Extremely depressed heart, can I take the initiative to contact him??????

I suggest you stop looking for him and give up on him. He doesn't love you at all, meeting you maybe it's his own way of coping with his family's problems, it's not his own thoughts, you just find him, he will avoid you, you have to be strong, he wants his life. You can also look for your own life.

Maybe you can find ugly ducklings like you. Thank you.

You can leave him a message on QQ and ask him if he wants to talk to you, and if he says he wants to, that's exactly what you want! If you don't want to, then ask him why he doesn't want to talk about it, so that you don't think about it all day long and don't scratch your head! A little more direct, it hurts for a while; Rounding around, it will hurt for a long time!

You can contact him, but don't be too positive, pay attention to his attitude towards you, and give up if it's really bad.

It's up to you to treat him. You are unnatural in front of him, why this should be clear. If you don't like it, break it, otherwise you will be greatly disappointed in front of him, show him your advantages, and maybe he will take the initiative to contact you.

Sometimes Shuai can't be eaten, you can contact him and ask him what the situation is, so that you will die.

You can take the initiative to talk to him. If he wants to continue dating, then you can contact more in the future. If not, then forget it.

He may have a dead phone at night or other accidents, or maybe because of your coldness on a date, he mistakenly thinks that you don't like him, so be brave and take the initiative to chat with him (text message is recommended). You should be confident, there are no ugly girls in the face of love.

You should first understand his personality traits, and it is possible that he is just as embarrassed to contact you as you are. Since he doesn't take the initiative, you should take the initiative. This kind of thing is related to happiness, don't care too much about who comes first.

At the age of 15, an age when you doubt everything and believe everything, you are depressed because no one can understand you, no one can listen to you, no one understands you, supports you, you are curious, you are enthusiastic, you are obedient, but you are not deeply involved in the world, and you still have to hone. If you are distressed, please leave me a message, I am only a few years older than you, and I have also experienced everything you said in this dim season. Optimistic to live.

You have to think about what makes you fail the course, what reason you think you have become bad, what your mother said in person or what you think, and secondly, don't have too much psychological depression, depression is just a temporary suppression of your inner emotions, once the outbreak is not greater, try to listen to more soothing songs, go outside with friends, chat with friends, tell each other can release pressure, maintain a good attitude is the most important.

I'll teach you a trick that promises to work. That's how I came here. When I was most depressed, I was more depressed than you.

Later, when I read the Bible, I realized that if I call on the name of the Lord, I will be saved.

I cried out with a loud voice, "Oh, Lord Jesus!" Oh, Lord Jesus! Oh, Lord Jesus!

I shouted for about five minutes, and then it went down in smoke.

The whole person is no longer angry, his waist is no longer painful, and his legs are no longer sore. I'm in a good mood.

I used to do that a lot.

Every time I cried out, the Lord Jesus came and made me happy.

I'm not kidding. It's true.

I understand your inhibitions. But you can try.

You may think too much, parents are so likely to think that their children are bad people, I think you are mainly not communicating well with your parents, and why you are not good at studying in college is also a problem, is because of the pressure of your parents or you really did not study hard, if the pressure of your parents you communicate well with your parents, if your own problems will be solved, as long as your studies are good, your parents will not say that you will be successful, parents are more hopeful, don't top with your parents, try to relax, Think more about the good aspects, you are already an adult, talk to teachers and classmates, don't keep it in your heart.

It is recommended that you go to your university to find a psychological counselor to do a systematic communication session, which will help alleviate some of your current negative states, and you should now believe that you are capable of dealing with these problems, but be brave.

Releasing the feeling of inhibition can be the first to communicate effectively with people you trust; Second, self-relaxation** (detailed steps can be found above) but the most important thing is to find the root of the problem, and then bravely solve them, which will not only help you solve the problem now, but also affect your attitude towards life in the future.

According to what you said, my suggestion is that you put aside the problems of the family, always think that their problems are useless, you can't solve them and delay yourself, since they don't care about you, you should work harder, so that they all regret not treating you well, but also worthy of themselves, and strive to accumulate wealth, I believe you are a smart person, I wish you success.

Think about your problems, and those who are physically handicapped and have poor families, you have to think about it, in the future, you will live by yourself, face life by yourself, your parents can guide you, and decide your own destiny, so adjust your own direction, it is best to communicate with your parents more, say what is in your heart, and communicate in a way they understand, from their point of view, it will be easier. Hehe.

That's your parents want their son to be Jackie Chan, no matter what, you can't blame your parents, you just have to work hard, I went to college and that's the same, it's been 6 years since I graduated, it's all the same, it's okay, but failing the course is more serious, you still find your own reasons and bring up your grades!!

Have the opportunity to travel with your parents and strengthen your bond with them. Don't think about it so much, find someone to fall in love with, distract yourself.

There is a suggestion downstairs, I think it's good, go to some social work and other activities, increase some positive energy, your crux of the problem is not the problem of learning ability, but emotions, the reason is small and complicated, come on.

Get drunk, wait until you wake up and leave, do things on your own, prove your strength, college is so simple, how can you still fail the course, I can't figure it out.

Calm down, and then don't get angry ...

And parents can explain if they can, and if they don't explain, they don't care.

Go at your own pace, see the results, and this hurdle will pass

Find something you're interested in doing and divert your attention.

It's too normal, two subjects in each period are still successful in the graduate school entrance examination, college courses are just a fart, you can't learn anything, it's just a diploma.

Don't think so much, relax and find out why this is happening.

Be self-reliant and let them understand that you can take care of yourself.

Excuse me? How much have you learned in college? What ?.. learnedUnder is beaten soy sauce.

You are so depressed in your heart, do you think about what you can do to alleviate it?

