I always felt that my parents were separated and quarreled with each other, and it hurt me a lot, bu

When I was young, my parents often quarreled and even used to fight, and every time my brother and I were scared to death, I felt that I didn't want to get married, and I was very afraid. When I grow up, on the one hand, I feel that everyone has their own path to take, and they can't control others, so they can only grasp themselves, simply put, they choose the right person for themselves, and do everything possible to avoid becoming a person who is easy to cause family conflicts; On the other hand, I also understand that the quarrel between my parents may not be due to their own reasons, or they are affected by the environment, or they have a way of getting along. Then I stabilized my emotions, gave them more care, and adjusted, and slowly got better.

Such parents can only be said to be more selfish, but emotional matters can only be solved by themselves, and they are really noisy, so you can find a place to hide.

The influence of family on children really exists in the subconscious for a lifetime, in fact, many times I will think that there is really a harmonious family in this world, is there really a family that does not quarrel (at least not to say that it is so fierce) does not fight, and can I really meet a other half who can be trusted and entrusted in the future, I don't know how to get along with the other half.

How much your parents quarrel will have an impact on you, and you should let go of your own mentality and don't think too much.

Kiss. We'll be happy to answer for you. When there is a gap between you and your parents, you should first find out the cause of the estrangement.

The parents' concept of the times is very different from the children's concept of the times, so they always like to use their own experience to educate and demand their children, and the children are not willing to accept it, so it is easy to be estranged. You must know that every parent will have the eagerness to hope for their son to become a Chan, and their children will be very repulsive to some unreasonable requirements of their parents. For example, you are not allowed to read books outside of the course; No access to television; No going out at night, etc.

Parents will always interfere in all aspects of their children's affairs, and in their eyes, their children are still young; Children think that they are already adults, and parents should not interfere too much, so they will often quarrel and resist their parents from "manipulating" themselves. Over time, the gap between me and my parents grows.

It seems that the main trigger for the problem is quarrels.

But have you figured out why you quarreled with your mother?

The family favors my mother because it is not right for you to scold your mother no matter what, because my mother is an elder and the one who gave birth to us, she is not pretending to be wronged, but really heartbroken, because my mother is such a big person, and she is scolded by your child.

You were injured, and instead of taking me to the hospital, they scolded me first. You know why? Because as parents, they are very anxious about your injury, but the Chinese expression is like this, beating is love, scolding is love, this ancient saying is reflected in family affection, but because of your misunderstanding, anger, quarrel, so the love for you becomes your education and makes you reflect.

I hope you can understand your family's love and learn to understand.

You can't commit suicide casually, your family cares about you, and you have to learn to communicate more with your family.

There are such parents!! If you open your eyes, then you can only be patient, avoid arguing with them, and slowly prove to them how good you are. I dare to pack a ticket, they must have a very different attitude towards you...

There must be other reasons for how old you are.

And that's true that your parents are right, you drive 4500, and if you spend it yourself, it's definitely enough to not subsidize your family, but now you have to subsidize your family, and now your girlfriend doesn't go to work, and she has to use you, so you definitely don't have enough money, and now let your girlfriend go to work, so your parents can't say anything.

Parents are all for the good of their children. Understanding the feelings of parents, what parent wants their children to suffer?

However, love is a matter of two people, if you really love very much, even if there is great suffering in the future, you are willing to bear it without complaints, then continue, otherwise, please think clearly, after all, it is a material society now.

When two people are together, it's not as simple as you love me, I love you. Now is one of those things that you will encounter, and it will test you.

It's up to you to treat the relationship.

There may be two reasons why your parents are always arguing. First, they may really have a bad relationship, but because of you, they take into account your feelings and make do with them in order to give you a complete home. Second, they may have been accustomed to this kind of life for so many years.

Both of them have strong personalities and don't give in to each other, but they have feelings and run this home together, but they always quarrel and don't take into account your feelings, which makes you feel that they have a bad relationship. If it's the first reason, then you're really miserable. You just show your attitude so that the two of them don't twist together and hurt each other.

