle down. I owe the bank and so on.

Think of the good things in this world.

As long as you are willing to work hard, you can pay it back.

Luo Yonghao has a debt of 600 million yuan, and he will sell the company and start a new business is almost over, and the world will not treat a person who works hard.

Dispel suicidal thoughts in advance, lay out your life for the future, and work step by step to earn money to pay off debts.

In fact, I think that only by being brave enough to face these problems, suicide is useless.

You can't pay off your debts if you commit suicide! Although you committed suicide, maybe these debts will fall on your relatives, but aren't you too irresponsible? Although they may help you pay it back, you are still in debt, and it becomes a debt to your relatives.

Debts must be repaid, don't think that you don't need to pay them when you die, it will be converted to another way. While you are alive, you can work hard and make money, and you may pay it back, and you can live well again if you pay it back. Even if you can't pay it back, you will always take a little less debt.

When you pay off the debt, you want to kill yourself again, at that time, no one will stop you!! If you don't pay off your debts, you want to escape, no wonder you are so sad!! A person who has no sense of responsibility, who has no responsibility...

When you're stressed, go eat something delicious and don't overthink it.

I understand, but don't!

After the debtor dies by suicide, the debt is paid by his heirs. The heirs need to pay off the debts that the decedent should pay off according to law to the actual value of the inheritance, but for the debts that exceed the actual value of the estate, the heirs can choose to repay or not to pay.

[Legal basis].

Article 18 of the Civil Code.

Adults are persons with full capacity for civil conduct and may independently carry out civil juristic acts.

Minors over the age of 16 who rely on their own labor income as their main livelihood** are to be regarded as persons with full capacity for civil conduct.

Article 1122.

An estate is a personal legal property left behind by a natural person upon his or her death.

An inheritance that is not allowed to be inherited in accordance with the law or by its nature shall not be inherited.

Article 1123.

After the commencement of inheritance, it shall be handled in accordance with the statutory inheritance; If there is a will, it shall be handled in accordance with the testamentary inheritance or bequest; Where there is a bequest and maintenance agreement, it shall be handled in accordance with the agreement.

Article 1161.

The heirs shall pay off the taxes and debts that the decedent shall pay in accordance with the law within the actual value of the inheritance. The part exceeding the actual value of the estate shall not be subject to voluntary repayment by the heirs.

If the heir renounces the inheritance, he or she shall not be liable for the taxes and debts that the decedent shall pay in accordance with the law.

The debt of 200,000 is really not much in the current society, there are good people who are more in debt than you, and there are those who are in debt of millions. If you can afford to owe so much debt, you should be able to make money back and pay off the debt. I used to be as anxious as you are, and I couldn't sleep all night, thinking that if one day I couldn't make it out, who would take care of my elderly and sick mother?

Who will raise the daughter who has just started kindergarten? Can my wife resist alone? Will you share my suffering?

But I didn't feel depressed, I didn't have suicidal thoughts, and I often healed myself. Fellow relatives need us to live well, and we must hold on for their sake, and they are our unshirkable responsibilities and obligations. Besides, if we are born as human beings, we must be responsible, we are only in debt now, and we will not die.

If you can't afford to pay your debts now, let's put it back for now. First solve the most basic survival, take care of the family, and then think about slowly repaying the debt. It is natural to repay debts and money, and the debts owed to anyone are repaid, and relatives and friends must be repaid, because that is also their hard-earned money.

In short, we should first solve the problem of survival, and then seek development.

When I was in debt of more than 1 million, I also thought about suicide But what should my family do This kind of non-payment of responsibility I am relieved by death It will only bring more pain to my relatives and friends I have the courage to want to die But I don't have the courage to live People don't die and debts don't rot Not to mention only 200,000 If it's all online loans or something Then I don't mind if you tear down the east and make up for the west The more you demolish it, the bigger it will be I suggest finding a stable job first Let yourself be enriched first Don't let yourself think about it More and more with friends around you But don't ask them to borrow money When you are depressed, you can ask your friends to enlighten you If one year is not enough, two years will be two years, and if two years are not enough, it will be three years There will always be a time to see the sunshine Believe in my friend.

Don't think like that, no matter how difficult it is, life still comes first, you have to think about your family and parents. I owe more than you, my husband and I owe almost more than one million, and we will soon face overdue, the epidemic, the store has no income, hard losses, and the road to entrepreneurship is too difficult. In order to repay the debt, I left my parents, husband and two-year-old son, and went to Shenzhen to work alone, there is no way, there is no way, there are old and young, I must be strong, no matter how painful and tormented, I must grit my teeth and get through.

Every day at this point, looking at my son's **, crying under the covers, I can't make a sound, for fear that the people in the dormitory will hear. The next day, I didn't go to work with a smile and developed a side hustle. Come on, stranger.

To be honest, 200,000 is really not much compared to most debtors, and it is almost over after 3 years of hard work. I also failed to start a business, with a debt of 500,000 yuan, and now I am working, with a monthly salary of 10,000 yuan, and a mortgage to be repaid every month, I can only be strong, and I plan to pay it off in five years. So you must persevere, life has to go on, life has to go on, it's no big deal, it's good to have experienced it, you can understand a lot of truth in an instant, see a lot of things clearly, come on, encourage together!

If you think of it as a disaster, then it is a disaster, and if you take it as a stepping stone to growth, then it is your mentor to start a wise life. People have to learn to think multi-dimensionally, as long as you still have some guilt about yourself and your family, you should stand up, only yourself can defeat yourself in this world, and only yourself can defeat yourself. All hardships are precious treasures, and when you overcome them again and again, you will become unfazed and finally achieve great things!

Of course, everyone understands this great cause differently.

As long as you have firm beliefs, you can persevere, life is full of ups and downs, depression is terrible, but I hope you can be positive and adjust your mentality. Doing business can be a comeback.