Why does everyone only know how to cherish when they lose?

It's weird, isn't it, you don't know how to cherish it until you lose it! In fact, people are like this, what you can't get is always the best ......You may not think it will be like when you have it, but when you lose it, you will know what heartache is. Most people get used to doing something or accepting someone's feelings for a while, but one day when you stop what you have done and accept from someone, you feel as if something is missing.

Actually, nothing is missing, it's just that you're starting to get used to that kind of life, that feeling...So when you lose it, you will think that he is valuable, and if you cherish it at the beginning, he will not leave you now. So cherish what you have now, and don't wait until everything is gone from you, all you have left is regret and self-blame!

What you lose no longer has、、、 because you have it, you are used to having something, so when you lose it, it will be very awkward、、、 you are not afraid of losing, you are afraid of getting used to it、、、 isn't it??

Because he has become a habit around you, so used to ignoring him, taking it for granted, and when it's time to leave. If you suddenly don't adapt to the environment without him, you will slowly think of his goodness, and you will gradually feel that you have not cherished him well, and take everything for granted and too ordinary. Only when they are separated will they think of his goodness!

Only when I lost it did I know that I didn't cherish it. What is lost is always beautiful.

Because I have lost it, I will realize that I have it.

Because I lost it, I realized that I cared very much.

Because people don't know it when they have it, they will lose it...

Because they don't know how to cherish.

Yes, there are some things or some things, some people, when people have it, they don't know how to cherish it, once they lose it, they feel the value of its existence and use, and no matter how much they regret it, it is irretrievable.

The cup is lonely, being poured boiling water, the feeling of being hot, so the cup thinks this is the feeling of love, when the water becomes warmer, the cup feels very comfortable, I think this is the feeling of life, the water is cold, the cup is very scared, I think maybe this is the feeling of being afraid of losing, the water becomes cold again, the feeling of the cup is also very uncomfortable, I don't want to have a tasteless feeling, so I want to pour the water out、、、 the water is finally poured out, at this time the cup feels very comfortable, but it is also poured to the ground at the same time, Broken into pieces, the cup found that on every fragment, there will be traces of water, it knows that it still loves water in its heart, it wants to love water again but it is impossible, is it only lost will know how to cherish? Only when everything has passed does you know the happiness of the past? The facts have warned us to cherish what we have now, and not to regret it until we lose it, but it's too late.

Reality is always cruel, it doesn't give us that chance, some things are missed and won't come back.

After losing, I know that I have to cherish, people are like this, what I can't get is always the best, so people always deliberately pursue those things that can never be obtained, and often ignore the people around them who have been silently loving themselves, when they realize who is really worth cherishing, but things have changed, and people have gone. If you are in true love, then don't break up easily, and don't wait until you lose it to regret it. At that time, the pain was unforgettable.

There are many people in the world who only know how to cherish when they lose, we should cherish the people we have around us, and don't lose an opportunity or a lover because of others, so we will lose a lot.

In the face of our lover, we should treat it with a tolerant heart, no matter what happens, we should tolerate each other and think more about each other's good, so that the relationship between two people will last for a long time.