I m about to graduate, and I m under a lot of pressure to face the outside world

Updated on educate 2024-07-24
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    It's normal to be stressed, but it's not normal to be stressed! I think you have stress mainly because you don't have enough confidence in yourself, and this confidence comes from your own knowledge and the time you have been exposed to society. If you think you are very good, then you should have confidence, of course, there is no end to learning, you have to keep working hard, opportunities are reserved for those who are prepared, as long as you are ready, opportunities will continue to appear in front of you.

    On the contrary, you feel that you are not enough to do this and that, if this is the case, it is not necessarily a bad thing, still young, work hard, use your diligence and wisdom to constantly open the door to opportunities, remember, rely on yourself! Another point, it is also possible that your personality is a bit introverted, if so, then you have to remember this, that is, don't think too highly of some people, don't think too much before contacting people, think about saying this and that in advance, but forget how to say it after you get on the field, you remember, people are not perfect, maybe the person who interviewed you is not as good as you. First of all, you have to have a normal heart to face it, so that there will be no inexplicable pressure.

    FYI.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Society is what we have to face after all, look at your name and think you are a girl, hehe, whenever we are about to face a relatively unfamiliar environment, there will be fear or resistance, which is also very normal, many things are natural, when you are afraid of the process, you are already on the road, adjust your mentality and accept it bravely, although there is helplessness in the outside time, but, it is also very exciting.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You have to try everything, how do you know if you can't do it if you haven't tried it? We all came from that time, and the psychology is always a little stressful, it doesn't matter, remember that people can only see the rainbow after experiencing wind and rain! Work hard!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Be pressure-driven and try to recharge your batteries.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Mainly during the internship period, the school negotiates with the employer to give the student the space to transition from campus life to social life when he or she arrives at his or her job.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Believe in yourself, I am also a college student who is about to graduate, and we are all under a lot of pressure, but this society is for us young people after all, submit resumes online! Be persistent, persistent, and of course don't be deceived! Look at what you're interested in, and there are almost zero professional counterparts!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The road is walked by people, how do you know what the "road of life" is if you don't take it, the soldiers are coming, the water is flooding, what are the brothers afraid of?

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Let's go to love first. I support the point of view on the 2nd floor.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I also graduated this year, and now I am doing an internship, and sometimes I am afraid that I will not have a job, but that day my mother told me that I should not be afraid of not having a job, because there will definitely be, but I am afraid that you will not do it.

    Undergraduates are not in a good situation, and it is also related to the psychology of undergraduates, so don't worry, don't feel hopeless when you go to some more general units, but do a good job, accumulate some experience, and then wait for the feathers to be hard and then find a better unit.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Haha, you're so funny, everything will be decided in 100 years, what are you worried about, just work harder,

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Don't be nervous, it's all like that.

    I was scared of life in high school when I was in junior high school.

    When I was in high school, I dreamed of college life.

    When I got to university, I was under pressure to find a job.

    In fact, the boat is naturally straight to the bridge, and there must be a road before the car reaches the mountain.

    As long as you keep going without regrets.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    First of all, you must have a positive and optimistic attitude and do not give up. There will be many difficulties when you just graduate and enter the society, such as a difficult living environment, being rejected when looking for a job, being looked down upon, being excluded, and so on. Be prepared to accept it all with a positive and optimistic attitude.

    Then analyze the current employment situation, which industries have good market prospects, have a lot of room for development in the future, and analyze their personality characteristics and hobbies, and ask themselves what they want to do and what they are suitable for. Find something that you don't get too tired and stressful to do, so that you can achieve a sense of accomplishment in your work, and set a short-term goal to work hard to achieve it. Because we have not experienced it, it is impossible to predict everything in the future.

    But every step in the future is to take it out on your own, no matter what happens in the future, you must always maintain an optimistic, positive, and non-giving up attitude. I wish you a good job and a happy life!

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Take more exams and go when you have the chance.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It depends on what major to study, in fact, it is not very demanding, but it is quite easy to find?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Where does the pressure come from, the job is not done? If yes, it's normal to be stressed, but don't worry too much Take your time, you will find a job, but you must understand that after you get a job, you will definitely fall short of your ideals This is normal Who made you a fresh graduate Everyone is like this It's important to adjust your mentality... If your stress or emotions have nothing to do with work, is it because of the reluctance to leave the campus Indeed, after just one month, life will teach you what is cruel Reality Campus life is always beautiful and nostalgic But children always have to grow Whether you want to or not, you are about to start a new journey Come on !!

    In the last month, cherish every classmate and teacher I met and spend this time happily. . . It's been almost a year since I graduated, but I always feel like I'm still writing ** yesterday, but I can't go back...

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's best for the whole class to go to Gulangyu Island in Xiamen to have a round. Get together with your classmates one last time, hang out together, and make memories. By the way, take a break!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    What is your name? After self-indulgence, can you turn things around if you are self-indulgent? Finally, I added that I hate to die online games.,Hehe,Are you manipulating it or is it manipulating you? It's clear that you're not repentant, so ask yourself, right?

    To get back to the point, I can tell you for sure that there are many people who have a good job after graduating from college like you. But I would like to add that people's qualifications and abilities are different, and not everyone has such opportunities.

    You ask who can help you, and I want to ask, who can put the knowledge you lack into your head? Or someone recommended you a good job, does it feel good to have a vegetarian meal? But, anyway, you have a sense of learning, and you realize it a year before you graduate.

    This is more similar to my experience. I asked you that you just let you know that now you can only rely on yourself. Even if the fun is over, you will still gain a lot of things by studying hard in the remaining year.

    Because after all, the freshman year is all basic courses, and the sophomore year, there are more professional courses, but they are all theories, and you don't have to hang the subject. In your junior year, you may have an internship, which is the year that will have the greatest impact on your professional knowledge and entering the society. Why add a professional knowledge, because if you can find a good job, professional knowledge alone is not enough.

    You have to have a down-to-earth nature, a sense of honesty and reliability, a sense of responsibility, and a sense of trade-offs.

    All in all, now that I know that the fire burns my eyebrows, I will step down and try to make up for it. It's not too late to make amends. Complaining is a waste of time and energy, and it's useless, isn't it?

    I have already said before, I have similarities with you, but when I know that I am in a "dangerous situation", I will adjust myself very calmly and calmly, it is my fault that I wasted a lot of time before, and the only thing that can make up for it is to study hard, at least now I feel that God still favors me. God also loves the lost lamb. Hehe.

    Good luck.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    From now on, listen carefully in class, and pay attention to everything you do, and it's the same with online games

    What do you hate, I also play online games, but I just played during the summer vacation, and today we have a typhoon here, we suspend classes, and I don't even open online games, because my mother is at home.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Then you can try to open a **, sell game currency or something, my classmate is doing this after graduation now, so it's very fulfilling.

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