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How can there be such a father in the world? I thought it was going to happen in a drama.
Anger is not this kind of anger method, you are right to sue.
I think it's better to have this kind of father than not to... You can support your mom in divorcing your father... I want to stay in such a family, and your mother is not happy... Then why don't you get out of the sea of suffering as soon as possible...
If you are not your own biological child, you have to treat it well, let alone your own biological child.
For the sake of your own future, it may not be a good thing to leave early,。。 Maybe you'll get out of this life first. When I have money, I will pick up my mother again
I hope you get out of the sea of suffering soon ... Hard-working child!!
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I was depressed after reading your post, I used to see on TV that my father abused children, but I didn't expect to run into it today. Hehe.
I think it's your father's way of venting is wrong, and he hits you because he's angry.
Can't your mother stop it?
My dad was always angry, but he never hit anyone. Just rate things.
I doubt you were born to your dad!
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I sympathize with you, I can imagine your feelings. Because I haven't been beaten since I was a child, I know how painful it is to be beaten, especially for your loved ones.
Maybe I'm too happy to understand your feelings more deeply, but I can say that your father is too much, and at the same time, I am also worried for you, worried that you will rebel against him, change your kind nature, and take revenge on him.
But you're good and know to protect yourself through the law. I hope your dad will wake up soon.
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He's abusing you, do you still have feelings for him?
If you have no feelings, collect evidence and sue him
There really are such bt people in the world
You're a man, right? 17-year-old should be very strong In addition to protecting himself with the law, you also have to know how to protect yourself on the spot He beats you, you don't know if you want to beat
You don't have as much strength as him? Although it is not a big deal to say that the Son is against the Father, but your family is in a special situation, but it is best to mediate if you are a family
He's okay to hit you, are you mentally sure it's okay? `
Or are you performing too badly because he hates iron and steel?
It's all up to you to think about for yourself
The road to the future has to go by yourself When you grow up, you don't want to be bullied, you have to know how to think, you have to learn to be self-reliant (of course, you don't want to go out and make money)...
Did he hit your mother? ~
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Don't wait until you're 18 years old, because he won't be obligated to support you after 18.
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Dad's attitude is generally very good, because after all, he is out every day, busy, and when he comes home, he can only get along with the children of the socks Zen people for a short time.
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I think this depends on the difference in personal family situation, as far as my family is concerned, my father works outside all the year round, rarely comes home, from childhood to adulthood, my growth, learning, the whole process is a lack of my father's participation, so my father's attitude is really not very important to me, if I can win my father's support is the best, if I can't, then I regret it, he doesn't support me I will do it, I care more about raising me hard since I was a child, regret that he has let the cover do anything is willing to give me advice and advice, always respect my opinion, Thoughts of mom.
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I think the attitude of the father in the family is very important, but a person's attitude is determined by his character, a strong personality is the king at home, and a cowardly character is the little king. My dad is Xiao Wang, and he can't control my mom, but until now, I, my brother and my dad are dependent on each other.
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Is it important to have a father's attitude of envy?
A: If it's a bigger thing, of course, my father's attitude is very heavy.
What you do is more important, and it must be discussed in all aspects, especially the opinions of the elders, which should be carefully considered.
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The noisy attitude of the family is very important It will lead to the happiness and harmony of the family The father is very kind and pleasant at home Then the family will be troubled and the father is too strict Then the family will think of depression.
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The father's attitude is more important than the mother's attitude, and the father is more sensible.
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I think the attitude of everyone in the family is important, whether it is your father's attitude or your mother's attitude, it is very important to carry the god spine Kai, generally speaking, no, the head of the family may be more important than his attitude to call.
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The attitude of the parents at home is very important, because they will subtly affect the child's life, and his words and deeds are seen by the child, don't take it to heart.
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<>1.In life, when we evaluate a person, we often put up our limbs to experience a dominant state of mind, whether it is good or bad. Psychologically speaking, the problem may be explained in favor of the denial of patriarchy in adolescence, and the fact that this rebellion has not yet ended.
2.On the other hand, hating a person, in the relationship between people, from a certain point of view, may also imply one's own heart, and will unconsciously look for a sense of self-existence, much like looking in the mirror in our daily life, looking for ourselves through the words and deeds of others. Of course, this kind of self that is reflected by relationships is not the real self, and the self that we can perceive is not actually the real self, but the product of thinking and processing by the brain, so when we describe others, we are actually describing our own inner world.
