My mother in law uses my wife s dowry as an investment, what should I do?

I just had a wedding with my wife a few days ago, and the wedding should have been very lively, and I was very happy, but it was at my wedding, because of the dowry given by my mother-in-law, which made me a joke in the whole village.

My wife and I met on a blind date, and I have a saying that I want a bride price, and our family does not exclude this. But when it comes to the bride price, under normal circumstances, it is only 108,000 yuan, but my mother-in-law opened her mouth and asked for 200,000 yuan, my parents disagreed, but I saw that my wife and I were very suitable, and in the end, under everyone's persuasion, my parents agreed.

At the beginning, in order to get my parents to agree to take this bride price, my father-in-law and mother-in-law also made a promise, saying that when we got married, they would definitely give a dowry, and it would not be less than 150,000 yuan. Later, my mother-in-law said that I thought about my love for cars, so I would marry a car.

It wasn't until the wedding day that the car was bought, and it drove to our house wearing a big red flower, and when we saw it, I really felt very angry, a used car, a new car is not worth 150,000, and it is dilapidated to such an extent, 5,000 is not worth it. Knowledgeable friends laughed at me and said, "This is your mother-in-law's wedding car, which is really good!"

Hearing this, I became even more angry, and even had an urge to smash the car, but thinking about my own wedding, I suppressed my anger. The wedding was held, but when I thought about it, I felt very uncomfortable living a life.

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In fact, you don't need to be entangled, you are married to a wife and not the 100,000 yuan, she said that she gave the dowry money for her daughter, and she didn't give you a wife, right? As long as the two of you love each other, why bother with this money? What a simple thing, enlarge the pattern, make money by yourself, you are still young, it is not worth bothering!

How tired!

I feel that your mother-in-law may really think about your little couple's future life, and you can earn a part of it after investing in a financial management for 4 years, and now that you have given the bride price, you don't have to worry so much about it, and the two of you should work together to live a good life.

You definitely can't do this kind of thing, you can convince your wife to ask for it, they are mother and daughter, and it won't hurt your feelings too much.

As a son-in-law, it's not easy to talk about these things, you can only negotiate with the adults on both sides, or you can discuss it with your wife. But if the negotiation is not good, there is no way, if you love your wife, you don't mind if your mother-in-law does not give a bride price, and the two of you can still earn money in the future.

It's best for you to leave this matter alone. The mother-in-law used it to make money as an investment, not to throw money. Don't blame your wife for her ignorance.

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As the woman's mother, it can be said that she has a good way to manage her finances, but it can also be said that she broke her daughter's heart. As a son-in-law, you can be generous and should not delve into it, after all, it is to manage your own women's finances and ensure your future life, but your mother-in-law is in a hurry, and the time is a little wrong. As a man, you don't have to worry about it, after all, what you value is the woman who marries you, not the 100,000 yuan.

You should just smile, be happy to get married, take good care of your wife, and let your mother-in-law rest assured that maybe one day she will have confidence in you and will hand over all the money to your little couple.

It's hard to say if it's mixed feelings, but fortunately, it's not a huge amount. The mother-in-law must be wrong. After four years, I will negotiate to go back. Let the parents of both sides talk, and make it clear that if they don't give money, they will not care about her family's affairs in the future, and they will be used as the daughter-in-law's buyout money!

If you and your daughter-in-law are living happily, and your mother-in-law doesn't think much about what else you are asking for, I think this matter will pass, after all, you won't be too painful without these 100,000, since you are comfortable, why care about what has been given away.

However, note that if you are not feeling well, and your mother-in-law is still taking things and money from you, and your wife is not taking it seriously, the point is that if she has a younger brother or brother in the family, then I suggest you think about your marriage, this is a jackal that cannot be fed, go and ask for it now, because you don't want to be really late then.

I can only admit it. Because the other party is your mother-in-law, you can't rush to see your wife's face. You should not have such a thing as a marriage, so as not to feel uncomfortable!

If you want to be bad for money, just take it, after all, it's not someone else, if it's bad money, you can communicate, discuss, explain your ideas, and get a compromise result.

Let my grandmother take my wife for a long time to make an investment, what should I do?

That's your wife is a little stupid, it's useless to ask, and you'll be angry.

This situation is not easy to do, and it can only be solved through your wife.

Let your daughter-in-law decide what to do with it.