This year is the hardest year for me, I don t know how to get out?

Hello. If you can think that the second elder still needs you to take care of it, you need to live strongly, do **** first, there is no motivation without confidence. You narrated on the Internet, and you should get some comfort from the encouragement of netizens, but it is still up to you to get out of the haze, come on brother!

Your mother scolds you, but also hates iron and steel, don't hate her, tomorrow is Mother's Day, bless your mother, she gave you life, endure you for many years, and the pain in your heart is no less than yours.

Well, in fact, if you think about something good, it will have a good result, if you want to be sad about the moon phase, the more sad you will be, and if you think about the good side, you may not be so sad in your heart, in fact, time has been active, and there are so many days in a person's life in a year. So it's okay to be over, so adjust your mentality better.

Personally, I think there are many reasons for your current situation.

One is that you yourself have not made friends with excellent people, and you have not learned excellent qualities and positive spirit.

The other is that your homeschooling has not had a positive impact on you.

These two aspects have contributed to your current predicament.

If you want to have no worries about food and clothing for the rest of your life, take care of your body, start all over again, and do what you can, whether it is a part-time job or learning a craft, in short, you must get rid of the label of gnawing on the old, be positive, and live every day.

Time will not go back, and there is no hurdle that cannot be overcome. You have to be confident and full of the future, first of all, you have to look at things openly, you have to be able to take it and let it go. There are two sides to the development of things, you have to think about the good side to do, to be down-to-earth, it may be a relatively long process, but things will definitely develop in a good direction.

Judging from the situation you said, you are really self-inflicted, really unworthy of your descendants, you should go to work hard to make money, and make yourself like this, it seems that the reason why your parents are too spoiled, in fact, it should hurt you, as soon as possible ** at the same time to find a job that you can do, it doesn't matter how much money you have, the key is to integrate into society.

So time is the best medicine. There are some things that cannot be digested by themselves, and can only be solved slowly by time. I can't keep being depressed.

This year is the hardest year for me, I don't know how to get out?

The most difficult days are all passed by yourself, and you will find that it is those days that have achieved yourself, which shows that only by experiencing hardships can a person grow and gain more.

Makes sense. Because of the wind and rain, I saw the rainbow. After the most arduous test, let you progress, let you grow, that is to obtain a kind of perseverance, tenacity, hard-working spiritual wealth, natural sense of achievement.

In the most difficult days, you survived, which means that you are here. During this period, the growth is relatively fast. That's why I feel envious. That's why I feel that what has changed back now is me.

Thinking about it, subjectively, I really didn't feel the most anxious and difficult moment, maybe the psychological elasticity is stronger? Maybe it's still waiting for me. 1. Do more aerobic exercise.

Running and playing ball are all good choices. 2. Adjust cognition. "It's nothing more than that" and "What is love".

3. Pay attention to positive events, such as the "three good things" training mentioned many times in positive psychology, and you can write down 3-5 good things that happened today in your diary every day; You can also write down bad things and then objectively analyze the reasons. 4. Share positive events. My graduation ** is to do positive event sharing to improve people's subjective well-being, the effect is very significant, so if something good happens, maybe it is a delicious meal, you can share it with your friends.

5. Emotional regulation. Mindfulness, etc., if you are interested, you can directly contact Mr. Zeng @曾祥龙. In fact, the logic of adjustment is still in cognition, emotion, and behavior, our cognition can directly affect our behavior, and behavior can also affect cognition in turn.

And in many cases, cognitive adjustment is very difficult, so we might as well directly adjust behavior. "What doesn't kill me will make me stronger" and "Loneliness is a poison".

The hardest days are all by yourself, and when you are sad, you will find out, but those days have made you yourself, suffering is a blessing, and you can only grow in adversity, it is really like this, the hardest time can make you mature.

The hardest days will strengthen your perseverance, problem-solving skills, and improve yourself, and your future life will be better and better because of this experience.

That's right, the most difficult days are those who come by themselves, and after you get through them, you will find that it is those days that make you strong, so there is no smooth road in life, don't retreat when you encounter difficulties.

Yes, days like that are the most tempering people. If it's a dull day, there's nothing to feel. There has also been little progress.

Couples are becoming more and more estranged, it may not be that the relationship has deteriorated, but that the communication between you has decreased, if two people do not communicate often, you don't know what the other person is thinking, you don't know what has happened to the other party in the recent period, then no matter how strong the relationship will deteriorate. So when you feel that the two of you already have a sense of distance, you have to sit down and communicate immediately, if both of you cherish this relationship very much, and don't want this relationship to break down, take the initiative to sit down and talk, if everyone thinks it doesn't matter, then it's good to get together and disperse.

But sometimes the couple becomes more and more estranged, and it may be that the relationship between the two people has deteriorated, after all, everyone is changing, everyone is developing, you don't know what the other person will become in the future, all you can do is try to fall in love with each other, and maintain the relationship between you, if a person really wants to change, then the eight cows can't pull it back, if you feel that the relationship between the two of you has deteriorated, then let him go. If the other party really makes up their minds to distance themselves from you and forces you to break up coldly and violently, then you can't help it!

Everyone encounters a plateau when they are in love. When you just start to fall in love, you will find that two people have a lot to talk about, and there are a lot of interests and hobbies to communicate, but as time goes by, you get to know each other more and more, and you will find many shortcomings in each other, and after a while you may find that you have nothing to say, at this time many people will mistakenly think that the relationship between you will come to an end, but in fact, if you cross this mountain, you can go on directly.

