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This one is for sure! After all, the concept of raising children to prevent old age, passing on the ancestry, and having no descendants for the greatest has not been completely eliminated for thousands of years!

The choice of many friends around me is the best proof! After the second child was released, many rural workers, if they only had a daughter at home, most of them chose to have a second child, in order to have a son! And with a boy, there are not many who choose a second child!

This kind of thinking is not only in the countryside, but also in the city, and the idea of preference for sons over daughters has existed for thousands of years, which may be related to the previous division of labor in the family, where men used to work, women took care of the family, and men were the main labor force in the family, so they felt that they could work with boys.

Of course, due to the reason of being an only child, many rural families now have a lot of girls as long as they have a girl, so many parents have begun to pay attention to their daughters, and the preference for sons is becoming less and less in general! Moreover, there are many people who choose to have a second child because they like girls! But if they have grandchildren and granddaughters, they usually prefer grandchildren.

They have a concept that their granddaughters will always marry into other people's families, and they just need to eat and drink without starving; The grandson is his own and must be nurtured well.

In general, everyone thinks that families with girls are happier in all respects than families with more sons! After all, in today's society, equality between men and women is the consensus, and the vulgarity of preference for sons will be completely changed sooner or later! Relatively speaking, the elderly prefer their children to have boys.

Of course, the fact that the elderly are looking forward to holding their grandchildren and grandchildren does not mean that they do not love their granddaughters and granddaughters. Before the child is born, they want the child to be a boy. But even if the child is a girl, they like it very much, and it is not contradictory.

Boys and girls, after all, are their own children.

What's more, the serious idea of preference for sons over women in rural areas has caused a series of social problems, such as the difficulty of marrying a wife due to the imbalance of population proportion! I believe that with the progress of the national quality and the improvement of the country's pension measures, the idea of preference for sons over women will gradually decrease.

There are still some people, and there are still many places in the countryside that favor sons over women, and it is still very serious, and the poorer the place, the more prominent this kind of thinking is.

Some of them are relatively feudal in the countryside and lack cultural education, and there are still such ideas. The patriarchal mentality also exists.

Rural people now don't have this kind of thinking; Their sons and daughters are very important, and some families will love their daughters even more.

Hello in my life, in fact, I can feel that there are many times there will be patriarchal thinking, when I was young, because there are more brothers and sisters in the family, my parents always take care of boys, good food and good use will be bought for boys, but we girls do not.

1.As boys, even when we boiled eggs, my parents always cooked a little more for him, but we ate very little.

2.I'm the younger sister in the family and knew about it for a long time. I'm very young and I can cook or something, I cook at home during the holidays, brush the dishes, my brother will praise when he cooks once, sweep the floor once, no one praises me for what I usually do, and if I don't do it once, I will be said to be lazy, ignorant, and don't do anything.

3.This kind of parents raised the female baby to help the male baby, and let the female baby serve when they are old. All the good ones are left to the male baby, and all the bitterness is left to the female baby. That's what parents have in mind.

4.It's the same at home. Sometimes I will be very aggrieved, but there is nothing I can do but help them, my parents said, after I got married, my brother's house asked me to buy, I refuted, they said I was ignorant, I don't refute selling shirts, they just said everywhere, it doesn't matter, when the girl gets married, you can help our son buy a house!

Absolutely! I don't dare to say either. I don't dare to marry someone else, for fear of pulling someone else into the water

5.My brother can spend thousands to buy brand-name shoes and clothes, and I can only spend more than a hundred to buy two pairs of canvas, it is true that my parents have really not left me with education, but only if I want them will give, but why my brother does not want clothes and shoes in a steady stream, they say they are not partial, in fact, they just want to give more to my brother, my mother once said that when I quarreled with me, I said that I was going to marry sooner or later.

6.My mother always wanted me to find a rich man, and I thought it was because I was afraid that I would suffer in the future. Later, I said that in this way, she will not have to pay for my marriage in the future, and my younger brother will buy a house or something in the future, and she can also help with the abuse.

I didn't listen to her, and found someone I loved and loved me, with an average family background but no worries about food and clothing. My mother said that there would be no dowry at that time, and she would take the bride price. My parents were typical patriarchal.

In rural areas, many parents have a patriarchal mentality, which is particularly serious.

Hello, first because of labor, now it is for inheritance!

Raise children to prevent old age, and the daughter who marries out spills the water.

Not all rural people are patriarchal.

Good thing I don't have one at home.

In the previous era, this kind of thinking was indeed very common, and this phenomenon was everywhere, but with the development of society now, it should slowly decrease, but this phenomenon will still exist more or less, and I think there are two reasons:

1. Traditional concepts are deeply rooted.

First of all, it is the cause of traditional ideas. Tradition tells us that a daughter is the water poured out by a married daughter, and only by raising a son can the family be passed on, although we have emancipated our minds and made progress in society, this concept still exists, especially in some backward areas where the phenomenon of preference for sons over daughters is more serious.

2. Many people mainly rely on their sons to support their old age.

In addition, there is a very real reason that many elderly people do not have a pension. In his later years, he basically relied on his son to support his old age. Once a daughter marries far away, she can't count on her daughter. It is for this reason that many families favor boys over girls.

As a parent, you should properly handle the relationship between your children:

1. Don't judge two children by genderDon't judge two children by gender, give birth to a boy or girl, the son can support the elderly, and the daughter can also support the elderly. They are all children of their own, and the palms and backs of their hands are meat.

2. Don't distinguish right from wrong by age, and don't distinguish between right and wrong by age. Many parents always take "you are the elder sister, let the younger brother" and "you are the elder brother, let the younger sister" as the first sentence, which is not only easy to hurt the child's heart, but also is not conducive to the formation of the child's correct values.