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It is very difficult to make a person change his mind, even if he changes his mind, it proves that you have had a relationship before, once a crack appears in a relationship, it is not easy to heal again, you can only use love to flatten it little by little, so that it becomes as small as possible. Your her, has proven to be a girl, what about girls, the heart is softer, if you really love her, you should take action, and make up for what you promised to do for her before, now make up for it, I believe that if she still loves you, she will be moved. Love is not spoken by mouth, it is made, and if you can keep persevering, she will come back to you again.
Here, I wish you all the best together.
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It was the most heart-wrenching when the two of us were separated, but I didn't have much experience.
experience, I can only objectively summarize what it feels like to be out of love?
What is a broken love, what is the heartache when you are out of love?
It is that a person has never paid for one person or one thing since he was a child.
Out of so much, and in the end what you get is not the desired result, thus to the self.
It's just that what I feel is not worth it, think about it!
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Back. It's really hard.
It doesn't matter who doesn't love anymore.
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How do you change your mind?
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This kind of thinking is too naïve, do you think that even if you redeem it, you will really be able to endure and be happy?I don't know if you have to remember a sentence at any time, if anything doesn't go its course, then it will definitely be a tragedy in the end.
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Let your ex change his mind, you can send such a paragraph to the circle of friends.
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You're going to have to fight for it.
If you don't fight him, of course he doesn't like you.
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There are two scenarios. First, if he is really empathetic, it proves that his mind is no longer on you. In this case, no matter what means you use, it will be difficult to get him back to you.
If this is the case, I think the subject can stop worrying about this relationship, sort out his mood, and start a new journey.
In the second case, he did not empathize. After the breakup, he didn't immediately find a new love. When you break up, it's the legendary personality incompatibility.
In this case, I think there is still affection between you, it's not that the love is not deep enough, it's just that when the two are together, the run-in is too painful. Since you don't want to break up yet, why don't you have a long talk with him? You tell him that you don't want to break up, ask him what you didn't do well, and say you're willing to change.
If he still doesn't believe it, then prove it to him with practical actions, and let him see that you are willing to work hard to change and pay for this relationship. The hearts of men are flesh and blood, let alone two people who love each other.
If it's really the second case, then go and redeem it. Good luck!
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As the saying goes, a good horse doesn't eat grass, whether it's for you or for him, you've broken up, and you want to get back together and save your feelings, which is not a low threshold to cross, especially after getting back together, can you go back to the original state.
First of all, think about the happiest you were when you were together before, follow the script, try to follow the previous pattern when getting along with him, and let him recall the warm times when you were together in the past. After all, you have separated, and there must have been something that caused you to not be together at the beginning, such as two people's discordant personalities, bad tempers, or can't stand their own small problems, so if you choose to get back together again, you must avoid those things that are easy to cause conflicts, or think of a good way to solve them.
Secondly, it is best to let him know about your changes, the changes you are willing to make for him, so that he will feel that there is no possibility for your relationship to develop further, whether there is a need to reunite, if you don't make any changes, and the other party is not willing to make any changes, the contradictions between you still exist, then recombination is completely unreasonable and unnecessary.
I also have another suggestion, that is, before considering whether to get back together, you must think about it yourself, whether you really can't let go of him, or just miss the days with him, if you have no feelings for him anymore, he has nothing to be nostalgic for, it is best for the two to be separated, simply, long pain is better than short pain.
Two people are together, they have a conflict and quarrel, and they may do something more irrational later, so breaking up may be an impulsive decision, but it is not easy to reverse the outcome caused by the breakup, the revolution has not yet succeeded, and comrades still need to work hard!
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First of all, I think you have to face the reality, that is, the fact that you have broken up, whether you are unwilling to let go or really still in love, don't rush to redeem it, think about what the reason for your breakup is. If it's because he's empathetic, then I think he won't change his mind at this time no matter what you do, since he can leave you for a girl who has just met him, what's the use of expecting him to come back to this kind of person, it's better to let him experience a new life, maybe one day he will regret crying and begging you, and then the choice is in your hands.
If your separation has nothing to do with others, and is purely due to other reasons, you might as well let each other calm down for a while, there must be feelings, but the problem is not well solved and can only be escaped by breaking up. As long as he is single, you still have a chance, the time cannot be too short or too long, one month is enough, and the temperature of love will not be unfamiliar. Of course, don't get your hopes up too much, treat him as a very easy and pleasant thing, the more careful you are, the more unsatisfactory it may be.
I once begged someone not to break up with me at the expense of my dignity, but his determination to break up really broke my heart, no matter how heartbreaking I cried, he could ignore it. God knows how I got through those days, and after a while he came to me, and I knew that we weren't over yet, and we reconciled. But then I found out that our breakup was actually because of the intervention of another girl, and I couldn't accept the reality at all, I felt broken, and finally broke up.
Love is a thing that can't be found, girls still have to love themselves more.
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I think if you still have feelings between you, then it's easy to redeem them, but if you don't have feelings, even if you do anything, it's useless.
So before you want to redeem it, you have to make sure that the breakup between you is not because there is no love, but other irreparable factors, such as quarrels, some people may have incompatible personalities and keep quarreling, but they still love each other in their hearts, so even if they are separated, as long as the other party is willing to correct and admit their mistakes, they can still rekindle their old feelings. So if you have separated because of your reasons, your actions, and your willfulness, then your redemption should let him see your sincerity and attitude, let him know that you really know that you are wrong, and that you are willing to change for the sake of the relationship between you. If there is a misunderstanding between you, you should also talk about it well, solve the misunderstanding between you, and you can also recall the past and sweet things between you together, so that he can also think about your good.
But if neither of you changes for the other person, or if one of you has no love for the other anymore, then redemption is definitely not necessary, and it will definitely fail again, I hope everyone can see this fact.
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In fact, after a breakup, if you break up because you are tired of being together, or you have no feelings, it is difficult to recover. Boys don't want to go back to that kind of life, if they have to break up because of some things, there is still a lot of hope for recovery, as long as you take the initiative enough, the man will also change his mind because of attachment.
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Try to find some topics, reconnect with your ex, and try to get back together with him.
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Make yourself more perfect and attractive. He will regret breaking up with you and will be attracted to you.
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Go to the person you love and tell him I can't live without you.
Go to the person you love and tell him I can't live without you.
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Use true feelings to influence her, and appropriately indulge in the desire to catch her!
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