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Spend more time with your children, and the more time you share together, the more you will feel emotional.
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About the family education of Luzhou, I recommend that you change it to take a look at the books of Mr. Zhou Hong, a famous family education expert in China, "Love Children and Understand Children", "Children Don't Be Afraid", "Be a Parent in a Different Way", I believe that Mr. Zhou Hong's books should be of great help to you, and Mr. Zhou Hong is now an expert consultant of Zhuojuan Education, and Zhuojuan Education should have the information you want.
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This situation is really sad, the child is not sensible, and the parents have repeatedly tolerated it, e69da5e887aa62616964757a686964616f31333365643532
The main reason for these is the doting of parents, and the spoiling of the parents, sooner or later will harm the children.
The general psychological motivation of children scolding their parents is, "I have needs, you want to meet me, I think this is right", "I want you to meet my needs now, immediately" (so take the behavior of scolding, why does this happen, because before fighting with parents, parents out of pampering, pretend to give in, give me a reward (here is the embryonic state of scolding parents), children express their needs in the form of crying, as long as they cry, adults immediately satisfy, children think this trick is very smart, children gradually grow up, Slowly have their own consciousness, the form of crying seems to be gradually inapplicable in front of parents, (at this time grandparents are the most favored, parents also ignore the guidance and education of children) but in order to achieve their own goals, I need to attach some ways to let adults pay attention to me - scolding, there are one and two, and every time there is a reinforcement, the child thinks that this is useful or that it is right to do so).
The previous analysis of the motivation of teenagers to beat and scold their parents, hoping to solve this kind of problem, has some insights.
Personally, I think that the parents in the theme of the question should be ruthless, lose their temper in front of their children, and express to their children the feelings of bearing the child's vexatious troubles for so many years (remember not to blindly complain), and then say that the child's problems have developed to the extent that the child is angry with you (but you have to decide whether to give in depending on the child's personality, even if you give in, it is effective), and then, you should care but not deliberately, you should eat and eat and love to eat. When a child doesn't eat and is hungry and looking for something to eat, it may be the time for the child to change.
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If you can scold your parents, that is, when the physiological rebellion period has arrived, there will be such a result, it must be affected by similar reasons that have occurred before, at this time, the verbal preaching is basically weak, and it is better to use self-righteous teaching to slowly get through this period.
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First of all, the child's rebellious situation is too serious, how can you beat and scold the parents? It is estimated that it is difficult for parents to communicate with him, so it is better to send him to a formal school to solve problems, there is a school in Xuzhou that does a very good job in this regard, you can consult.
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The child's words clearly came from home.
People's version. If the family is democratic, the education of children should also be democratic. In this case, the child's internal words can be said to be "every word is the truth", and he can defend his rights, and his behavior is not inherently wrong.
He just didn't respect his parents, but only if his parents didn't respect him either.
The child annoys his parents because he has to stop playing games, and even if he doesn't, he will not be able to play. And the words of the confrontation are the family's version.
Reasonable education, teach by word and deed, don't be too anxious, step by step.
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To be honest, I have beaten and scolded my parents, and the conventional education methods are ineffective, so it may take some miracles.
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If the education is not timely, it should be transformed to demetamorphosis.
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Let parents and children be friends first, when Du Ran wants to win the trust and recognition of children, it will take time to pay a lot in DAO. After winning these answers, the child will be willing to listen to and accept the parents' opinions when guiding them.
If you don't know anything about your child, and you don't know what your child really wants, you want to 'control' your child, that's not good, it's impossible.
Don't instruct your child what to do, guide your child to argue right and wrong. Let your child choose what to do. That's his life.
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Spanking and scolding your parents is really a problem.
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First of all, it has to be in the child is not.
In the case of excitement, parents and children are together to find the reason for the child's heart, and in addition, the trumpet is in the rebellious period, as parents need to better predict to educate.
Children beat and scold their parents, as parents, they must have spoiled their children excessively since they were young, but the children grew up to beat and scold their parents during the rebellious period.
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The friend upstairs has said very clearly, I don't need to answer, I am the teacher, he is right, and there are many parents who always impose their own views and wills on their children, and children cannot do what they want to do, and Chinese parents do not do enough in cultivating their children's ability to choose and learn to decide, and parents always have the final say. Over time, children will become passive in the face of life and learning, and become passive acceptance, and parents can give their children more choice. However, due to the child's age and mental immaturity, parents cannot completely let him choose and decide by himself, you can give him some effective reference opinions, or compare several options and let him weigh them himself.
At the beginning, he may also make mistakes, and there must be mistakes in the choice, but parents should communicate with him with the mentality of a friend, analyze the reasons, and not just do not listen to the old man, you should respect his choice, and solve the difficulties with the child to spend together, so that he knows that you will always stand on his side as parents!
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There is a saying that "there is oppression, there is resistance!" ”
From the perspective of relativity, children's rebellious psychology arises from the constraints of parents on children. When I say this, many parents may want to scold me. Actually, I mean, it's a question of the way parents educate their children.
