My boyfriend is unhappy in his career, and he doesn t tell me what to do

First of all, you can't help him with his career.

I told you that you would be stressed, too.

It's not good for you.

He's going to be stressed, too.

Men always want to solve their own affairs.

Now that you know that he is having trouble in his career.

You don't have to ask him.

Just give him your care and understanding.

Have fun.

Don't think about it, he just doesn't want you to feel sorry for him, if you want to help him, then spend more time with him, talk to him about happy things, let him come out on his own It will be better, don't force him to tell you, if he wants to say it, it will naturally come out, it's only a matter of time.

Do your part, since he doesn't want to tell you, he doesn't want you.

Worried about him, but the man's career is not going well, the last comfort is in you, one.

A woman he loves, you don't want to ask him a question, but.

It is selfless and endless care, and with your solid backing, he has the confidence.

To face all his problems, only then can I have the ability and confidence to change all this, I.

Don't ask, just give him endless care and comfort!

By the way, when a man is upset, he hates it the most.

There is a woman with ink and ink by her side, take it for yourself!

1.This phenomenon is normal, my wife always says that I don't have a common language with her, but they don't go deep into the hearts of men.

2.When men are in pain, they are always alone and silently suffering, and they are supporting a home and the whole world. They don't want women to be hurt.

3.Therefore, I hope you can understand us men. We men are great and give.

I can understand your feelings, because you care about him too much, that's why you have such troubles. You might normally be a little woman, right? Spiritually dependent on Him, centered on Him?

Because your mind is not in the same position as his, he is reluctant to say it, which does not mean that he is unwilling to confide, nor does it mean that he does not love you. If this lack of communication continues, you will be miserable. So the best way is for you to mature yourself and become independent, think more about how to guide him to talk more, communicate with him better, let him have the desire to talk to you, and he will see your changes one day and communicate with you slowly.

I don't think he wants you to worry about him

This is also the kind of thing he cares about you from the other side

You should be happy.

I know he doesn't tell you that you think he doesn't care about you anymore, but he doesn't, and he probably doesn't want you to worry.

My boyfriend doesn't tell me about things at work, we have a lot of conflicts, I feel that I don't know him more and more, I don't know what he thinks, I don't know what he needs, and I don't know how I should be considerate of him, sometimes the relationship is built by communication, isn't it?

That's how men should be.

The head on the 1st floor was kicked by a donkey.

You haven't been together for a long time, he ignores you and you play by yourself for a while, you don't have to solve it immediately, he may just encounter something that is not worth mentioning but affects his mood, he doesn't want to talk, and sometimes he is in a bad mood and doesn't want to talk, it'll be fine after a while, if you keep asking questions, it will be annoying, irritating people, they are all adults, how is a person's mood does not have to be completely reported to another person, leave him some space. If it's your problem that causes him to be unhappy, you don't have to rush to coax every time, both sides calm down for a while and slowly think about who is right and who is wrong, every time indiscriminately admit their mistakes to coax him, they will only spoil him, and he will converge if he is cold a few times, if you can't cold him a few times, it should be that you are in a particularly passive position in your relationship, and you are more afraid of losing, so you still want to think about how to balance the status of both parties in this relationship, what you need together is love and respect, It's not just a matter of accommodating.

Hello dear. You haven't been together for a long time, he ignores you and you play by yourself for a while, you don't have to solve it immediately, he may just encounter something that is not worth mentioning but affects his mood, he doesn't want to talk, and sometimes he is in a bad mood and doesn't want to talk, it'll be fine after a while, if you keep asking questions, it will be annoying, irritating people, they are all adults, how is a person's mood does not have to be completely reported to another person, leave him some space. If it's your problem that causes him to be unhappy, you don't have to rush to coax every time, both sides calm down for a while and slowly think about who is right and who is wrong, every time indiscriminately admit their mistakes to coax him, they will only spoil him, and he will converge if he is cold a few times, if you can't cold him a few times, it should be that you are in a particularly passive position in your relationship, and you are more afraid of losing, so you still want to think about how to balance the status of both parties in this relationship, what you need together is love and respect, It's not just a matter of accommodating.

It may be that he doesn't want you to worry, and boys usually get bored when they encounter unhappy things, or tell their buddies, but not their girlfriends.

Give him space alone When a man is depressed, he likes to close off the outside world and spend a period of low "cave period" alone, as if he put himself in a box, and a smart woman should not open the box without authorization to enlighten him

This kind of personality of the boyfriend is very bad. If you have any opinions, you must say them, not hide them in your heart. So you should communicate more with him.

Your boyfriend knows that you are angry, and he does not come to coax you, but tells you some big truths, which shows that he does not really think about you, does not know how to coax girls, only knows and reasons, and makes you change

It's not easy to live, and I'm eager to meet warm-hearted people.

At home, it is good to have a warm-hearted lover who thinks of you in everything, speaks in a measured manner, and never makes you angry;

In the unit, there is a warm-hearted group, who don't care about everything, don't laugh or talk, and never talk to you, how good;

Outside, there is a group of warm-hearted people, there are people to help them in everything, everyone is kind, and they never blush with you, how good. If there is such an opportunity, I am afraid that he will be the happiest person in the world. I want to be such a person, I don't think anyone wants to.

However, looking back at myself, is he a person who thinks about his lover in everything at home? I always want my lover to treat myself well, but do I treat my lover well! The ancients said that respecting each other is like a guest, do you treat your lover as a guest?