What are you thinking? That's it for an exam? Believe in my brother, don't be discouraged!

Your life is not all for the exam, even if you fail the exam once, it doesn't mean that you are a failure, after all, the previous first place is not covered! However, the decline is so big, it means that you must have something wrong in some way, and find your own problems in order to get back to the first place, right? At this time, what you should do is to reflect on yourself, see what is wrong with you, and then talk to teachers and parents, listen to their ideas, exchange ideas with them, and find your own shortcomings, after all, the exam is not used to hit you, but to give you a warning, just a warning, to remind you.

When my brother was in junior high school, he was in the top 40 in the grade, but when he took the high school entrance examination, he became more than 200 years old and almost 300 after the opening. My brother was also quite disappointed, but in the third year of high school, I fought hard to catch up, and in the end I relied on most of the other so-called people who ranked much higher than me in the exam.

Do you know why I'm so uplifted? Because I was unwilling, I was unwilling to change from a good student to a student with bad grades, because I later found out that the exam was just such a stinky durian, although it smelled very bad and difficult to swallow, but it would be very sweet after eating. If you cross this hurdle, you will grow faster.

Finally, I would like to tell you a very vulgar saying, no one is smooth sailing. Brother is now abroad, and he understands this more deeply, many things and even daily life are like that, I will constantly encounter setbacks and fall, but after I get up, I will become stronger, and I will become more manly.

Failing an exam once, nothing, treat it as a small setback for you, step over and you'll become strong.

How to cross the past is to face it with the right mindset! Throw away all those damn sense of failure, work hard with shame, and get back to the first place, others will respect you more and envy your talent more!

Children's shoes, just treat them with a normal heart, don't like things, don't be sad, don't be arrogant, don't be arrogant, don't be arrogant, shame and courage.

If there is a will, there will be a way, the cauldron will be sunk, and the one hundred and two Qin passes will eventually belong to Chu; Hard-working people, the sky does not bear, lying on the salary to taste the gall, three thousand Yuejia can swallow Wu.

There will always be ups and downs in life, are you worried about it too soon?

Besides, the study of life is not only in school, when you work, you will find that even if you read well in school and have high test scores, it does not mean anything.

Put your energy back where it belongs.

Psychological depression, first of all, don't think about the things that make you depressed, the second is to vent, as for how to vent, it depends on your hobbies, if you like to listen**, listen to **, if you like to watch movies, if you like sports...Most of them are looking for someone to talk to or yell. Mine is very simple, that is, eat a big meal, and then go on the net for another day.

I'll find a friend to talk to, or someone to talk to.

This question is very profound, when I am depressed and sad, I go back to the Internet café, and when I go there to play, I forget all about it, but when I get home, when I am bored, I remember it again, and when I am fine, people have thoughts, and they can only slowly get out of their depression by themselves.

Play the game, preferably racing.

Do sports! Find something to vent on! (worthless).

Everyone goes through a period of repression·· This time was very painful... You make yourself too comfortable, talk to your friends and girlfriends about your thoughts, don't hold it alone or try to go to a quiet place to close your eyes and recuperate...

Cry if you want to, don't suppress yourself too much, but wipe away your tears after crying, there are many hurdles to pass in life, don't let difficulties knock you down, learn to overcome difficulties.

Well, I can understand your feelings, because I have been suppressing myself like this, I can feel and feel how uncomfortable this kind of depression is, but there is no way we can only make ourselves stronger and more independent. Because we're used to this way, giving you a few options, opening your heart to your troubles and suffering. Or don't think about anything, just go with the flow.

If you look at life as a play, you will find that life is not so suffocating, since it is a play, why do you have to follow the script? It's like if you change the teacher's teaching method, or maybe it's different, but what he hands in must be in the books. Since it's the same book, it's just that it's taken a different path, but the end is still at the same point.

So what does it matter? Why do you want to be depressed and why you want to cry alone, [Life plus a little presumptuous and a little creativity, so that I can be free, be my most chic, love and hate a hundred thousand times, take the world apart, I have my land and my sea. My world is my way hahahaha.

The biggest enemy in life is yourself, and the biggest difficulty is to overcome yourself. If you overcome yourself, you can solve any difficulty.

The bitter wine of one's own bread is to be drunk only by oneself. Bury the pain in your heart. Release from another angle.

Thinking about him. It's hate. But the days are still going on day by day.

Don't always dwell on this pain. Live life well. Maybe someday you'll meet.

Wait for the passage of time. He may be to you. It's just someone you're familiar with and yet stranger.

It's mostly up to you how you look at it.

Gritted his teeth ruthlessly.

A stomping of the foot blackened.

Time is not the antidote. It's poison. Just because he's silent doesn't mean he doesn't know.

Why should two clear people be like this?

Some people have memories that can be hidden, that they can no longer be brought up, but that they can never be forgotten.

Delete him. Time will take away your melancholy. Complete.

It will be more comfortable to speak your heart.

The most important thing is to return to cheerfulness. The first thing you do when you wake up is to smile and give to others as well as to yourself. With a bitter face all day long, when others see it, they still think that you are humble for money?

So laugh and tell yourself that a girl's laugh is the most beautiful interpretation. Believe in yourself and develop a positive mindset when you have a smile. Take a look at motivational books.

Not to mention the career, I haven't succeeded myself, hehe, I can't talk about it. Say it! In fact, fat is nothing, fat also has fat beauty, plump beauty!

Remember not to pay too much attention to the eyes of others, it will make people feel inferior. Hehe, give a little plan, set a goal, follow it every day, and let your boyfriend and family supervise it. When you don't execute it, punish yourself (give your boyfriend a sweetness or something), and reward yourself if you do.