If it's the other one, then you can talk to them about your pain, and you can reconcile it appropriately, maybe they will take into account that your feelings will change. When your parents are arguing or having a cold war, you must not sulk like them, you should naturally stay at home, watch TV and eat normally, as if nothing had happened. If you feel like your home is deserted, why not do something on your own to make your home warmer?

You can put some ** on your own, you can sing by yourself, of course, don't forget to interact with your parents, you can peel an apple for your parents, and don't forget to say at this time: "It's tiring to quarrel, let's eat an apple first." "I think as parents will definitely change when they see you so calm and how you behave.

If your parents are arguing and you're feeling miserable, you can tell them what you think. But when parents quarrel, they must not quarrel with them, let alone criticize them. You can tell them your pain and grievances at the same time in the form of a note or text message.

You can write something like, "You're all adults, what's the problem that can't be solved and you have to quarrel?" When you quarrel, I am the one who suffers the most. "If you can face your parents' quarrels naturally and calmly, I believe that your parents will be proud to have such a wonderful child, and their emotions will be better because of your presence.

Parents quarrel is commonplace, don't be sad about it, you can try to help your parents solve it. But generally speaking, we can't solve any problems, after all, the feelings of parents and the contradictions between parents have to be solved by themselves, as children, we have to think about some by ourselves.

Just be yourself, make yourself happy, leave them alone, because the road is your own walking, if you are always troubled by these family conflicts, how to face the future, you must still be young, focus on yourself. There is time to learn to let go.

Your parents are not in good mood and often quarrel.

The two people are inseparable from each other, and the family is very different.

Zhi harmony,Actually, I think you don't care too much about the tangled version.,When you're older, you'll slowly understand that this is life! Quarreling and fighting is the real life of husband and wife. Some couples divorce without quarrel, and some couples quarrel all their lives and still stay together.

It's amazing how it is. Your parents have a bad relationship, often quarrel and two people can't be separated, the family is very not harmonious, in fact, I don't think you have to care too much about being too entangled, when you get older, you will slowly understand that this is life!Quarreling and fighting is the real life of husband and wife.

Some couples divorce without quarrel, and some couples quarrel all their lives and still stay together. It's amazing how it is.

Hi, hello. As a child of a single-parent family, I feel that I can give relatively objective advice. They don't get along with you.

version has nothing to do with life after that.

First of all, I support you to get out. This family background has nothing to do with it, but it is necessary to go out and push yourself to the edge of your comfort zone, after all, 20 The economy still depends on the family.

Are you running away?If it can be reconciled, you can talk to your mother and father, if it is particularly excessive, you should not mix it, and you will rely on yourself for the rest of your life. The starting point of going out is not to escape from the quarrels of parents, but to better yourself.

If you don't have money, you will go to the provincial capital, and if you have a little money and education, you will go to Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou. Now that the network is developed, many large companies have gone to third- and fourth-tier cities to develop. Nowadays, the level of cities is becoming more and more flat, and second-, third- and fourth-tier cities are developing by leaps and bounds.

Of course, the status of Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen cannot be shaken, and if you have the opportunity, it is best to go to the front line.

No one will take it.

Whoever comes, the character is very straightforward, very stubborn, very short-tempered, and the temper comes quickly. As long as they still have the strength, they will quarrel while they still live together, quarreling is their life, and quarreling is the most direct communication between them. Adult quarrelsome families generally do not have their own wealth, although they are very capable of working, they always can't save money in the end, and they finally save some money, and they will spend it because of something else, which is a very big feature of quarrelsome families.

Children who live in such families.

It can happen in every household, and couples quarrel du

It should be something that is inevitable in the process of life.

It can cause friction because of a little thing. However, in the eyes of the child, it may feel very uncomfortable, so this is also a knot in your heart, I think parents quarrel, you should play the role of a "peacemaker", when parents quarrel, you should take the initiative to persuade the fight, instead of watching, you should go to prevent things from developing towards more serious situations.