Don't give up on your relationship at the last minute, it's not easy to cultivate a relationship.

At a certain stage of life, you need to suffer, and if you get through it, you will become a person with a story, and if you can't get through it, it's basically an accident. Torment is a state of life that often manifests itself as anxiety, helplessness, and powerlessness. Like duckweed floating on the water, drifting with the waves, I don't know where to go.

Every successful person, every person who has come before, must have experienced this state of suffering.

If the most torturous days have passed. I survived through my own efforts, and when it passed, I found that it was this hard time that made me who I am now.

The hardest days are all on your own, but this is really the best time for a person to grow.

There are people in reality, he just can't stay alone, he has to find someone to accompany him, even if he doesn't love that person very much, but you will find that you lack the opportunity to grow alone, and you use another person to help you demonstrate all the obstacles in your growth process.

A person must go through some experience to grow up, many times when he encounters difficulties, he will become stronger and more confident, and he will also work hard to achieve himself.

The hardest days are all by yourself, and after you get through it, you will find that it is not afraid of hardship, and the strength to persevere has achieved yourself.

What you said is very right, persistence is victory, see the rainbow after the storm, and success is the final result of continuous perseverance.

It's that time that made you who you are, it's really good, and that experience is your practice.

Therefore, the joys and pains of life are God's gifts to us.

Everything will pass, only you can save yourself.

The most difficult days are to come by yourself, and you will find that it is those days that have made you yourself, I think it is really like this, only when you have experienced hardships can you grow yourself.

The most difficult days for you are all lived by yourself, and you will find that it is those days that have become your own achievements, and I think yes is the most difficult days, because I have achieved myself.

The hardest days are all by yourself, and if you get through it, you will find that that the days are ripe, and you yourself I think this sentence is very reasonable.

This is very wired, everyone's words should be in the most difficult to do, two finishing and persevering, you will have a sense of achievement.

That's right, the hardest days are all by yourself, and you will find out that it is right after you get through it. Then I am the summer vacation, it is that period of time to achieve myself, is to encounter difficulties can be earned, sad after the sunshine is in front, so their own days by themselves, our difficulties must be overcome by themselves, all the difficulties after the customer comes, the sunshine is in front of you.

2020 is a year with a beautiful meaning, but it is a year of many disasters and difficulties, the sudden outbreak of the epidemic broke out, and Wuhan was locked down to the whole country; There are also floods in the second half of the year, typhoon landing, forest fires in Australia, avalanches in Pakistan, etc., which caught people off guard, the global economy stagnated, and China is also in trouble. Half a year has passed in the blink of an eye, and 2021 will be good or bad, let's analyze it carefully.

The new crown pneumonia epidemic, how China acts.

When we prepare the New Year's goods, paste the couplets, and prepare for the New Year with joy, everyone is full of yearning for the new year, and the family is sitting around a table eating Chinese New Year's Eve dinner and watching a unique Spring Festival Gala, a Spring Festival Gala without an audience, and suddenly changing the program. This also has to say that when people are preparing for the New Year, the information of the epidemic suddenly came out in Wuhan, spread very quickly, Wuhan was completely blocked, but within a few days, everyone across the country was forbidden to go out to pay New Year's greetings, it was forbidden to visit the door, and it was forbidden for people to gather, from the closure of the city to the closure of the village, there were volunteers at the entrance of each village, and there were people patrolling and guarding day and night, and the children could only think about going out to play, and the new year would be spent in such a tense atmosphere. However, this also shows that China is a responsible big country, the news of the epidemic came out, immediately blocked, did not give up on every patient, put the life of every patient first, countless retrograde people enthusiastically to protect our homeland, the epidemic was controlled in four months, and it is expected that the epidemic vaccine will be used nationwide by the end of 2020.

This is China's action, China's sense of responsibility, and China's speed!

When the flood comes suddenly, what will happen to the food.

Since May 2020, there have been unequal floods in many places, at first the houses were flooded, college entrance examination students traveled by boat, and even in inconvenient areas, our respectable staff personally swam over with students on their backs, and then there were problems such as houses collapsing and people missing in the areas near the Yangtze River. The state can provide subsidies to support the affected areas, but in some areas this year's food rollercoaster decline, but this year's rain was brought out last year, and work such as the widening of canals was carried out, while other areas were less affected. Grain is the main source of peasants' income, and this year the state will reduce taxes to ensure the basic income of peasants.

However, it is also because of the rain this year, and it is expected that the rain will decrease next year, and the grain harvest will naturally improve, and then slowly recover.

Which year is the hardest, and the standard does not necessarily apply to everyone. Some people feel that this year is more difficult, and some people feel that this year is more willowy than last year. Everyone's life experience is different, and the state of mind will be different when facing the same time.

With the development of various industries after the transformation of the difficult stage, coupled with the end of the epidemic at the end of the year, next year will be better than this year!

In recent years, the economy has become more and more difficult, and the world has been changing since then.

How to get through? It's to run hard, do well now, and look back and find that everything is for your own better growth.

Just when I didn't know what to do, I tried to tell myself that I needed to relax, and I decided to go out on a trip by myself, climb the mountains, and visit the night market. If you look for something beautiful, your mood will be happy. After more than a month of slowly adjusting my mentality, I found a second job.

After my first experience, I found that my abilities had improved a lot. I gradually realized how important that setback was to me, and he made me take a big step towards maturity.