I don't know if you have noticed that the most common word that parents say to their children is "no, no, don't ......"Of course, children are young and ignorant, and parents must give their children a lot of restrictions in order to protect them. But please take an extra 5 minutes to explain, "No, no, don't ......."". Whether the child understands it at the time or not, these will gradually become the unspoken rules in the child's mind.
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Parents need to use love, patience and sincerity to untie the "knot" in their child's heart. Patiently move them with sincere love, and let the children accept some simple truths, that is, how to love themselves, love their parents, love the motherland, and the simplest truths such as bitterness before sweetness. When talking to your child, make him feel that you are equal to him, and that you are communicating with him, not to reprimand or perfunctory him, so that he will open his heart.
The first step is to choose the right location so that children who are new to Internet addiction will identify with it and not be disgusted. In general, Internet addicts are mainly concentrated in the age group of 11 to 25 years old. When talking to them, it's best not to talk directly to your child about the Internet and games, but to choose topics that interest them and gradually transition to the central issue.
The second step is to transfer this sense of identity to the child's parents after confirming that the child has identified with him. In nuanced conversations with children, it is common to start with "Do you think parents are doing this wrong?" "Are they doing this to love you or to hurt you?"
and so on to allow children to self-reflect on the right and wrong of their parents' attitudes.
The third step is to transfer the child's sense of identity with his parents to the recognition of the importance of learning, so as to stimulate children's interest in learning and encourage them to read more books that are meaningful to them.
Eventually, children will self-recognize the downsides of online addiction and consciously kick it. Of course, this requires a process, and the child's ability to get rid of Internet addiction depends not only on the child's own determination, but also on the cooperation of parents. Many parents need to change their education methods to win their children's trust and respect, and not to interfere too much with their children, otherwise they will be disgusted.
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It's only when I grow up that I found out that I was too addicted to playing online games Most people regret it Many people are sober up by themselves Few people can say it or be influenced by others Hehe If you want to stop it, you must take tough measures Because persuasion education is difficult to implement The effect is not good The tough measures are not to beat and scold the children themselves Parents who like to beat and scold their children The tough measures are to control the money in the child's hand Control his leisure time Let the child do more exercise and rely on the long-term efforts of parents It's best to exercise the game together or not let him stop at once, you can slowly reduce the game time, let him do something else, let him wake up quickly, although persuasion and education are not very effective, but on the basis of the above, some things that should be said must be said This depends on the skills of the parents of the children themselves, I wish your children a prodigal son to turn back as soon as possible.
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We will all encounter children's education problems in our lives, whether it is a bystander or our own personal experience, the following is how to educate children correctly.
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The content comes from the user: Chinese if necessary.
Chapter 1: Primary school parents' experience in educating their children.
Educate children.
Liu Yuze, the second class of the fifth year.
How parents educate and nurture their children has always been a focus in today's society. Children from kindergarten to elementary school, from elementary school to middle school, high school, and finally to college, are central topics of conversation.
Times have changed, the living environment is superior, coupled with family planning, a family of six people (parents, grandparents, grandparents) raise a child, who doesn't care, who doesn't love it? This also invisibly gives children a sense of self-superiority. Therefore, educating and nurturing children is quite a headache.
1. Communicate with each other.
The problem of educating and nurturing children is not achieved overnight, but requires a rather difficult, complex, and long stage, through which lessons are constantly learned, measures are taken, etc., which may or may not succeed.
I didn't deliberately raise my children how well, but I didn't omit the necessary care and education. The first is to learn to communicate with each other, learn how to cultivate feelings with your child, learn how to talk to him, and not necessarily talk about big truths.
Even worship me, that's the first step to success. Next, it's not impossible to occasionally talk to him about reasoning, and of course he can't get an inch, otherwise his efforts will be wasted.
When dealing with the relationship with the child, treat the child as your friend, treat him with sincerity, do not think that he is a child and make up a reason to deceive him, listen carefully to him when he needs to communicate, and share joy and joy with him; When he needs help, she should seriously help him analyze some problems that she thinks are very complicated, help him solve difficulties, and do what he says and do; In discussing with him question two: how about parents 22128
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Change your own education methods You can't get used to your children Give your children the ability to survive in society in advance and excellent overall quality If you get used to him a little bit today, no one in the society will get used to him in the future, then he will be finished.
Talk to a psychiatrist with her, and the psychiatrist knows how to capture a person's heart and lead them down the road. Looking at your situation, it is difficult for ordinary people to change her, and she is stubborn enough.
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Depressed! You want a story!
There is no major problem, you are mainly not resting well, and your eyes are black when you squat, which is caused by the temporary supply of blood to the brain. You can rest assured that nothing is wrong.
I want to say, the son wants to raise but doesn't wait, can't treat you, think that when you are young, you just play, and then, regardless of your parents' wishes, you still have to listen to some, after all, their words are also reasonable, and then is, if you can learn, learn as soon as possible, and when you grow up, you will not have time to learn.