Perhaps, it was okay when I got married for a while, but after a long time, my lover's face was wrinkled, not beautiful, and she was vulgar, so she got tired of it. There are frequent quarrels, and it is not pleasing to anyone who looks at them. So when you ask people to be nice to you, first you have to be nice to people.

Those who love love to return, and the love is deep when the love is true. On the contrary, complainers complain and ...... when they are upset

In the unit, you are eager to meet a group of warm-hearted groups, everyone is a group of kind, empathetic, do not care about things, the overall amount of others, smile at you every day, never quarrel with you. But have you done that? Do you give your brightest smile to your colleagues every day?

Do you think about your colleagues and leaders every day? Don't you ever take your anger out on others? If so, congratulations, you must be the most popular person and the happiest person; But the fact is that you always put your emotions on your face, one will be sunny and one will be yin, one will be bad, one will be that bad, and one will be bad, saying yes and wrong in front of colleagues, although it is not a big deal, but it makes people feel that you are always a little wrong, colleagues are alienated from you, and the leader does not trust you, can such a day be called a good day!

You must know that those who benefit others benefit themselves, and those who are blessed are blessed.

This situation has a lot to do with the way your boyfriend does things.

Many times when doing things at that time, he didn't consider your feelings, or he didn't expect you to be angry, and only after the real thing happened, he realized that you were angry, and then he remembered to apologize to you.

Your boyfriend always makes you do unhappy things, and then tells you that he didn't mean it, that he saw you angry, and then explained to you, and you communicate with him more to let him know that you don't like what he does, and then he won't do this kind of thing.

Your boyfriend doesn't seem to know you very well, and he doesn't know your preferences so well, or he doesn't take you too seriously, and only realizes after doing something that makes you unhappy, at best, it's nerves, and at worst, he doesn't put you first and doesn't take your feelings into account! If he does this every time and apologizes to you afterwards and you accept it, then he will not remember it for a long time, and you will forgive him anyway, he didn't necessarily mean it, he just didn't take it to heart.

Because loving someone is careful, if you treat him a little better, he will be overwhelmed, and he will cross that degree when he does things, don't worry, he loves you, but he has done a lot of things that make you unhappy, but this is not important, the point is that he loves you. will be so helpless to do the wrong thing.

Sometimes it's unintentional, sometimes it's deliberate, and if it's done often, it's quite frustrating, give him a chance to correct it, but it can't go on forever.

If you are too confident, you will not be sad and will not leave.

There are three reasons for this:

One is that he did it on purpose;

second, the IQ is not high;

The third is to bully you to talk.

This situation has a lot to do with the way your boyfriend does things.

Many times when doing things at that time, he didn't consider your feelings, or he didn't expect you to be angry, and after the real thing happened, he realized that you were angry, and he remembered to apologize to you. Slide core.

In fact, there is no need to be too entangled in this situation, the first thing is to adjust your mentality and make your mentality particularly good, and then tell your boyfriend what you like and what you don't like, so that your boyfriend can pay more attention in the future.

I feel like your boyfriend is always doing things that make you unhappy. This may be a problem with his personality. But after the incident, Wang also told you that he didn't mean to do it himself, he may just be unable to manage his emotions.

You also try not to think too much, or try to come slowly.

I feel like it's a communication problem between you that might hurt feelings if not addressed in time. What kind of love state is best? You are willing to listen to what others have to say, and you are willing to speak your own.

This is the best way to love. So what if your boyfriend doesn't tell herself what he's doing? I know that many people fall in love and look for someone to look after and take care of themselves.

However, before this love begins, everyone first thinks about one question: do you fall in love, find someone with whom you can enjoy love and become better? If you think deeply, if you think in your heart, your boyfriend should coax you, and you have been together for a long time, I just want to say, this boy is so good!

I don't think about how much you have been wronged in this relationship.

Every time my boyfriend has any trouble at work, he doesn't choose to tell me he chooses to tell family, friends, but he won't tell me. Later, I knew what to ask him. He told me that there was nothing I could do to help him solve the problem.

He just needs the strategy to solve things.

After a long time, my heart was very unbalanced. Why is there something wrong with my life? My job is difficult.

The first person I wanted to talk to. Even though he often didn't give any good advice, he said, come out and say to someone you trust, I'm going to be a lot better. Now that I'm out of balance, I choose not to say it.

I'd rather not feel sorry for myself. I don't want to dig out my lungs at a person,But the other person didn't trust me at all. Maybe he doesn't need me at all.

It makes me think that my boyfriend doesn't understand me. He never talked to me about anything. He told me I didn't understand.

I don't know anything about it. He is very masculine and better. The cause is also very strong.

He loves me, but his love is not the kind of love I want. Sometimes I want to tell him, but I always find it hard to say why other people can reveal souls, but we have a relationship with it. There is always silence between us.

I feel like I'm lonely. That's when it's time to communicate.

Maybe the guy will be a little stronger, and he doesn't want you to worry about him.

Because he can't understand why you are unhappy and troublesome because of some small things.

I don't want to talk about something unhappy, and I don't want the other party to worry or worry about it.

I don't want to talk about unhappy things, even if I am very close to someone, it may be in order not to worry you.

Everyone has unhappy times, I believe he will deal with it, and when you are with him, you can try not to let him think about work, relax and entertain together, let the beauty of life infect him and make him happy.

Most men are very strong, if he lets you know his troubles, it is not necessarily that you want you to help him solve his troubles, it is very likely that he is just coquettish with you and makes you hurt him, so you can do your best to please him.