How to talk to girls with high quality?

Now there is a phenomenon of "more wolves and less meat" in society, and there seem to be fewer girls, and there are fewer girls in their favorites. As a new type of single aristocrat in the 21st century, mastering some communication skills with girls will put us ahead of the competition.

First of all, let's talk about the most basic point, which is our personal self-confidence. Everyone is a lot of sentient beings, first of all, we can't do without our own affirmation, you have to believe that you are not worse than her, everyone has their own advantages and disadvantages. If you don't believe in yourself, how can you expect other girls to believe in you.

Confidence, this prerequisite is there, and all that's left is some tips and attention. There are so many boys, how to attract girls to want to talk to you, arouse her interest is the most important. When meeting for the first time, you can go from shallow to deep, and don't be in a hurry.

We can start with her dress today, praise her humorously, and close the distance between her, if you know more about the constellation, then you can roughly guess her constellation according to your chat. The note here is to praise guesses, such as "You are so cheerful, you must be a Leo". It doesn't matter if you guess wrong, usually the woman should take the initiative to tell you, at this time we can say "Wow, you not only have what advantages of this sign, but also what advantages of that sign" This similar sentence pattern.

At this time, you should accept it, don't talk about a topic, not only may the more you chat, the more embarrassing it will be, but also make the other party think you are verbose. At this time, you throw a question to her, ask her about her interests and hobbies, and then you can be pleasantly surprised to say that you have the same interests. For example, she likes cats, you may not have raised them, but you can talk about other small animals you raise, and then go back and quickly make up for the knowledge of cats.

In short, as long as you communicate with sincerity, know some language skills, throw some interesting topics to the other party, and don't always talk about it alone, you will definitely get closer and closer.

Talking to girls is a very particular skill, and many of us don't understand this skill, so when we talk to you, the purpose is too clear.

This makes the girls wary, which will create a huge obstacle to the subsequent communication.

So, when talking to a girl, you should do the following.

First, don't show a clear sense of purpose.

It's especially important to talk to girls, especially when meeting for the first time.

When you meet for the first time, the impression that a girl has on you can account for almost 80% of your impression in the future. That's why first impressions are important.

The first pick-up doesn't have to talk too much, and it doesn't have to end hastily. Simple communication, and then click to stop.

Don't give her the feeling that you want to be close to her, if you keep talking to her about this and that when you meet for the first time, it will make people feel that you have a strong sense of purpose.

Because both parties are not familiar with each other, it is extremely easy to feel like this.

You have to pretend that you bump into her by accident, and then casually chat with her, and after making a good impression, you can leave.

Meeting for the first time is not an opportunity to perform.

Second, communication should be moderate.

Many boys only know how to blindly chase and beat when they chase girls, and when they catch her, they keep saying this and that, chattering endlessly.

It's easy to bore girls.

The real chat must know how to be appropriate, but also know how to be moderately tight. Sometimes tight, sometimes loose, is the best way to communicate and pursue.

Third, we must know how to interact.

Many times, in order to make a good impression in front of girls, boys blindly sing one-man shows, and girls don't know how to interject, and they can't interject.

It's easy to get the topic to a hasty end.

Therefore, normal communication should be interactive.

Choose a topic that interests both parties, and the Q&A should be conducted between the two parties, if you ask more questions, she is basically the same, then you still feel that it is better to change the topic.