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The child is brought by his grandmother before he is three years old, because he has a deep relationship between her and his grandmother, if you want to bring it yourself after 30, you must first communicate with the child, be with the child more, and accompany the child more, so that he can slowly accept it.
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This is very normal, because in the previous three years, you had too little communication with your children, and you could only have at least a month or two to get closer to your children, that is, at the beginning, you and your grandmother were mixed with the children, and then slowly transitioned to your own fears.
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This requires a process, usually because you don't bring it, suddenly you have to bring it, especially at night, he will have a sense of insecurity.
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The child has been with his grandmother for three years, and he must have established a deep relationship with his grandmother, and he is more familiar, and for you, although he is a mother, she is relatively unfamiliar. But it would be nice to take a little longer, and it will definitely not be comfortable at first.
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Three-year-old baby, don't want to be with you, then you must be with her every day, day and night by his side, and slowly she will go with you.
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The child is bought and sold before the age of three, and I want to take care of the child after the age of three, what if I don't follow me? In fact, the child at this time is very easy to buy, you can take him out to play more, buy some food, and he will slowly follow you.
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The IQ tax money is all grandma's, and you think about yourself after you get into the water, but the child doesn't follow, and you should also take the police out to play. Cultivate feelings, and he will be willing to bring them with you.
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Nowadays, many families are more powerful women, some women also insist on living with their husbands after marriage, and do not want to live with their in-laws, in fact, often at this time the in-laws will be guilty, afraid that the relationship with the daughter-in-law will become estranged, and the child will only be close to the mother in the future, so why is the mother-in-law afraid that the child will be close to the mother, and the child will be brought to the grandmother before the age of 3 after the age of 3?
If the husband and wife divorce, it is difficult for the father to get custody of the child, if there is no custody of the child, it is equivalent to saying that it is "broken", of course, it is also worried that the grandchildren do not love themselves.
However, in today's family, many young parents have no experience with children, so most of the children are raised by their in-laws after they are born, and the children are basically managed by their in-laws before they are 3 years old.
However, the matter of taking children still needs to be discussed by the family, do not completely hand over the responsibility of taking children to the in-laws, after all, the in-laws are also older, and taking children is also a more difficult job, it is recommended that novice parents learn more about how to take care of children before the birth of their children, so that they can also help their in-laws share it.
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will kiss their mother, there is no child who does not kiss his mother, but the child also has feelings for grandma, take care of the child, make her happy, it doesn't take long.
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Sure pro my little nephew was brought by his grandparents.,My sister went out to work for the New Year and came home.,I don't want his grandparents at the first sight of my sister.,The kind that you don't want to coax.。。。
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Feelings have to be cultivated slowly, not in a hurry, I want to be very close to you all of a sudden, it is unlikely, but don't be discouraged, take your time, don't look at the child small, but understand everything, as long as you are good to him, I will kiss you.
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The child is taken by the grandmother before the age of three.
No matter how well the grandmother takes it, the child will still kiss the mother, Bi Jing is a mother-son connection.
I'm also a mother, and I know this very well.
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Although he grew up with his grandmother when he was a child, when he grew up, his mother brought it by himself, and she and his mother were still related by blood in the future, and no one could replace him?
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Dear, but you have to keep it with you all the time, family affection can be cultivated, after all, you are the mother of the child.
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It must be a period of adaptation, but the child is forgetful, and it is generally good to take it for a week.
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I grew up with my grandmother until I was three years old, and now I want to take my mother back with me? If your decision is valid, how can you not kiss if you are willing to take care of the child yourself? After all, the child was still young before the age of three, but after he grew up, he will slowly become a thoughtful, able to distinguish between right and wrong, after all, you are a mother, with a blood relationship, to some extent, this is the closest, how can you not be close to your mother?
So your three-year-old child now, you'd better take him with you, after all, it's not easy, it's also the child's childhood, the child's growth is absolutely important to you, you definitely have an impact, the child is all kind, you haven't taken her with you now, and when you're seven or eight years old, you want him to come back to you, and you're very close to you, the kind that trusts you, that's impossible, when he used to want his mother the most, when he was studying hard, you weren't around, and now there is still a chance, Hurry up and try to save your relationship.
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How much do you care about him, is there anything you don't kiss?
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It should be okay, it will be good after a long time.
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It may be because of the lack of communication with the child during the period when the grandmother took care of the child, and also lacked some love. So it will lead to this phenomenon happening.
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Because children have their own ideas, it is not that they will be closest to whoever they spend with for a long time.
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Grandparents are more cautious, and they care a lot about their children, for fear that their children will be bullied by other children, so they will not let their children play with other children. For example, there is a netizen on the side, his baby is three years old, he was brought up by his grandparents, and now he is very repulsive with other children, what should I do?
Parents can take their babies to take the initiative to find other children and let other children take him to play. In the process of playing, the baby will be able to feel the joy of playing with children of the same age, and will become very fond of playing with children of the same age. In fact, the baby also likes his peers very much, but in the past, he was taken care of by his grandparents, who were particularly afraid of their own babies, and those who were bullied by other children would keep telling their babies that he must not be able to play with his peers.
Under the education of grandparents, babies are particularly scared, and peers will refuse to play with them, but under the guidance of parents, babies can love the feeling of playing with their peers. Therefore, you will gradually like to play with your peers, and you will be able to become more lively and cheerful, and become a social genius.
So as long as the parents can guide them, the child will be able to enjoy playing with their peers.
When the baby is three years old, he has been able to understand a lot of truth, at this time parents can reason with the baby, so that the baby understands. Under the gentle persuasion of parents, the baby will be able to understand that people can not play alone, for example, after the child goes to school, if you are always alone, then you can not have group discussions with others, nor can you complete the tasks assigned by the teacher well, may drag the class back, and you will not get the teacher's like.
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I think that parents Yu Ximin can take their children to travel, or take their children to go shopping, or take their children downstairs to play, or take their children to visit the park, or take their children to the movies.
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The best way is to take the child out more often, and educate the child yourself, and send the child to kindergarten, which can change the situation for the child.
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The child's personality should be adjusted, so that the child can learn to deal with interpersonal communication, and cultivate the child's ability to make friends, so as to change the child's situation.
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Summary. Because grandmothers are more spoiled children, they buy what they want, so there is a sense of freshness, but we are different parents, the older generation is pet, our generation is the leader, it's okay, it's okay after a while, after all, the child hasn't seen his grandmother for a long time, so he misses it very much, after all, the child is still closer to himself, of course, he can't usually beat and scold the child, otherwise the child will be afraid of himself.
The child has always been brought by me since she was a child, and now she is three years old, and her grandmother has only been here for a few days and doesn't want me to talk to me much, and she doesn't want me to hug me, so strange.
Because grandma is more spoiled children, buy what you want, so there is a sense of freshness, but we are different parents, the older generation is pet, our generation is a leader, no nonsense, after a while, it will be fine, after all, the child has not seen grandma for a long time, so I miss it very much, after all, the child is still closer to self-hunger, of course, usually can not beat and scold the child, otherwise the child will be afraid of himself.
It's just the summer vacation, I haven't been at home for a while, and I came back for these two days.
His grandmother has always been doing it with us, but grandma used to play mahjong, and he didn't have much time with the child, and the child was with me almost every day, and he didn't know how to dry his socks, so he suddenly became very dependent on his grandmother, and felt that he didn't need me at all now.
That's because grandma spoils children more and will be satisfied with anything.
So now it's not up to you.
And this has a sense of freshness, and after a long time, I will feel that it is still good for my mother.
It's okay to wet the bed once in a while.
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