Do you think formal marriage is fair? What is a formal marriage?

Personally, I think that the "shape marriage" is unfair depends on the reason for which the two people in the "shape marriage" got married.

If it's because each of them has their own needs, it's fair. Everyone knows a certain star, I heard that he was still a man when he went to the United States before, although he had a house in the United States, but he did not have a green card in the United States. Later, there was a female friend who was an American, but she couldn't afford a house and needed a house on her own.

So the two of them carried out a "shape marriage". The woman was given the right to move into the house, and the man was given a green card in the United States. But the two still live their own lives and talk about their own love.

It was not until the woman decided to have a child, considering that the child needed to be registered and other issues, that the two divorced. But each found its own happiness, and I think it's fair for both of them.

However, if two people have a formal marriage without any purpose or affection, and they have to live together, I think this kind of "formal marriage" is unfair. First of all, if the marriage is at the urging of both parents, and the newlywed have no feelings, this is unfair to both of them. spent his own youth, and got married in order to satisfy both parents, although it was obedience to his parents, in a way, it was also to make his parents worry less.

But there will be a lot of problems in a marriage without feelings, and parents will be heartbroken when the time comes! In this case, the "shape marriage" is unfair.

In fact, whether the "shape marriage" is unfair depends on how the two people in this marriage look at it.

You don't even know what to ask, what's unfair about this, it's just a question of appropriateness or inappropriateness. The so-called formal marriage means that homosexuals find a lesbian to marry, and then each find their own partner, to put it bluntly, just to act for the people around them. In China, people are terrible, and this is a good solution, but it is more complicated to operate.

The person you are looking for must pass the test in terms of character, those who look more greedy, or don't mess with them, and don't mess with the other party's family that is more difficult. In addition, it is best for both sides to have higher acting skills and be smarter, so as not to show their stuffing. Then there is the agreement that must be signed before marriage, indicating that this is a formal marriage and property issues, in case one party does not keep his promise, this is evidence.

Do you have a child by marriage, I think you can give birth, don't be too juice, the child is the crystallization of love, give birth to a child, be good to the child, and have a pension in the future, nothing bad.

I don't think there is any unfairness in this, if it has not been clearly stated before, then it may be said that there is this problem of unfairness, and it has been made clear before, then this problem does not exist.

There is a form of marriage, but there is no actual marriage, in fact, it is the homosexuality that is popular now.

Formal marriage? It's just to put on a show, like some comrades, Lala.

Some girls feel that a wide marriage is suitable for her choice, and gives four reasons to solve the pressure of being urged to marry, and at the same time, parents don't have to be too sad about the fact that their daughter is not married; No longer waste time on issues like love and marriage, you can focus on your career and life; The boy is her best friend, and the two of them have known each other for a long time, and they know each other well, and they are sure that the other party is not a person who does not believe in good character; She and her best friend have agreed on the independence of their property after they get married, as well as whether they want children or not.

Do you think that if these four conditions are met, marriage is a reliable choice? Today, I will explain to you these four reasons why choosing a formal marriage is asking for trouble.

Although you are married, of course your parents don't have to urge you anymore, but after getting married, you are urging children, since you can't resist the pressure of urging marriage, then why do you think you can resist the pressure of your parents to have children? Since your parents will be sad because you are not married, and of course your parents will be sad because you are not having children, what should you do when the time comes? So everyone sees that the marriage has not solved the problem at all, and at most he has only helped you temporarily delay the conflict with your parents.

But did you think that after the marriage, the two families will inevitably have visits to relatives and friends, courtesies and exchanges, which will also occupy her time and energy, and she will also face another person, and there will definitely be friction and trouble in occupying the same living space with herself. Not only that, because it is a formal marriage, her future husband will continue to have a new boyfriend, and he will also enter her living space, before marriage, she is so easy to be influenced by her parents by the blind date, and the number of relatives she has to face after the marriage is only doubled, and the strangers she has to meet can't escape at all.

There is an old saying that makes a lot of sense, no one can really know who they know before they encounter something. She and her best friend have no experience of living together at all, so she doesn't know if the two of them can still maintain friendship and tacit understanding under the same roof. And after the marriage, this is the legal husband is not a roommate, the roommate is really not good, we can still move out, we can break off the relationship, but the nominal husband, he is very disturbing to your life, and you can't drive him away.

We treat this agreement as a written agreement with legal effect with the participation of a lawyer throughout the process. Then what can you do if your girlfriend defaults and wants to have children? If you make an agreement to get pregnant, he won't disappear out of thin air.

What can you do if he and both of your parents complain that you don't want to get pregnant, so you don't have children, and you shift all the fertility pressure from your parents to you. Then this so-called Yola Qiao Lun, the so-called trust is completely dependent on the character of the other party.

Formal marriage is a formal marriage. Formal marriage, also known as fake marriage, refers to a marriage or legal marriage formalities with another person for a certain purpose, but in fact does not really live as husband and wife, such as immigrating through a fake marriage, working in other places, marrying another person in order to comply with the wishes of the family, and having no real name after marriage; In order to enjoy the benefits and rights of the socks for married people, and to marry a person of the opposite sex, etc. Empty blue.

The benefits of formal marriage. To help cope with external pressures from the family, society, etc. If you choose to raise your child, you can give your child more love and a better quality of life. I think it's **.

Two people married for a certain purpose, and there was no real husband and wife life. It will be protected by the law, and it doesn't take too much time to please the other party's family, and it is still relatively free in life. If you understand the shape of the marriage in advance, it is not a dust grip**, and if you don't know that it is a form marriage before getting married, it is the biggest**, which will cause the other party to be very sad and sad.

This brother Zheng.

In this case, it is a fake marriage, a marriage with another Yuancha person for some purpose, or a legal marriage formality, but in fact it is not a real husband and wife; The advantage is that you can fulfill some of your wishes, and you can choose to divorce after your fingertips arrive; This is indeed one of the biggest **, after all, some people will hide their true situation and choose to like each other.

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