Previous marriages were all blind dates, so quarrels were inevitable. They like to quarrel, let them be fried, and what about your family when you answer me later?Just take care of your own family, and you don't have to worry about your parents.

They quarreled to death, don't let their mood affect your marriage in the future. Quarrels are inevitable. It's not okay to fight, and it's even worse to use a knife.

If you really can't get by, let your parents divorce. Words like this. You just be a single parent.

Anyway. If your parents are not happy together, why should you be together. As a child.

If you want, tell them not to quarrel, or get a divorce quickly. Don't say. For anyone.

Quarrels between husband and wife should be something that is inevitable in the course of life, and there may be friction because of a little thing. However, in the eyes of the child, it will feel very uncomfortable, so this is also a knot in your heart, I think parents quarrel, you should play the role of a "peacemaker", when parents quarrel, you should take the initiative to persuade the fight, instead of watching. You should stop things from going more serious.

You can earn money, and if you can earn a lot of money to support your family, you will solve all problems. Most of the discord in a family is caused by lack of money. Because money is everything.

Maybe that's how your parents communicate their feelings. Just do your part.

I understand your feelings very well, some couples just live a lifetime of quarrels, if you can understand their choices, you will feel better.

Everyone's personality and cultivation are different, and sometimes communication is not in place, and it is normal to have conflicts and quarrels. When the parents quarrel, the children should not vent, but let them vent, so as not to add fuel to the fire. It is difficult for a clean official to break off his family.

Affairs; The public says that the public is reasonable, and the mother-in-law says that the mother-in-law is reasonable, and the more rational it is, the more chaotic it is, and it is better for them to solve it by themselves. Sometimes couples quarrel as a way to communicate. After living for a long time, they communicate and run in the contention, and the quarrel will become less and less.

Usually, you try to do your best and do your best to meet their expectations of you. You don't have to worry, after all, he has lived for so many years, and they will be fine after the quarrel.

Improve your qi cultivation skills, learn less from them, you can help dissuade them when they quarrel, speak with reason, whoever is wrong to say whom, both are at fault, say both, if they don't listen to dissuasion, they don't fight and drop things, then leave them alone, and when you grow up, you can live outside by yourself.

Read more classics, use your wisdom and filial piety to infect, transform the power of your value, if your harmonious and inclusive power can be greater than the power of right and wrong, then harmony will not be far away, only strive to improve yourself, with your own charm, to influence the obsession ......... others

First of all, let's talk about the birthdays of the parents, the two will often quarrel if they don't get along, read it, take the time to ask the time of birth of the parents, say hello and then come and see!

You can communicate with them more, but it is important to talk well.

You just have to be yourself. You can't get involved in the things of the previous generation.

The experience of the elders, life is a lot that we don't understand, whether they are happy or painful.

I would also like to know the answer to this question!!

How old are you! Male and female.

Your own marriage is up to you, having said that, but if your parents are against you being together, then you should also think about it carefully, listen to your parents' opinions, if your parents make sense, then you should listen to your parents, after all, they are all from the past, more experienced, besides, they will not lie to you, and it is a matter of course to listen to your parents!

If your relationship is not blessed by your parents, then do you think you will be blessed, and in the future, you and your parents will not get along with each other, so don't give up your parents for the sake of a person, because only parents will be really good to you, they will not lie to you!

Your current situation is strongly opposed by your parents, then you should calm down and think about why your parents are against you being together, think about whether what your parents said is right, you are now in love, you will definitely not be able to tell, you can also let your friends come out to help you come up with ideas, to see if you are suitable to be with him, if it is really not suitable then you should deal with this matter well! Or if you are separated from each other for a while, calm down and think about whether your relationship can be long-lasting!

Even if your parents are right, you should have your own opinions, see if your feelings can withstand the torture, if you can't stand the wind and waves, then it may really not be suitable, in fact, the emotional things are really contradictory, because others don't know your specific situation, you should also think about it, what to do is right, no matter how you do it, you should make yourself happy is the most important thing, only if you are happy, your parents will follow you to work hard!