How can I the head of the house have a good relationship with my roommates? I don t seem to be abl

If you want others to listen to you, first of all, you must have self-confidence, usually you feel that you are right, stick to the end, don't care about other people's opinions, but you don't blindly do things according to your own ideas. Before you do something, you have to think about whether you are focusing on the big picture, but also whether you should do it, and you can do it after you think clearly. Of course, you also have to consider the feelings of most people around you.

Also, when others need help, do your best to help as much as you can, and don't be stingy. But don't do everything to help others, because if you do, you'll help others develop bad habits. The most important thing is to be assertive in what you do.

That's all I can say, and you can slowly experience the rest according to yourself above.

Learn to be tolerant, generous, and help others if you can!

The head of the house is not powerful in speaking, so if you are unhappy, just quit, it's not interesting.

If he says that you are useless, then you can call him to be it, why do others say about him? I don't have the confidence to do it, and I can't help but let others do it. So don't always hit others, such people have too low emotional intelligence.

If you want to be it, do it, and don't care what other people think.

If no one else wants to be, and they don't want you to be, then the only way is to vote.

Prepare the same piece of paper for everyone in your dormitory, write the name of the person you want to be the dormitory, and finally choose the person with the largest number of people, who is the head of your dormitory.

They say that if you are not the head of the house, then you can not retreat, and if others say that they are not right, you can be you. As long as you can lead by example. Do a good job as president, and they will admire you and won't disobey you.

Since they say that you will not be useful as president at that time, then you can appoint the next president by ballot or force, and you can retire yourself, and don't look for other people's dislike, and it's not good to be thankless.

Then you should directly say this sentence in your heart and tell them, since you think I am useless, and you are not appropriate to be you, don't say anything about me. They won't always say that about you in the future.

Then you should directly say this sentence in your heart and tell me that since you think I'm useless and it's not appropriate to do it, don't say anything about me. I won't always talk like this in the future.

Be direct, talk to them, ask them why it's useless for me to be the president, explain it clearly, and explain to them the difficulties of being the head of the house, it's not your obligation.

My roommate said that I was useless to be mayor, what should I do, and they shouldn't be right, so what do I think of them? It's useless to say you're mayor. Then you don't deserve it, and no one should be it, so there's no way to deal with it!

You shouldn't be the one who your roommate is, you just ask.

Hello subject, come and listen to the big head brother:

Many of our troubles come from whether our expectations for things to meet our expectations, that is to say, we always imagine how others should be, and then if we don't get a response that we think is reasonable, we will be entangled in it or reflect on whether it is our own stability problem, in fact, sometimes it is really too much, just do your best, the expectations of others can be lowered, and it will be easier.

I don't know if you live in a high school dormitory or a college dormitory or something else, the dormitory is a big family, all study and live together, and we all hope that the roommates are very friendly and enthusiastic, but many Qi Lu or the dormitory backfired, from your description, I just feel that everyone talks less, and I don't feel so close, in fact, there are many dormitories that have contradictions between each other, and it may not be as good as calming down, so if you are powerless to change such an environment, then it is good to accept the reality.

Some people like to be lively, some people like to be quiet and like to do things alone, some people love to talk, and some people are silent, many times they can not understand, but they must be respected. So if they don't like to talk and don't like to reply, you shouldn't be too anxious and forceful. Maybe they are all very self-protective and slow-burning people, and after getting along for a long time, maybe they will talk a lot, and the dormitory will be lively.

I think it's good that you just do your own thing, treat others with sincerity, and have a clear conscience. Don't doubt yourself, and don't expect too much from others, so that you may be more likely to accept many results, but it is not easy to get tangled.

The atmosphere of the dormitory is not good, you can go to the school clubs, go to sports more, keep yourself active, gather people in groups, and make a lot of like-minded friends, which is also a good choice.

If you have any questions, find the big brother, and hope to pay attention to the exchange.