Having lost faith in life, I was fed up with my father s insults and blows

Hello, your idea is very simple, in fact, your father is not really hitting you, or maybe he hates iron but not steel? In fact, he is inspiring you to be brave enough to realize your ideals. Looking forward to Jackie Chan, which parent doesn't want their children to make achievements in their careers?

The more your dad "insults" you, the more you have to do something to show him that you are not really "incompetent". 360 lines, the line out of the champion, as long as you believe in the things you believe to do, work hard to achieve your ideals and ambitions! No matter what you do, as long as you can make money, of course, except for those who are illegal.

You can also put yourself in your dad's shoes and think about it. It's simple, try to do it! Break a leg!

Don't think like that, you don't always think that your dad hates you and hates you, he just hates iron and steel, this is what every parent will have, what you have to do next is not to seek death, but to live harder, create a career and let your father see that his child is not so, right! Be optimistic, the most experienced in life is setbacks, come on to adjust your emotions, don't care about your father, it's very annoying for the current mood, but don't have the idea of looking for death.

There is no parent who does not love his child, your father beats you to motivate you and be insulted, what you need is to make yourself stronger, become someone who can insult you, and become the pride of your parents. You can't just think about others insulting you, but also why you give others the opportunity to insult. I hope you can find a reasonable way to vent, if you are strong enough, live well and live proudly, if you cowardly choose death, you can only leave your parents sad, and you will be laughed at.

Dare to die is not that you are brave enough, dare to live is the right courage. Think about it, life is precious, don't do stupid things.

Why can I insult you? Do you still have shortcomings? Of course, everyone has their flaws, and you can just try to change them.

Don't be afraid of death, afraid that others will say a few words about you. Death is the escape of a coward. When you die, there is nothing, or you can prove and change.

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Just leave this environment, you are not afraid of death, what are you afraid of.

Children, the loss of a father is indeed sad, as a child, no one is perfect, they will more or less continue to blame themselves after the death of their loved ones, regretting the ...... that they did wrong

However, people cannot be resurrected after death, and what a living person can do is to mourn on the one hand, and on the other hand, he should cheer up and fulfill the last wishes of his deceased relatives, such as what your father expected of you, etc., and be a person he wants.

Another thing you can do is to get along with everyone, try to cherish the days together, and the gratitude you want to express in your heart must be expressed in actions or words, don't wait until someone dies to regret it.

Child, get through this sad time, be the person your father wants you to be, and let your father's spirit in heaven be comforted.

First of all, please mourn and be obedient, no matter what, parents love their children very much, even if they do not eat well, they must let their children be fed. As the only offspring in the family, you must also think about the family, and you can't cut off the incense in your generation, otherwise your father's spirit in heaven will not rest in peace. Your father must hope that you can live optimistically and strongly, come on!!

Whether you are a boy or a girl first, you don't have to be sad about your father's death, you can say such words can show that you are a very filial child, since you realize the kind of ignorance before, then in the future we have to work hard to make up for the mistakes we have made before, and there is one point, everyone will leave the world when they are old, now we have to work hard for the father in Tianzhilin, look at your life, you have to be good, he will also feel gratified, I believe you will do better, and then again, On Dad's festival, I will chat with him, talk about my inner feelings, and I believe that he will hear and feel relieved, and he will forgive you. In the future, whether it is school or work, don't bring this guilt to work or study, people should be happy and happy, I believe you can do it!!

Being able to recognize your own mistakes in this way (arguing with your father knowing that he has a bad heart) already shows that you have grown up and are sensible. We all made similar mistakes when we were young. However, I think you have done your best to take care of and love your father.

People are born, old, sick and die, some early, some late. So don't blame yourself too much. As long as you've done your best!

Don't do stupid things that make the living sad (you have other relatives) and the deceased uneasy (the deceased father would never want you to do that), whether it is for the living (including yourself) or for the deceased father, you should live well, live happily, this is the greatest comfort to the deceased!

Are you right? I sincerely wish you an early start to live with a new look! (Personal opinion, please forgive me if it is inappropriate).

Child, no one's life is smooth sailing, parting is painful, happening all the time, I know you are desperate and regretful and lonely, but you must believe that these are temporary, God will only arrange for us to live a hurdle.

At this point you lack a sense of security, you have no to rely on. In my subjective consciousness you have very few friends. In a pessimistic state.

Sometimes the divorce or death of a parent will bring two states to the child, one is self-abandonment and self-indulgence. Another is to turn grief and anger into strength. Do you think you're worthy of them when you're gone?

There are detours in life, and the greater the blow to you, the greater the test, the more important it is for your mental growth. Life is not to be trampled on, you have changed your parents to create value with their own lives, I think your father will be happy for you.

I can understand the loneliness and helplessness in your heart, I have never been recognized and affirmed by my parents since I was a child, I have no self-confidence, my mother is always blaming you, and now I still feel that interpersonal communication is very difficult when I grow up, I feel that I am dispensable, I feel that I have been forgotten by the world, and I want to give up on myself. You have a force in your heart that has always supported you, you will be distressed because of these things, this is the motivation for you to change, you are very eager for others to pay attention to you, eager to be helped by others, eager for others to have certain expectations of you, so that you will feel that your existence is valuable. That feeling of being helpless, the feeling of being on the verge of collapse, is really uncomfortable.