3.In the process of each of us growing up, our hearts will reject some natural and instinctive things and suppress them. In daily work, life, and getting along with others, only the aspect that is accepted and recognized by the society is shown, that is, the side that matches the social and cultural values, and the repressed things constitute the shadow of people, which is why some people, although they can't say why they like or dislike a thing, but their attitude is very firm.
4.It may be the pain brought by the original family, and it is difficult to ** your own heart. It may also be due to various reasons such as generation gap and lack of understanding between the child and the father.
Look specifically at where your conflict with your father is, and recognize this point of conflict. It may be that this point of conflict makes you feel the presence of your own shadow, so that a feeling of dissatisfaction arises, and the disgust may be related to yourself, at least to your own values. We often say that only when we have it in our hearts can we see, hear, and feel, and the same is true.
5.With the help of professionals and discovering and understanding their emotions, Hotaka can not only understand himself better, but also better understand the people around him for the rest of his life, and can turn to professionals for help if necessary.
Finally, I would like to say that in Let's Wrestle! The conflict between the father and the daughter in the movie "Daddy" is deep, but it is also reconciled in the end. The daughter believes that her father is for her good, and the father also realizes that his stubbornness is not equal.
The film is an awakening to feminist consciousness among an ancient people who are trying to eliminate prejudice. The father-daughter conflict several times is in full swing and thought-provoking.
After reading it, I hope it will be helpful to you.
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In order to educate children not to waste food, the act of eating leftovers from the trash can in front of them is very commendable. And I also read this news, the father of the child in question did not say that he ate the food that had been contaminated in the trash can, but the food that was thrown into the trash can in form, but the sanitary conditions were still protected. So the child was shocked by his father's behavior and accepted his father's ideas of frugality and not wasting food.
This is a very, very good thing for educating children. Nowadays, many children have not endured hardships and do not know how to be diligent and thrifty and save food, although they have memorized ancient poems. Who knows that the food on the plate is hard?
Such verses, but they memorize them and can't empathize with them at all. We always say that education is important. There are many forms of education, and some of them are only one-sided words, which do not make people feel the deep meaning at all.
Whereas. The father's approach in the news is very supportive of her practice in the form of her own actions, the slogan of not wasting food. I believe that the father's words and deeds will definitely be in this child's heart.
Carve a deep mark to influence the child's future life.
So I don't think it's necessary to discuss whether this father's behavior is appropriate, but how to promote this kind of hands-on education. Only by vigorously promoting, such an education method, so that children are deeply educated. Only then will our society and our nation become stronger.
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To be a man, we must know how to treat our parents well, we must know how to be grateful to our parents for giving us life, to be grateful to them for accompanying us all the way to grow up, the attitude towards our parents is your most real character, life in the world, to talk to your parents well, because we can no longer find a second person who loves us so much, we pay silently for us regardless of returns, we must not let them down.
Parents are here, there is still a place to come in life, parents go, life is only the way back, so, while the parents are still there, don't be too selfish to splash all our bad emotions on them, maybe you have suffered a lot of grievances outside, you dare not go wild to outsiders, just go home to your parents to make a mistake, such a person, in fact, is a paper tiger, will only be fierce to their own family, and dare not say a word outside.
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The blood is constantly cut, just be yourself, because you have nothing to rely on, you can only rely on yourself, a person must be strong and competitive.
My dad is about the same as your dad, when he divorced my mom, he said that he had no money, my mom was sick, and he refused to spend money on my mom's medical treatment, and said, "Anyway, if it can't be cured, it's a waste of money." ”
When they divorced, my mother left the house, and after the divorce, my father bought two cars worth more than 100,000 yuan.
I used to vomit with them, scream, argue, and even hand in blank papers in the college entrance examination to test my only value in this family, and in the end it was still me who was hurt.
I have nothing, I'm cowardly and incompetent, I'm introverted, when I leave home, I'm penniless, my dad told me to find my mom, my mom was out of the house and had no money.
From that time on, I gritted my teeth and looked for a job on my own, and I couldn't speak Mandarin and went to school. In the winter when there were no thick clothes and heavy snow, I walked back and forth for four hours every day to go home, and when others ate at noon, I would go around and pretend that I had eaten, and I would survive until I was paid.
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