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Absolutely. Happiness is not affected by geography.
Nowadays, many people feel that long-distance relationships are particularly bad, because they feel that their lovers are not by their side, and they are watching others together, and they are alone, which is very hard. And many long-distance relationships break up because of a third party. In fact, I think the main reason for the breakup of a long-distance relationship is because of lack of love.
If you really love, you may choose to be together despite all difficulties. My dad and my mom are also from different places, and their hometowns are even now two hours away by car, not to mention when the traffic was more inconvenient 20 years ago. I guess maybe the two of them didn't even understand each other when they first got together.
The two of them were probably talking to me and my classmates at the time, and they said that nine out of ten sentences I said when I spoke to them. Even when I go back to my father's hometown now, I don't understand much of the old man's speech, and I rely on my aunt and uncle to help me translate. At that time, many people were opposed, including my grandmother, who hated my father's house in the mountains and was poor.
But these two people, who don't even know much language, are together like this, and they have been together for so many years, and there is me. My mom said she was lucky and happy because she met my dad and my dad cared about her. Who says people in two places can't be happy together?
And when my mother urged me to find a boyfriend, she also told me, you can try it together when you meet the right one at school, you don't think it's too far away from home in the future, now the traffic is so developed, just drive a few hours to get there, it's really not good and there is a plane, you want to come back, you can easily get home in a few hours. I just want to say that my mom really wants to be open, and a lot of parents want their children to be there for them.
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I can tell you responsibly that if you choose the right person, then you will still be very happy.
The reason why you have to add a condition to choose the right person is because no matter whether your hometown is in the same area or not, the basis of a happy life is to understand and cherish each other. If you marry someone who doesn't do business all day and doesn't treat you well, I'm sure you won't be happy even if you're separated by a wall.
Nowadays, it is very unreliable for college students to fall in love, and there are few who can go to the end, but the one that can go to the end must be a love worth cherishing, which has transcended the limitations of the region. I have a senior, he is older, after a few years of high school, he doesn't look like a freshman after college, and then he found a junior in his freshman year, but he is still older than his senior sister. After getting along for a while, we have a lot of feelings for each other.
So I decided to go to the end, their home is actually quite far away, a southern Jiangsu and a northern Jiangsu in Jiangsu Province, and it takes a day to drive home every time, but people don't care about this. Anyway, now that the transportation is so developed, and they are ready to develop in other places, and now they are married, and it is estimated that the child will be born at the end of the year, and they are very happy, which is the real happiness.
But when you are still a little hesitant, you must think clearly, whether your boyfriend can treat you as a baby from beginning to end, because once you leave your parents, you are surrounded by people from your husband's family, if you are good to you, it's okay, if it's not good for you, you don't even have a person to complain, and you can hear it clearly. You can't be happy on this kind of day.
Choose the right person to live happily in **, so if you like it, you don't need to consider the region, just be good to you, anyway, now the traffic is so developed, it is very convenient.
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Whether it is love or marriage, in fact, it has little to do with the outside world, mainly depending on the hearts of two people, some people think that the last unhappy marriage or love is not sweet enough is because of family conditions, or obstacles caused by different regions, in fact, it is not at all, these external factors will only make some differences in the lives of two people, and the fundamental love or marriage will not be affected by these.
I have seen many people in different regions live happily, and the one that touched me the most was what I saw in the circle of friends, a friend's classmate, she studied in Italy, and she had a crush on an Italian boy when she was in school. At first, the girl felt that there was too much difference between the two people, whether it was regional differences or living habits, all made the girl worry, the boy is an Italian boy, very tall, the boy is very warm, very gentle with the girl, knowing the girl's worries, began to take the initiative to learn Chinese, learn Chinese customs, began to learn to cook Chinese food, when the boy worked hard for a long time, he made a table of Chinese food, invited the girl, and took the initiative to express his heart to the girl, the girl was of course moved, so she agreed.
The two have been together for several years, and there are normal quarrels between lovers in the middle, and the boy is very sensible, and every time he lowers his tall man and takes the initiative to admit his mistakes. The two are ready to get married, and they are really two very happy people. In fact, whether it is love or marriage, it is two people, how can there be any obstacles that cannot be overcome?
Saying that the parents dislike it at home, the parents don't like it, the distance at home, etc., these are actually excuses. Many people will say that meeting the parents of both sides is the best time to test two people, and at this time the problems that are usually not seen will erupt, because the parents' disagreement begins to be in a dilemma, and they begin to feel that it is difficult to do.
If you really love each other, you really want to be together, and you want to stay together in the future, do you still feel embarrassed? It's not because of the degree of your love, there will be any distance problem, different regions, different living habits, it is possible that these will affect life, after all, two different people together, it is inevitable that there will be differences, but these can not be understood and habitual, so where does true love come from?
Two people have been together for a long time, and a lot of things will be easily revealed, but what is revealed are some small habits and problems, which may quarrel and get angry, these are normal, and no one can avoid them, but some real hidden problems cannot be revealed, only in front of big things will be revealed, once it is at that time, it will be difficult to make up for it, so if you really love, there will be no external obstacles that cannot be overcome.
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Yes, I don't know, my girlfriend and I are separated by two provinces from most of China, and I always feel that we have different concepts, and she says that she can accept my culture.
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The marriage banquet of the kind and understanding woman is very happy, because she will be very caring in the old money, and will let the man concentrate on earning money to support the family, and she will take care of the house very well.
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The reason why some people don't feel happy after getting married is because of the incorrect way of communicating with him.
Therefore, we must communicate with our families in a positive and positive way, so that we can truly be happy and harmonious.
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The reason is that they are married, and there may be early quarrels that are not suitable for both of them and individuals, or it may be that in the process of getting along, more and more conflicts occur, and if the contradictions are not resolved, the feelings will be affected, and they may not be happy.
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