There is a saying that when a person has nothing to lose, it is time to gain. The lack of childhood is indeed painful, and now that you have grown up and experienced the impact of not praising you when you were a child, you have formed your current character, but you can change, and look at these difficulties and setbacks positively and optimistically, and it takes a lot of effort to make your fragile heart strong. For example, work hard to learn to socialize with others, and consciously chat with classmates and teachers, so that you can invisibly exercise your ability to make friends; For example, you should always discover your own strengths, start from small things, and affirm your every progress; In addition, other people and environments other than ourselves are beyond our control, so we need to find the shining points from ourselves, affirm ourselves, look forward to ourselves, praise ourselves, and believe that slowly you can build self-confidence and be able to have a very good interpersonal relationship.

Hello friends! I suggest you go to a good martial arts school and learn martial arts well. Then no one will dare to bully you!

I believe that the reason why people have mental illness is the result of being suppressed by the environment for a long time. As long as the environment can't suppress you, you will naturally become stronger! I wish you success!

If you think that only death can solve all this, and you will not regret it, then go for it, go for it.

When you think about it like this, have you ever thought about those children in the mountains, those who have no money, their parents are not around, their lives are hard, and those who live at the bottom of society? There are many reasons for them to want to die, but they don't! There are many people who are worse than you, cheer up!

I lose confidence in life so quickly, and I will encounter many bumps in the road of life, and I must become more and more courageous.

At least you are in good health, think about Hawking, think about Armstrong, you can change yourself through studying, you can not go home, live in school, go out to do odd jobs, study hard, think about the sudden day you receive an admission letter from Tsinghua University, what will happen to you, what will happen to the people around you! Time will tell!

You can be aware of your negative emotions It's good that you're right Don't let emotions affect your life You also know that there are many people who are worse than you Some people are born without parents and take care of themselves Some parents are seriously ill and have to bear the burden of the family from an early age ......Like you, your parents don't need you to take care of themselves, they can take care of you, you can actually be very happy, when facing them, you can think of it like this: they gave you life, raised you, made you learn a lot of things, they don't need you to sacrifice all day to take care of them, to earn money to support them, you can also have your own time, do what you want to do, you are actually much happier than most children.

This situation is temporary, you will go out to live sooner or later, if you want, you can rent a house by yourself, you will know that life is hard, and you will be able to understand your parents.

Either way, that's the parents who gave you life, and sooner or later they will leave you, let go of the resentment in your heart, and try to be as peaceful as possible with them, so that for many years after they leave this world, you won't regret it, and it will be very comforting, very comfortable.

When they didn't say it, still go your own way! But there are some things that parents are right! It's not that heartless, but when you think about it, they're still thinking about you! It would be nice to communicate more!

Our parents are strict with us, they want us to be good, do you want him to ignore you for nothing? You are still a little rebellious, and you will understand when you are older.

Change the experience of eating and lodging.

The moon is cloudy and sunny, and people have joys and sorrows.

[3 reasons why we are confused] 1Reading less, books are a straight line to wisdom, allowing you to see yourself, others, and the future. 2.

There are few contacts, and the more you stay in your own small circle, the more lonely you are, and over time, you will not have the confidence to associate with excellent people. 3.Don't travel, go out to know what is great and small.

So, while you're young, read more, socialize more, and travel more.

Maybe this is what God has taught you, so that you can be a stronger pillar in the future!

It is important to be born again in the face of adversity and not to feel sorry for yourself.

To learn to be strong, no one can accompany you to the end, people still have to rely on themselves.

How old are you, can't you take care of yourself, it's better to rely on others than on yourself.

Start by doing something you're sure you can accomplish and slowly regain your confidence.

Find something that will support your heart.

Throw away all the unhappiness and think about how to have a good life.

Is it a failure of the relationship, or an unsatisfactory career.

This is self-comforting, avoiding the heart of effort, people are inherently dead, but you have to see if your life is meaningful. When you are about to leave this world, will you feel lost when you look back on your life, so come on and work hard to get through this life.

Think like this, make every effort to do better, your life will change little by little, it will become better and better, think about your parents, think about them, and it will become the driving force of life in the future!

There are decades before you die, and if you have no pursuit of the quality of life in these decades, then you will come to this world in vain. Does this mean that these decades don't make sense to you, and now you can fast forward to the end?

Boredom is too much to pursue in life, without ideas and goals, and complaining all day long. Doing what you are doing is the best thing to do. There's nothing you can't do, just do your best to do it.

Life is nothing more than this, everything is lenient, everything is light, no matter what, you must remember to laugh, angry is very tired, a lifetime is just a few days, people are not tired, but tired.

Self-soothing that has no positivity in life.

A negative, broken jar mentality. It is recommended to watch inspirational movies such as The Shawshank Redemption and The King of Comedy, which will help.

There is no love in life. An extremely negative mindset can eventually lead to depression.

If so, what about your parents?

If you lose, you will lose, some things will always come, since they are gone, it is better to live happily.